~Emo~ Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Me and Cassie have been dating for awhile ad its been pretty good. That is until My best Friend Zayne and his gf, Ashley started doing something stupid like anniversaries or something like that. Any way, Cassie gets jealous very easily. Se got upset that every so often they would exchange gifts. Now she is talking to me about doing some gay monthiversarie thing were we celebrate every month. I do not want to do this retarded thing. What should I do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Do it, if you expect to get anything other then the cold shoulder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 14, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 But i love her. She will give me the cold shoulder no doubt if i do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 But i love her. She will give me the cold shoulder no doubt if i do it. Huh? Your statement makes no sense. Anyway, a monthiversery is stupid. Just do an aniversary, like once a year >_>. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jericho Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Tell her you really like her, but you just plain don't want to do this. And if she wants to stay with you, she'll respect you and you decision to not do this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davok Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Just go with it. She'll probably get bored with it in a month or so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 14, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 But i love her. She will give me the cold shoulder no doubt if i do it. Huh? Your statement makes no sense. Anyway' date=' [b']a monthiversery is stupid[/b]. Just do an aniversary, like once a year >_>. Exactly! She always get jealous of things other people have that she wants. Thats why she wants this, because of Ashley! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jericho Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 But i love her. She will give me the cold shoulder no doubt if i do it. Huh? Your statement makes no sense. Anyway' date=' [b']a monthiversery is stupid[/b]. Just do an aniversary, like once a year >_>. Exactly! She always get jealous of things other people have that she wants. Thats why she wants this, because of Ashley! Then you know what you must do. You must kill Ashley. And gimme the the corpse. :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarbleZone Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Omega's into necrophilia. On-topic though, say no if you don't want to. She either accepts it and you both move on, or she's a spoiled brat, doesn't accept it and you move on by yourself and hopefully find somebody with a bit of personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 14, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 Omega's into necrophilia. On-topic though' date=' say no if you don't want to. She either accepts it and you both move on, or she's a spoiled brat, doesn't accept it and you move on by yourself and hopefully find somebody with a bit of personality.[/quote'] She is not spoiled, just stubborn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Slime Lord Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 If she's as stubborn as you say she is and getting worked up over something as stupid as a "gay monthiversarie thing", break up with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Phoenix Posted March 14, 2009 Report Share Posted March 14, 2009 If she's incredibly stubborn, you're not gonna win this one, at least not without some serious speechcraft skill. There a few solutions I see: A) If you're a smooth talker, attempt to talk her out of it.B) Offer something better. For example, if you like going out to dinner, you could take her out to a fancy place. Heck, you could even bring a small thoughtful gift (something simple like a rose {black roses = awesome} or a necklace). If you can do that, you'd actually compromise. She gets what she wants, and you get to do something you want. If she has a jealous personality, she'd be ecstatic that she has something ashley has (gift giving monthly) + something more (special activity date). This one seems to earn you bonus points with her even.C) You could talk to her, tell her you don't like the idea, and suggest a new thing for you 2 to do that you both like.D) Just go along with it. A present once a month is simple to fulfill, plus she'll like it alot.E) The Tea.Leaf solution: Punch her in the face and go kill yourself. I don't recommend this one.Personally, I'd go with B or C. You both get what you want. With B, she'll even be twice as happy. There's my advice for you. Good luck =D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 If she's incredibly stubborn' date=' you're not gonna win this one, at least not without some serious speechcraft skill. There a few solutions I see: A) If you're a smooth talker, attempt to talk her out of it.B)[b'] Offer something better. For example, if you like going out to dinner, you could take her out to a fancy place. Heck, you could even bring a small thoughtful gift (something simple like a rose {black roses = awesome} or a necklace). If you can do that, you'd actually compromise. She gets what she wants, and you get to do something you want. If she has a jealous personality, she'd be ecstatic that she has something ashley has (gift giving monthly) + something more (special activity date). This one seems to earn you bonus points with her even.[/b]C) You could talk to her, tell her you don't like the idea, and suggest a new thing for you 2 to do that you both like.D) Just go along with it. A present once a month is simple to fulfill, plus she'll like it alot.E) The Tea.Leaf solution: Punch her in the face and go kill yourself. I don't recommend this one.Personally, I'd go with B or C. You both get what you want. With B, she'll even be twice as happy. There's my advice for you. Good luck =D My godfather only gives my 30$ a week =( I can pay for most of that stuff, but i will have to save for a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desu the Blue Nerd Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Tell her that if your two's relationship actually matters you don't need something as stupid as a monthiversary to judge that. The only reason your friend and his girlfriend do it is ore of a bribe to stay for another month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
