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ok the guy/girl who can give me the best advice gets 5pts and 1 rep

 

ok here i go...

ive got this friend who i like and i think she likes me but im not too sure if she does like me though so i need advice (that is not stupid) on how to make her like me , in a nice way

good luck

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and if you finally get her to go out with her...no sex on the first date. :p

ok now on a serious note

1. How sure are you that she likes you?

2. Would you be willing to risk that friendship? many a friends have split because its too awkward knowing that he likes she (vise/versa) and not having the same feelings for each other.

If your sure just ask her sometime to go to a movie as a friend or to a school dance.

Don't make it seem like it is a date make it 2 friends going to a movie and let advance as she wishes.

If she treats it like 2 friends she may not have the same feelings. On the other hand she may be in the same position as you.

If she treats it like a date wait a bit and ask her out on an actual date.

 

If you really like her go for it.

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ok well man, what you have to realize is that females, are, well in a way they are like judges, you see, you can befriend them, but they still try and look for negatives, and things like. But, what you should do, your friends with her right now right? well if you are, or even if you aren't, just start talking to her, like regular friends, she what she likes, she how she re-acts to thing, becuase there is nothing worse than, liking someone when you have no idea what there like, then come to find out that they hate eveything you like=/.. so yeah, befriend her if you havent already, just off the start dont get ot um, like jumpy, treat as a friend first, then if she starts like telling you things that people wouldnt normally tell anyone except there friends, then your good, well in fact you dont ven really have to wait for that, lol. once you know your good friends, tell how you feel, becuase either you tell her, or you dont, and if you dont, she might find someone else =/... i always fell sad when that happens to someone, becuase i know how it feels =/ so cheer up, and become a friendly man 8)

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yeah but if hes asking US he MUST really need advice.

 

i agree with sage, there are some things that people dont like to talk about until, they really cant stop thinking about, like me... and if he is asking about a girl, like this, then he must not be able to stop thining about her, so, yeah, he probably does want some help..

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Well,

You are good friends with her?

Just gradually build up saying nice things to her, you got her MSN? MSN is the best option.

Then just watch how she feels, help here with personal things, but don't overdo it if she's tired or mad or something

This will not work since they are freinds s he will no he is faking this.

 

Ask her how far sheel feels about you and take a shot at it.

If you get along with ###ual things than you would be a good couple but if she has more hor than you will not get along.

well actualy this counts on your age how old are you?

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Well' date='

You are good friends with her?

Just gradually build up saying nice things to her, you got her MSN? MSN is the best option.

Then just watch how she feels, help here with personal things, but don't overdo it if she's tired or mad or something

This will not work since they are freinds s he will no he is faking this.

 

Ask her how far sheel feels about you and take a shot at it.

If you get along with ###ual things than you would be a good couple but if she has more hor than you will not get along.

well actualy this counts on your age how old are you?

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"she has more hor than you will not get along"

 

hor?

did i read that right? If so thats offensive. I would stay out of the rest of this entirely david

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well i tried what you all said and well i got embarresed and so did she so how can i get her alone when she is surrounded by 6-7 girls around her?

 

lol, which one of us, did you follow? and um, alone, well, what exactly did you say to her? becuase if you didnt say anything to bad, i think you can get by, but anywho, untill you answer my question, try thinking about, well do you have classes with her? where her friends aren't? and again depending on what you said, you might be able to ask her to like a dance, or something, or an email address works to, but face-to-face, is always better in the long run.

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II DEFiiNED II

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Ok, what you wanna do is this.

 

If you guys both have somewhat of a relationship/friendship together, just go up to her, or call her, or text her, or Instant Message her in anyway, and just start up a conversation without hesitation. Be confident in yourself. And don't be nervous. After you guys start up a conversation, and have talking for a little bit, when you get the chance, just ask if she wants to go to the movies, or out for lunch tomorrow. I hope this helped!

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well really i think i've tried "the get hurt and get cared thing" but really if you were in my shoes right now you will be confused lost and hopefully not dead.... ive did something different yesterday ...i tried to look moody and sad and guess what IT WORKED !!!!!!!!!!

she went up to me and chatted to me (weird isnt it) and .....well thanks for all your advice all people who posted on this thread gets a rep and the best one gets a bonus of 15 pts

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well really i think i've tried "the get hurt and get cared thing" but really if you were in my shoes right now you will be confused lost and hopefully not dead.... ive did something different yesterday ...i tried to look moody and sad and guess what IT WORKED !!!!!!!!!!

she went up to me and chatted to me (weird isnt it) and .....well thanks for all your advice all people who posted on this thread gets a rep and the best one gets a bonus of 15 pts

 

lol no problem man, so like dont mess it up, hehe, lol and good luck man, ill br rootin for yuh 8)

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