The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 There's this girl that I like. When I first met her(whih was in the summer), we had an interesting conversation while we were walking home(I lived in another direction, but I just walked her way because I liked her). One day I asked her for her phone number because I was feeling a bit brave, and she gave it to me. I called her about a week later, and I got an answering machine. I called her again about 4 times consecutively, and still got the answering machine. When I saw her in school a month or so later, we didn't talk at all, as she was always with her friends. I couldn't talk to her because she was ALWAYS surrounded by friends, so that was a problem. A couple of weeks ago I tried talking to her by calling, and she answered(I was using a friend's phone). I said hi to her, and asked her what she was up to. I asked her that again after she already told me what she was up to, and she said bye to me in a sort of an amused voice when I said bye to her. When I saw her in school the next day, I said hi to her and asked her what she ws up to(again). When I sat next to her, she did not say anything and went of with her friends to get breakfast(supposedly). I have not really spoken to her ince because I though that she was brushing me off, but my feelings for her still remain. I don't know what to do at this point, but O am one of her friends on facebook, so at least she hasn't brushed me off there. Did I do the right thing by not talking to her again, and if not what can I do to actually communicate how I feel about her to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I'm almost 100% sure this belongs in the Official Relationships Thread. But you have quite a dilemma. Uhh... how old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I'm 17. And where is the Official Relationship Thread? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 http://forum.yugiohcardmaker.net/thread-153384.html If you are 17, don't bother for a serious relationship. It'll die after you part when you both (hopefully) go to college. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 http://forum.yugiohcardmaker.net/thread-153384.html If you are 17' date=' don't bother for a serious relationship. It'll die after you part when you both (hopefully) go to college.[/quote']I know, but what can I do in order to at least make her my friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 If she doesn't like you, that's usually not going to change. But try talking to her, getting to know her, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 If she doesn't like you' date=' that's usually not going to change. But try talking to her, getting to know her, etc.[/quote']How would I do that with her friends ALWAYS(literally) being around her? And let's say I know that some of her interests are the same as mine. What can I do with that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 If her friends are ALWAYS around her, they are either stalkers or tools of her. So play around that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 If her friends are ALWAYS around her' date=' they are either stalkers or tools of her. So play around that.[/quote']They just seem like genuine friends, like you and I have. So how am I supposed to even make a sound in her direction without her friends finding out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 It's probably impossible to seperate the stalkers from their "master", so you'll have to take a risk and make the first move with other people around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 It's probably impossible to seperate the stalkers from their "master"' date=' so you'll have to take a risk and make the first move with other people around.[/quote']What's a good stress relieve tactic when my heart is beating at about 300 beats per minute? And is Facebook a good start for a conversation in your opinion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I am never stressed. And I hate Facebook in general, but I guess you could use Facebook as a crutch to get to know this girl WITHOUT having to worry about personal appearence and being judged by others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I am never stressed. And I hate Facebook in general' date=' but I guess you could use Facebook as a crutch to get to know this girl WITHOUT having to worry about personal appearence and being judged by others.[/quote']Well, I read over her profile and she seems like she has some of the same interests as me, and I agree with some of her views. I don't really believe that a person is never stressed, as there are times when stress is a necessary reaction that is triggered by the human brain in order to express helplesness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I'm never stressed too much, is what I meant to say. I rarely ever feel stress or pressure. If you feel comfy, by all means go ahead and "chat" through Facebook. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 I'm never stressed too much' date=' is what I meant to say. I rarely ever feel stress or pressure. If you feel comfy, by all means go ahead and "chat" through Facebook.[/quote']Yea, at least I don't feel the stress of having all of her friends around me. Thanks man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BehindTheMask Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 Forget her. She friendzone'd you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 Forget her. She friendzone'd you.Did that ever happen to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BehindTheMask Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 Forget her. She friendzone'd you.Did that ever happen to you? Yes. I solved it using my "1 of 2 choices method." 1) Forget her2) Do something illegal which I shouldn't mention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 Forget her. She friendzone'd you.Did that ever happen to you? Yes. I solved it using my "1 of 2 choices method." 1) Forget her2) Do something illegal which I shouldn't mention.1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers?2)I'm not that kind of person, so I wouldn't even attempt that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BehindTheMask Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that.That sounds good in theory, but how would I keep myself from having an anxiety attack, and keep rumors from spreading if she said no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BehindTheMask Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that.That sounds good in theory' date=' but how would I keep myself from having an anxiety attack, and keep rumors from spreading if she said no?[/quote'] I dunno, I've never had that problem...drink some decaffinated tea. Also, don't care about what other people think. Pro-tip: High School is for the lulz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that.That sounds good in theory' date=' but how would I keep myself from having an anxiety attack, and keep rumors from spreading if she said no?[/quote'] I dunno, I've never had that problem...drink some decaffinated tea. Also, don't care about what other people think. Pro-tip: High School is for the lulz.Indeed to the protip. I guess that I'll try to talk to her through Facebook for a bit, and if anything happens, I'll take action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BehindTheMask Posted October 24, 2009 Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that.That sounds good in theory' date=' but how would I keep myself from having an anxiety attack, and keep rumors from spreading if she said no?[/quote'] I dunno, I've never had that problem...drink some decaffinated tea. Also, don't care about what other people think. Pro-tip: High School is for the lulz.Indeed to the protip. I guess that I'll try to talk to her through Facebook for a bit, and if anything happens, I'll take action. Nononononon. Do it in person. Always do it in person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crimson King Posted October 24, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2009 1)How do I do that when the only name that pops up in my min dis hers? About #2...I was kidding. Ask her out on a date. She says yes...you are good to goShe says no...ask out other girls. Simple as that.That sounds good in theory' date=' but how would I keep myself from having an anxiety attack, and keep rumors from spreading if she said no?[/quote'] I dunno, I've never had that problem...drink some decaffinated tea. Also, don't care about what other people think. Pro-tip: High School is for the lulz.Indeed to the protip. I guess that I'll try to talk to her through Facebook for a bit, and if anything happens, I'll take action. Nononononon. Do it in person. Always do it in person.Why's that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.