「tea.leaf」 Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 You're an ass; go kill yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 You're an ass; go kill yourself. I can picture that being said to me.. but to him? o.0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 You're an ass; go kill yourself. U may go hang yourself now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Phoenix Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 If she's incredibly stubborn' date=' you're not gonna win this one, at least not without some serious speechcraft skill. There a few solutions I see: A) If you're a smooth talker, attempt to talk her out of it.B)[b'] Offer something better. For example, if you like going out to dinner, you could take her out to a fancy place. Heck, you could even bring a small thoughtful gift (something simple like a rose {black roses = awesome} or a necklace). If you can do that, you'd actually compromise. She gets what she wants, and you get to do something you want. If she has a jealous personality, she'd be ecstatic that she has something ashley has (gift giving monthly) + something more (special activity date). This one seems to earn you bonus points with her even.[/b]C) You could talk to her, tell her you don't like the idea, and suggest a new thing for you 2 to do that you both like.D) Just go along with it. A present once a month is simple to fulfill, plus she'll like it alot.E) The Tea.Leaf solution: Punch her in the face and go kill yourself. I don't recommend this one.Personally, I'd go with B or C. You both get what you want. With B, she'll even be twice as happy. There's my advice for you. Good luck =D My godfather only gives my 30$ a week =( I can pay for most of that stuff, but i will have to save for a week. It's a gift exchange right? What are her funds? You could both combine your assets 1 week of every month to do something special together. If you have enough together, you'd both be able to have some personal spending money left over. Remember, it's the thought that counts. It doesn't have to be too fancy and expensive. I did a google search aand stumbled upon this, http://www.sharpe-designs.com/alchemy-gothic-black-roses.htm Those all seem nice. I'm not sure what the currency exchange is on that though, but if the price is close to the same amount in US dollars, it looks like it's within your budget. You'd need a paypal though, and a credit card. If your godfather has one, you could use it for the purchase, and then pay him back the money. I hope this helped =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyber Altair Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 A good example would be not to take advice from a Yu-Gi-Oh site with a HUGE number of virgins. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bury the year Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 If you're obsessing over her still, despite the fact that she's being anal-retentive (which is what it sounds like) over such a minor fact, cut the relationship off now before things go downhill. She seems to be rather petty and materialistic. IMO, of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
「tea.leaf」 Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Is it just me, or are a lot of my posts getting deleted? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeoDemonX Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Hey Zillaz, are you the boss or is she the boss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Hey Zillaz' date=' are you the boss or is she the boss[/quote'] Cassie > Me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Wolf Posted March 15, 2009 Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Me and Laura only do 3 yearly things. Birthday, 1 Year ann, and Xmas. Just tell her you don't have the cash to do that. that's what i tell Laura when she wants something. But every once in a while i give her something special. So if she wants something gift wise: Man up and tell her No, or make something special... or take her out to dinner or something like that. at least that's my advice Hey Zillaz' date=' are you the boss or is she the boss[/quote'] Cassie > Me. then again it is the other way around for me Me > Laura Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted March 15, 2009 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2009 Me and Laura only do 3 yearly things. Birthday' date=' 1 Year ann, and Xmas. Just tell her you don't have the cash to do that. that's what i tell Laura when she wants something. But every once in a while i give her something special. So if she wants something gift wise: Man up and tell her No, or make something special... or take her out to dinner or something like that. at least that's my advice Hey Zillaz' date=' are you the boss or is she the boss[/quote'] Cassie > Me. then again it is the other way around for me Me > Laura If I man up I might get, beat up. She is much taller than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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