Tempest Dahlia Posted January 4, 2010 Report Share Posted January 4, 2010 What do you do when you see someone failing at life? Whether it be a small phase of something very intimate and serious? How do you feel? React? Do you help them out of sincerity or profit? Do you not get involved out of fear or, possibly anger? How exactly do you go about it when you yourself feel down? Discuss seriously please or be reported. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well, firsly, how do you "fail" at life? You can't. Rough times can come through your life and you may not be the most successfuly person and you may even be homeless without a job, but that doesn't make you "fail" at life. Life is no video game, unless you think God is the player while we're being played. But that's only how I feel, I know where you're trying to go with that question and I'll just answer it to your statement. When someone "fails" at life, you help them of course. I get involved and put my life on the edge for others because I feel my life is just a supporter. I'll help in any ways I can, and I may even "fail" at doing so. I've tried to help the closest person to me; she was abused by her parents and bullied by those at school. Her life was like one of those horrible fictional things you wouldn't feel is real. She herself didn't "fail", but she did "fail" at getting things back together. She let those bully her and she wouldn't report her parents at all. In the end, she committed suicide and supposidly "failed" at life just like I "failed" to help her. Serious answer is very serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 In all honesty, I'm failing at life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 @Marisa- I didn't mean 'fail' like you're implying. You're being way too technical. lt's a simple question with no profound answer buried into it. @Willeh- So then, what do you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 @Marisa- I didn't mean 'fail' like you're implying. You're being way too technical. lt's a simple question with no profound answer buried into it. @Willeh- So then' date=' what do you do?[/quote'] So I see. Though, is there any select reason why you ask such a question? Is it out of plain curiousity? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Yes. l'm a very curious person, and this was on my mind. So l decided to ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hikaru-chan Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well' date=' firsly, how do you "fail" at life? You can't. Rough times can come through your life and you may not be the most successfuly person and you may even be homeless without a job, but that doesn't make you "fail" at life. Life is no video game, unless you think God is the player while we're being played. But that's only how I feel, I know where you're trying to go with that question and I'll just answer it to your statement. When someone "fails" at life, you help them of course. I get involved and put my life on the edge for others because I feel my life is just a supporter. I'll help in any ways I can, and I may even "fail" at doing so. I've tried to help the closest person to me; she was abused by her parents and bullied by those at school. Her life was like one of those horrible fictional things you wouldn't feel is real. She herself didn't "fail", but she did "fail" at getting things back together. She let those bully her and she wouldn't report her parents at all. In the end, she committed suicide and supposidly "failed" at life just like I "failed" to help her. Serious answer is very serious.[/quote'] You didn't fail her. This is what she wanted, right? Please don't be in such pain about it. You even said yourself, "I'll get over it once she's just a memory." Isn't that this time? Anyways, I get involved with someone's life because I feel worry over them, if they are close to me. I'll admit I won't help out a stranger because I don't know his/her life story and it'd be tough to help out, but I'll do my best to the people I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 @Marisa- I didn't mean 'fail' like you're implying. You're being way too technical. lt's a simple question with no profound answer buried into it. @Willeh- So then' date=' what do you do?[/quote'] I don't do anything. What am I supposed to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 @Marisa- I didn't mean 'fail' like you're implying. You're being way too technical. lt's a simple question with no profound answer buried into it. @Willeh- So then' date=' what do you do?[/quote'] I don't do anything. What am I supposed to do? What are you NOT supposed to do? l mean, you're living and breathing and perfectly capable of strength and thought, are you not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 @Marisa- I didn't mean 'fail' like you're implying. You're being way too technical. lt's a simple question with no profound answer buried into it. @Willeh- So then' date=' what do you do?[/quote'] I don't do anything. What am I supposed to do? What are you NOT supposed to do? l mean, you're living and breathing and perfectly capable of strength and thought, are you not? I don't really have a grasp on my problems. =\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well, what's the problem? l'm listening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Phoenix Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Depends on the circumstances. Who the person is, the degree of failure, why they're failing, how they're failing, the likelihood they'll figure it out on their own, the likelihood somebody else might help them, deeds they've committed, my mood....................... List goes on. No concrete answer possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well' date=' what's the problem? l'm listening.[/quote'] I don't care to talk about them :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well' date=' what's the problem? l'm listening.[/quote'] I don't care to talk about them :) Ok, no problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well, I leave them alone. If they want to talk, I'm there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Well' date=' I leave them alone. If they want to talk, I'm there.[/quote'] Then you're not particularly leaving them alone, now are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Of course I leave them alone. But if they want to talk with somebody, I won't hesitate to do so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 *ahem ahem*- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 5, 2010 Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 Srs post is srs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 5, 2010 No, l was bumping secretly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 6, 2010 Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yeah, this thread needs some more replies....!....!.1.111.!.1:!.1..1.!..!:!.!:!.!!:!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 6, 2010 Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yeah, this thread needs some more replies....!....!.1.111.!.1:!.1..1.!..!:!.!:!.!!:!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 6, 2010 Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yeah, this thread needs some more replies....!....!.1.111.!.1:!.1..1.!..!:!.!:!.!!:!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Womi Posted January 6, 2010 Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yeah, this thread needs some more replies....!....!.1.111.!.1:!.1..1.!..!:!.!:!.!!:!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted January 6, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2010 Yeah' date=' this thread needs some more replies....!....!.1.111.!.1:!.1..1.!..!:!.!:!.!!:!![/quote'] TY But that's kinda unneeded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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