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Ok. Recently my best friend Zayne' date=' got himself a gf. She is kind of a nerd and not so pretty. He also has turned satanic. So when I try to hang out with him he pushes me away. He tells me to go away. He has also stated to hang out with Satanic goths. I walk beside him and he goes "Stop fallowing me!" he also says go away, ou make me want to kill myself!

 

But he talks to his other friends to. Just not me. And when he ignores me. I just wanna kill him. So what should i do? I have known him since i was 7 and I don't wanna lose my best friend.

 

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it is relative simple..His gf doesnt like you and the boy is whipped..but if he is your best friend then dont stop trying..Me and my best friend have been friends for 14 years. I have stuck with him throgh the worst of girls and I beat his ass when I found out he got on crack. Just keep trying and if he yells "stop following me" you yell "NO you are following me", and then kick him in the ass.

 

his other friends may be different then you and maybe what you are is something that he wants to be and hates his self for the fact that what he wants to be is something he cant be because his girlfriend doesnt like that type of people. I would get him alone and talk to him see what his problem is away from everyone and find out what has crawled up his ass. If he pulls that "You make me want to kill myself" sheet then tell him give me the gun and I will pull the trigger for you. Friends are a dime a dozen but best friends is like finding a hundard on the side of the road, and if he really is or was that good of a friend then you dont need to stop trying.

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He talked to me today and fallowed me. But all he talked about was suicide and the devil. I am still not happy.

 

Get rid of him. Satanic people will really screw up your life. If you keep hanging around with him, you will be affected negatively.

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I recommend cutting yourself. That's what helps me when I fight with my friends over things as serious as girlfriends. Friend's girlfriends are a serious business, so you may have to take drastic measures. But from what I've seen, you usually complain about your life a lot anyway, so cutting yourself might not be that drastic. :D

 

@.:Raelen//:Solo:.: It's just a philosophy. Satanism, specifically LeVay Satanism, isn't all that bad. It's actually pretty humanistic if anything. And it doesn't involve worshiping Satan, or any deity whatsoever.

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Its hard losing a friend, but you have to move on I lost my best friend just last January I moved to Pitt and we tried to stay in touch, but just couldn't do it I knew that I had to forgot so I did. He is not a real friend if he does that. You should just move on it sometimes the hardest thing to do. T_T. And maybe his GF just doesn't Like to you have a right to find out if he hates you for no reason he is not a real friend.

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I actually went through the same thing, from the other point of view that is. My best friend was always a nerd, but 2 years ago, when i met him in 6th grade, i was as immature as him, so i didnt mind. but as i grew older, I began to mature and he stayed the same. around the third trimester of 8th grade, he became so annoying that i didn't even wanna hear his voice. For the record, I'm not a Jerk, but if you were in my place, well, he started talking about Pokémon and all this junk, not saying it isn't cool and all, but he started "playing the characters" and reinacting the duels in front of public! So what did I do? I just waited for Summer Break to pass without even talking to him, and i was fully refreshed during present day 8th grade. So my advice, back off for a while (i suggest about 2-3 months). But give hints that your still his friend. Like, hang with your other friends and don't make new ones yet.

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He talked to me today and fallowed me. But all he talked about was suicide and the devil. I am still not happy.

 

Well when he starts talking about the devil you start talking about Budda, or just something off the wall like that. Just tell him its time for him to stop listening to My chemical romance and all the bands along that line, and start listenin to Lamb of God and Devildriver. More percise Lamb of God-Redneck and Devildriver-Meet the Wretched. Well if this isnt working then you need to go tell the guidence councler. Take it from my personal experiance, when they start talking about self-destructive things then its a cry for help. They want to see how people will act if they where gone or not. When I say personal experiance, when I was 13 a good friend of mine started acting like that and I didnt notice it and didnt tell noone, and 2 weeks later he took his dads shotgun and shot the side of his face off. I still blame myself for it, but it happens and your friend needs help something is going on and it is getting to him.

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After he got his gf he started being unkind to me.

 

It's just a phase that he either decided to do because

a) He really likes his new girlfriend and some people act different to get others to like them.

b) His girlfriend doesn't like you and wants you out of his life so she could be turning him against you.

or c) He chose it himself. Over time people make their own decisions about their life and this could be his.

 

My advice:-

-Talk to him alone and try and find out more about why he chose this lifestyle. If he says you make him want to kill himself again then don't let that phase you. It means he's backed into a corner and thinks the only way out is trying to scare you away. That's ll I can suggest for now.

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I saw him today and said very little. He left because he apparently got "Suspended" for saying things to the school councilor.

 

What he deserves' date='also you really need to convert him to be your friend if he only has his GF to talk to,if they broke up,then you need to talk to him alone or surprise him by getting him what he always wanted[/font']

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