The_Prince_of_Death Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 So' date=' just right now my friend Jess, told me that his recent ex gf just an hero'd her self (aka killed her self) one day after they broke up (i think it was yesterday or something idk). Now i hardly know this girl and stuff, but Im guessing he wants me to feel bad or something. ANYWAYS lets get to my Dilemma, I am in; I feel nothing at all about this and all i can say to him is "that sucks man". But to be bluntly honest I'm upset now, because i don't have a ride to my concert on Sunday, since hes not going. Does this make me a bad person?[/quote'] it doesnt make you a bad person. you didnt kill her nor did you really even know her. try to act sad about her death since you dont eel much sorrow over her death anyway. it happens to me too.I see someone dead on the road or something and I just act sad. if its an animal then I'm really sad because i have feelings for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shrekstasy Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 You don't have to feel anything. Just tell him that your in so much shock that you cannot express your emotions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wuu. Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 You don't have to feel anything. Just tell him that your in so much shock that you cannot express your emotions. Heh, this has to be the best one yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Supreme Gamesmaster Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 Yes' date=' that makes you a verry bad person.[/quote'] Oh! Contrare! dear blind one. If one is stupid enough to end their life over another person just because they hurt their feelings... Only means that they should die. People like that want the whole of existance to feel bad for them because they are self centered and basicly want people to suffer because they feel like they are suffering for such a stupid reason... anyway.. .they deserve to die. So no babe! Your not a bad person for not feeling bad. <3Ooh, apathetic elitist Darwinist. @OP: Your friend has every right to feel horrible; in essence, he has thrown away his destined partner, by killing her. Whether or not you feel for him is your choice; however, if I were him, I'd get you out of my circle of friends as quickly as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyber Altair Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 I'm worse; I hold no emotions for the deaths of those I did know' date=' even relatives.[/quote'] That. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jericho Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 In no way does not feeling anything make you a bad person. If anything, it makes you a better person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Supreme Gamesmaster Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 In no way does not feeling anything make you a bad person. If anything' date=' it makes you a better person.[/quote']Apathy actually makes one a worse person; an apathetic being is more likely to readily dispose of immediately useless resources, making them worse in both financial and tactical fields. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 No. That doesn't make you a bad person. It's not your job to care about people who are dead. I funking hate when people act like you're a dick because you don't feel bad about someone you didn't know dying.If it makes you a bad person' date=' then I'm probably the spawn of Satan. I laugh at orphans and then show them pictures of my parents saying "Haha I have a family."[/quote'] I eat the parents of children, then write them a letter explaining how I prepared them and how good they tasted, and that they are now orphans. :O HABEEB IT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Phoenix Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 I feel sad, but I don't show emotion or cry all day or anything like that. When your relaatives die, do you really think what they want is for you to be miserable? I think they'd be happier knowing all was well than going out knowing everyone was miserable. And funerals need some clarification too. They are supposed to be a celebration of that person's life, not a bunch of people that don't know each other sitting around and crying. And just because we don't express it, it doesn't mean we're not mourning (alot of religions or just moral obligation require that the dead be mourned). We still feel grief and sorrow, which is mourning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Lord Posted March 29, 2009 Report Share Posted March 29, 2009 Nah, not a bad person. But if you weren't/aren't there for him, that would make you a cold person (in my opinion.) Just be there even if you never knew the girl, say what you have to say, do what you have to do to make him feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 A friend who has no sympathy? I have empathy over that. Well, you should help out your friend through the maybe "depression" or sadness he is going through. Instead of just saying "That sucks," and being upset over the concert instead a dying person, you should be caring and give advice to your friend. You should say, "It's not a problem that you can't take me to the concert. Really, I just want you to feel better," but instead you felt a bit coldhearted. Your not a bad person, but you should at least "act" more sympathic. The Crimson One,Miranda-chan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenIsAGreatBand Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 That poor guy! :'( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 No, it doesn't make you a bad person. Having people put their problems on other people's shoulders is complete and udder bull crap. Maybe the dude shouldn't have broken up with her, better yet, even gone out with a psycho person willing to kill herself -.-" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Çå®∂îñål Posted March 30, 2009 Report Share Posted March 30, 2009 idk i dont know her and im not a bad person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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