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Nobody.

 

 

I prefer my important things to be less unloyal and jabroniy.

 

 

That's why I bought a cat. It's always happy to see me.

Grow up and stick your penis in something. I'm getting sick of your whinging' date=' you appear to hate this site so much, yes? So just leave already.

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...............how do you possibly conclude I hate this website, from all of 2 posts?

 

And I'm not whining at all. Nor am I "whinging".

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There's only one person in my life who I consider myself genuinely attracted to' date=' but I know we consider each other too much as friends for it to go any further.

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Have you ever heard of "friends with benefits"? After a while of that you'll naturally take it to another level without either of you paying attention, completely serious.

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There's only one person in my life who I consider myself genuinely attracted to' date=' but I know we consider each other too much as friends for it to go any further.

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Have you ever heard of "friends with benefits"? After a while of that you'll naturally take it to another level without either of you paying attention, completely serious.

 

This is true.

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I have a HUGE crush, who I've been in love with for over a year. She thinks of me as a great friend, but I'm not sure she has any romantic interest in me. We chat often, but I don't know how to bring up that I like her... it sucks, and it's nerve racking... T_T

 

And she lives across the country, which makes it worse. But I can't bring myself to forget about her... and I don't have many other good friends my age.

 

Any advice possible?

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I am attracted to Creed (Death Bishop) and Crab Helmet <3

 

And Pikachu...and Smeargle...and Princess Kitty.

 

1...2...3...4...5...6some!

 

Is loved now. <3

 

 

I'm not really sure if I'm attracted to anybody to be honest.

 

Edit: I is attracted to alot of people. A few are on YCM. :D

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There's only one person in my life who I consider myself genuinely attracted to' date=' but I know we consider each other too much as friends for it to go any further.

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Have you ever heard of "friends with benefits"? After a while of that you'll naturally take it to another level without either of you paying attention, completely serious.

I'm gonna go ahead and say bullshit.

 

Seriously, the issue lies in defining exactly what the difference is between a friend you have sex with and a girlfriend. Just that it's more open? Because especially for young people, there's no magical connection. By clearly limiting the boundaries of what your relationship can extend to, you're basically establishing that you don't like that person enough to want anything more (though as I mentioned, it's not significantly more, just a vow of exclusivity or whatever).

 

This, in turn, would be more likely to draw you apart than to pull you closer.

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There's only one person in my life who I consider myself genuinely attracted to' date=' but I know we consider each other too much as friends for it to go any further.

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Have you ever heard of "friends with benefits"? After a while of that you'll naturally take it to another level without either of you paying attention, completely serious.

I'm gonna go ahead and say bullshit.

 

Seriously, the issue lies in defining exactly what the difference is between a friend you have sex with and a girlfriend. Just that it's more open? Because especially for young people, there's no magical connection. By clearly limiting the boundaries of what your relationship can extend to, you're basically establishing that you don't like that person enough to want anything more (though as I mentioned, it's not significantly more, just a vow of exclusivity or whatever).

 

This, in turn, would be more likely to draw you apart than to pull you closer.

 

That might be true for regular friends, but NOT close friends. I speak from experience so you can shove your theories. Anyway, your bodies exchange chemicals (not some bio-chemist or some crap I dunno which) so you naturally GOING to get feelings for each other more than just close friends. If this is going to work you're not supposed to be going out and doing it with other people, if you're doing that you don't really want to be with him/her anyway. -.-

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There's only one person in my life who I consider myself genuinely attracted to' date=' but I know we consider each other too much as friends for it to go any further.

[/quote']

 

Have you ever heard of "friends with benefits"? After a while of that you'll naturally take it to another level without either of you paying attention, completely serious.

I'm gonna go ahead and say bullshit.

 

Seriously, the issue lies in defining exactly what the difference is between a friend you have sex with and a girlfriend. Just that it's more open? Because especially for young people, there's no magical connection. By clearly limiting the boundaries of what your relationship can extend to, you're basically establishing that you don't like that person enough to want anything more (though as I mentioned, it's not significantly more, just a vow of exclusivity or whatever).

 

This, in turn, would be more likely to draw you apart than to pull you closer.

 

That might be true for regular friends, but NOT close friends. I speak from experience so you can shove your theories. Anyway, your bodies exchange chemicals (not some bio-chemist or some crap I dunno which) so you naturally GOING to get feelings for each other more than just close friends. If this is going to work you're not supposed to be going out and doing it with other people, if you're doing that you don't really want to be with him/her anyway. -.-

 

Eh, perhaps. Obviously from my disdain of the idea, you can tell that I've never, ah, tried it before.

 

And if you're not doing it with other people, what exactly distinguishes you from any other couple? It's just the word used to describe it, methinks.

 

I believe the chemical you're referring to is oxytocin, but if you actually look at the studies regarding it, it just reinforces the bond with your chosen mate. Again, assuming that there is any meaningful distinction between a "friend with benefits" and a girlfriend, I would at least think that the distinction is that you do not choose this person as your "mate." Meaning that, at least theoretically, it' shouldn't matter. There's no exchange of chemicals, it's all internal.

 

So I would hazard a guess that you're labeling your relationship incorrectly. While you may have originally started as just friends and grown into something deeper (though again I'll point out the iffiness of "deeper"), I'm not sure you can draw the conclusion that it was the sex which brought this about. I think it's more likely that it was just natural interaction outside of sex.

 

Though, you are the one who lives your own life, so I guess all my analysis means pretty much nothing. ^.^

 

Oh, and @ Metallica: Get used to it. It's the interwebz. That means half the population looks outrageously stupid either because they are stupid or they're trolling, and the other half tries to act ridiculously smart either because they're naturally that nerdy, they're trying to make up for the stupidity of the other half, or they too are trolling.

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