Saturn of Elemia Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 Looks don't matter to me at all... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shrekstasy Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 Trophy wife' date=' ftw.[/quote'] Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid. Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 Depends on who your talking about. Celebrities - Theirs a reason they are making billions of dollars and your stuck behind a cubicle. Normal People - Also tends to fall upon who your talking about. Genuine people can lift past little tiny blemishes in one's looks, and fall in love with the inner person, the true one. While some people cannot go past the gruesome looks and just try to ignore the person and not give them a chance. While trying to decide whether looks are everything or not, try looking inside the person before you judge the outside. It helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 =/ to be honest in some aspects I agree with all of you but sometimes people who are ugly (no offence) say looks are not everything because they never grew up in a superficial group and got the kind of attention they did I am a bit more open minded now but I grew up mainly with people who judged others on how they look however I also agree with Icyblue it is proof that some ugly people do get married and have children but could that be because they never fit into a superficial group and instead of looking for a relationship based on apperance they looked for one on personality instead I do not how it is in the u.s but most of the superficial people in england are smart and usualy get good grades. sorry for any spelling or grammer errors did my best so on ~oscar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 The look of a person, is not only important to the person him/herself, but to the eye of the viewer.Because, we as human beings, are always looking for a way to better improve. Be it, physical strength, power, or beauty.We have always, and will always, place ourselves on a pedestal, for the sake of perfection. Because we being humans, are not perfect. We are merely the action of a thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RickiMinaj Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 Ahh, how many lady point of views do we have in here? Well, In my honest opinion, yes, i do care about looks. But that doesn't mean that I have the hi standards of a Snobby person who only cares about making her/himself look good just to be with another person. A relationship is always based on more than just looks. Yes, people do care about looks, but don't we all. I doubt there is a single person in here who can honestly say that "I don't care how i look". I know i cant, and i will never be able too. Because as bloodrun said, we judge each other. Humanity see's only imperfection, and Beauty is an imperfection beyond compare. Looks, looks, and looks. Is that all someone really cares about. I'll be honest, i found this really Dorky kid who goes to my college attractive. No-one else liked him, but i did. So yes i do look for looks, but i don't confound myself into the dark pools of pure beauty just to make myself look good because I'm going out with a hot guy. Thats just not me. So basically, what i would like to sum up, is that if we click, then Ill take my chances ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 to blood run =P a bit of a philosipher (if i used that in the right context) ^_v anyhow true but that is your opinion it is not well rounded realy some husbands and wifes may go for each other based purely on personality nothing else im pretty sure at first my mum and dads relationship as uni students was just superficial it is an argument based on such different opinions witch is why I thought it would make a good debate~ oscar. to Essence you think what i think in some short terms if we click I will take my chances but if we click and the person is well ugly yes, yes I will be superficial to be honest it is not only for myself but for a bit of a shallow reason witch is it could also effect my reputation I am pretty happy with the way my rep is at school and being seen with someone ugly could effect it - is that to shallow ? ~ oscar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RickiMinaj Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 To Oscar. ~ Well, yes it kind of is. That truly, and honestly is. But i do see how you could say this because yes, i have been in your shoes before. Its either your reputation, or the person. Its your basic emotion on what people want to think about you. If your Reputation is pretty well at school, no-one would honestly care if you hung around a less attractive person, or even an unattractive one at that. Popularity is a very sensitive bubble, but if they are your true friends, the bubble stays strong, and not even the sharpest pencil, nor the pointiest needle can pop it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 It is an interesting theory or even fact who knowsbut how can you realy call them your true friends judging that they did befriend you or talk to you based on how they first judged you on either you appearance or your personality in my opinion you can never call someone a true friend because they can turn at any miniute based on what you do if you say something that upsets them and so on It is a diffucult situation in general because I have been in this situation before I met my girlfriend and if I were to do it even if people were to not care I may feel uncomftorble with it and therefor make me feel nervous and she would probably notice something. Like I said at first my relationship was superficial but I found more in her (go to post a picture of the real you to see me slightly wasted but you will see my gf sort of not wasted) ~ oscar.you all ways have to contridict me dont you ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neiko Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 We try to think it's not. But in reality, it is very much so. Looks are very important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 =P well its not as long and harder to debate with but agreed people try to maintaine a certain phacade in public by saying its personality that counts but in reality not one person can say they are fully satisfied with the way they are even if it is something so insignificant only you would see am i right ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 to blood run =P a bit of a philosipher (if i used that in the right context) ^_v anyhow true but that is your opinion it is not well rounded realy some husbands and wifes may go for each other based purely on personality nothing else im pretty sure at first my mum and dads relationship as uni students was just superficial it is an argument based on such different opinions witch is why I thought it would make a good debate~ oscar. Normally you would be correct, but look/personality/popularity, all strives for one thing, and that is perfection.Though some may look for looks, and some my look for personality, the reasons as to why each look for them, and the reason as to why each person tries to perfect their category, is because we feed on the wanting of perfection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 ok you win that debate I think in the fact that everyone does in one way or another strive for perfection if anyone disagrees do say so. What about highschool relationships I dont like flings but I hate it when they get obssesive and crap and wright over there myspace or whatever like I <3 ..... john and charlotte or whatever its annoying ! =P and the only solution seems to be breaking up with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 ok you win that debate I think in the fact that everyone does in one way or another strive for perfection if anyone disagrees do say so. What about highschool relationships I dont like flings but I hate it when they get obssesive and crap and wright over there myspace or whatever like I <3 ..... john and charlotte or whatever its annoying ! =P and the only solution seems to be breaking up with them. I despise Myspace and Facebook for this very reason.I went to my old highschool yesterday morning. And sat through a class with a friend of mine. and 3 teenage girls were talking about, who looks the hardest on their Myspace picture "fo' they babies daddy". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 ugh god thats gross I mean no offence it is yeah this is the one gf iv ever had who doesnt do that crap and probably the longest relationship i have ever had but seriously that crap annoys me to i also hate it when they type like missin' yah babes or some crap like that its like yeahh i havent seen you for a day because I have been ill or whatever I have to completly agree with you on that [spoiler=click to view]she changes her hair colour from brown to blonde alot in the post a pic of you thread I think she looks alot better with brown hair I wonder if its like that for girls with low self-esteem to it may not be considering they dont have much confidence but not looking good may make them want to try harder to look good but some girls try to hard =S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Altαir Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 It's human concepts. Obviously, since all of you are humans, you do not understand them. They are simple, when you get use to it. Humans are self-focused on an aspect of another. Technically, if a person was to be... a good person... to one other, it may not be the same for another. Unless you share the exact same brains and thoughts, you will think of beauty in a different way that others. So "improving yourself" could be an aspect that some would think is good and some who think it's bad. I don't understand human concepts either, so that's the best I could explain. This is one of the reasons no person can be perfect, because as long as someone thinks that you're not perfect, you aren't perfect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oscar. Posted April 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 =P i will reply in the morning because I am going out with my gf now but i just wanted to lett you know =PPP'ssss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azmodius Posted April 26, 2009 Report Share Posted April 26, 2009 No, but they are important IMO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
super dimentio Posted April 26, 2009 Report Share Posted April 26, 2009 not just looks personality to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Omega Posted April 26, 2009 Report Share Posted April 26, 2009 Looks aren't everything, although I wish I was the least bit handsome, I believe it's their thought and hearts that counts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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