Womi Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Ciel's a clingy person who thinks a kiss equals love etc. Meh' date=' either get rid of him via breaking the news gently, or manipulate him until his usefulness is gone and toss him aside. Was she even happy about the necklace? From what I've heard she's greedy, materialistic, and snobbish, in addition to being violent towards you. I'd return the necklace. get your money back, and get the hell away from her before you're getting plates thrown at you and having your life controlled by her lust for money and objects. I've seen this happen. It will make any "my life sucks" crap you might be thinking currently become your reality. Tenfold. If you're actively trying to find flaws in someone, then you're either being an overly critical arse, or you're trying to fool yourself out of the fact that it's really what you want. If you think having her as your companion for a few years (I'm assuming) equals love, you couldn't be more wrong. I've seen the same thing happen, with a woman of the same personality as cassie, a man very well off (a lawyer himself in fact), and a 25 year long marriage that was merely a lie made so that she could further manipulate him (rather, his wealth). You travel a dangerous road that has no glorious or happy ending. Your only option is to wake up and end this as soon as possible, for the longer you wait, the worse it will get. You're being very indecisive and trying to please everyone. You must not lie to yourself by actively searching for as many flaws as you can, you must make a fairly quick decision and stick with it, you must not try to please everyone. When you try to please everyone, you shall please no-one. From all I've seen (rather read), you allow yourself to be pushed around too much. Be more assertive. You don't have to be some aggressive dominant jerk, but make decisions based on what YOU feel is right (not what cassie or anyone else hammers into your head is right) and be adamant about it. You can be a tool to be used by others, or you can be a carpenter: using the tools. Or, you can be a blacksmith and forge your own path without manipulating others. The choice is yours, and yours alone. That is, if you have the resolve to make it. [spoiler=Disclaimer']Inb4: Cool Story BroCool Story Bralolwutwutlolnomudkipsseakinginternet is serious businessget back to the kitchentits or gtfogtfo out my internetsa winrar is youleroy jenkinsinb4O RLY?O BLARAGAG?GIRUGAMESH!YA RLYNO WAIO HAIlolcatsany celebrity referenceyo dog .....and any other memes you fire in a pathetic trolling attempt to trivialize my post with your overused phrase. Or for the lulz. Or for great justice. Or pony. Or because you be epin >_> O HAI! Yo dog, besides lolcats that was the most epin thing I've seen on the Interwebz! Pony! YA RLY! And now gtfo out my internets!xP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2sick4u Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this sheet? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior, I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid sheet as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Poison Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this s***? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior' date=' I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid s*** as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next.[/quote'] Finally, a decent post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Necro Pheonix Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 I just have 1 question, When did this forum start giving relationship advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerry OldMaster Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 About the time when ~Emo~ registred on this site =Pmeh apparently our General section has some loveproblem-attracting aura or stuff btw, I do find the initial question a bit stupid though ;( not because of the change from girl to boy like people will imply but because. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted July 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Ciel's a clingy person who thinks a kiss equals love etc. Meh' date=' either get rid of him via breaking the news gently, or manipulate him until his usefulness is gone and toss him aside. Was she even happy about the necklace? From what I've heard she's greedy, materialistic, and snobbish, in addition to being violent towards you. I'd return the necklace. get your money back, and get the hell away from her before you're getting plates thrown at you and having your life controlled by her lust for money and objects. I've seen this happen. It will make any "my life sucks" crap you might be thinking currently become your reality. Tenfold. If you're actively trying to find flaws in someone, then you're either being an overly critical arse, or you're trying to fool yourself out of the fact that it's really what you want. If you think having her as your companion for a few years (I'm assuming) equals love, you couldn't be more wrong. I've seen the same thing happen, with a woman of the same personality as cassie, a man very well off (a lawyer himself in fact), and a 25 year long marriage that was merely a lie made so that she could further manipulate him (rather, his wealth). You travel a dangerous road that has no glorious or happy ending. Your only option is to wake up and end this as soon as possible, for the longer you wait, the worse it will get. You're being very indecisive and trying to please everyone. You must not lie to yourself by actively searching for as many flaws as you can, you must make a fairly quick decision and stick with it, you must not try to please everyone. When you try to please everyone, you shall please no-one. From all I've seen (rather read), you allow yourself to be pushed around too much. Be more assertive. You don't have to be some aggressive dominant jerk, but make decisions based on what YOU feel is right (not what cassie or anyone else hammers into your head is right) and be adamant about it. You can be a tool to be used by others, or you can be a carpenter: using the tools. Or, you can be a blacksmith and forge your own path without manipulating others. The choice is yours, and yours alone. That is, if you have the resolve to make it. [spoiler=Disclaimer']Inb4: Cool Story BroCool Story Bralolwutwutlolnomudkipsseakinginternet is serious businessget back to the kitchentits or gtfogtfo out my internetsa winrar is youleroy jenkinsinb4O RLY?O BLARAGAG?GIRUGAMESH!YA RLYNO WAIO HAIlolcatsany celebrity referenceyo dog .....and any other memes you fire in a pathetic trolling attempt to trivialize my post with your overused phrase. Or for the lulz. Or for great justice. Or pony. Or because you be epin >_> I have actually broken up with cassie once.. But she asked me out again. Also I only buy her things that cost 40 - 70$ on a normal day and 100$ + if i do something bad or its a holiday. And she says she is strict because she does not want to lose me. =3 So i would not say she is abusing me. She is just like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 ^good view on the things but because we don't know the person we can't say if it's correct. But if you say so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMGAKITTY Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this s***? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior' date=' I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid s*** as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next.[/quote'] I had like 20 posts to my 6star. I needed this thread. I have actually broken up with cassie once.. But she asked me out again. Also I only buy her things that cost 40 - 70$ on a normal day and 100$ + if i do something bad or its a holiday. And she says she is strict because she does not want to lose me. =3 So i would not say she is abusing me. She is just like that. *coughbullshitcough* You regularly spend $40-70 on this girl? And you don't think she's just in it for the money? She's strict because she "doesn't want to lose you"? -____-But when you do something "bad" (which I'm guessing since she's so "strict" there's a lot of things considered "bad") you make up by giving her $100+ gifts. Right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted July 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this s***? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior' date=' I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid s*** as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next.[/quote'] I had like 20 posts to my 6star. I needed this thread. I have actually broken up with cassie once.. But she asked me out again. Also I only buy her things that cost 40 - 70$ on a normal day and 100$ + if i do something bad or its a holiday. And she says she is strict because she does not want to lose me. =3 So i would not say she is abusing me. She is just like that. *coughbullshitcough* You regularly spend $40-70 on this girl? And you don't think she's just in it for the money? She's strict because she "doesn't want to lose you"? -____-But when you do something "bad" (which I'm guessing since she's so "strict" there's a lot of things considered "bad") you make up by giving her $100+ gifts. Right. 500 goes many ways. Besides. She never asks for things like t.v.s or and xbox 360. And if she did not care about me she would have left me when i was broke instead of staying with me. She also spends a lot of time with me in her apartment watching movies and crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 @ OMGAKITTY: I can actually see that happening in Hawaii...Inflation here is stupid x_x" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMGAKITTY Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this s***? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior' date=' I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid s*** as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next.[/quote'] I had like 20 posts to my 6star. I needed this thread. I have actually broken up with cassie once.. But she asked me out again. Also I only buy her things that cost 40 - 70$ on a normal day and 100$ + if i do something bad or its a holiday. And she says she is strict because she does not want to lose me. =3 So i would not say she is abusing me. She is just like that. *coughbullshitcough* You regularly spend $40-70 on this girl? And you don't think she's just in it for the money? She's strict because she "doesn't want to lose you"? -____-But when you do something "bad" (which I'm guessing since she's so "strict" there's a lot of things considered "bad") you make up by giving her $100+ gifts. Right. 500 goes many ways.So? Besides. She never asks for things like t.v.s or and xbox 360.And that proves what? And if she did not care about me she would have left me when i was broke instead of staying with me. She also spends a lot of time with me in her apartment watching movies and crap.Since you get your cash from your grandparents' date=' I don't really see what this proves either[/b'] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted July 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 What is this s***? Where's the flaming and the ridicule? Why the hell am I seeing love and support in abundance? .. Anyway. Aside from myself provoking anti-rule behavior' date=' I'd say you (Being original poster, I incidentally couldn't give a dick about his actual name.) are rather assertive of yourself in a dispersive way. You bellow your insecurity in efforts to find reassurance. Needless to say, this encounter of want from two parties has left your 'emotional ego' replenished, and therefore leaving you feeling both wanted and desired. You're here to express said desire and worth. When obviously, it makes you look like a stupid s*** as this site assuringly doesn't care about whatever gross thing you put your mouth on next.[/quote'] I had like 20 posts to my 6star. I needed this thread. I have actually broken up with cassie once.. But she asked me out again. Also I only buy her things that cost 40 - 70$ on a normal day and 100$ + if i do something bad or its a holiday. And she says she is strict because she does not want to lose me. =3 So i would not say she is abusing me. She is just like that. *coughbullshitcough* You regularly spend $40-70 on this girl? And you don't think she's just in it for the money? She's strict because she "doesn't want to lose you"? -____-But when you do something "bad" (which I'm guessing since she's so "strict" there's a lot of things considered "bad") you make up by giving her $100+ gifts. Right. 500 goes many ways.So? Besides. She never asks for things like t.v.s or and xbox 360.And that proves what? And if she did not care about me she would have left me when i was broke instead of staying with me. She also spends a lot of time with me in her apartment watching movies and crap.Since you get your cash from your grandparents' date=' I don't really see what this proves either[/b'] You guys are acting like she is poor. She gets a fair amount of money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMGAKITTY Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Hate to break this to you, but you don't have to be poor to use someone else's money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted July 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Still, I know she loves me so just drop it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skuldur Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Try spending less than $40 on her for a month, just buy things for special occassions like birthdays and such. If she doesn't get mad at you or something, then you should stick with her. For now. >.> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 how bout this. dont buy gifts for her for bout a month. if she is still with you by then and she doesnt complain or notin, then she DOES love you. but by the sound of it, she is using ur money. I know she loves me. and how can u prove that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Why arent you just happy with your girlfriend? xPIf you like to spend money on her, do it! If you enjoy being with her, then be with her! That simple.Hey where is this big fly coming from!? *slap* Done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted July 7, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 I love her. Love spending time with her. And love kissing her so lets just forget about how much money i spend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juuzou Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 wiiomi and emo are right. arguing about something you don't know anything about is stupid. let him do what he wants >. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Static Posted July 7, 2009 Report Share Posted July 7, 2009 Still' date=' I know she loves me so just drop it.[/quote'] Sorry to break it to you kid; Teen love isn't real. It doesn't matter who you are either, I don't need to know everyone personally to make that general statement, because it isn't a person to person thing. Teen love simply is not real; it's a concoction of hormonal imbalance and general lack of self security. Based on this thread alone, I can tell that you're not anywhere near escaping either of those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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