Master White Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Ok, so recently I was doing some things, and people told me this girl had bronchitis. Well, I heard from a friend that iw as contagious and I knew it depended on the type. Well, she came in and i asked her, she said she did have it, but she said her doctor said she wasn't contagious. So I made her leave, b/c I didn't want it. I just didn't want her around when sick, and brandon don't care, my room mate, b/c he is sick to, but just a common cold. So she got pissed and left. So I looked up bronchitis and it said there were two types, which the viral one was contagious. So I called her up and said, what type of bronchitis do you have? She said she don't know. So, am I wrong to not trust someone I meet and don't know that well, or what? My friend knows her, but not that well, but he thinks he does and trusts her. So, should I have left and let her stay or what? I just find it hard to trust someone you don't know that well off the bat, especially b/c she calimed her doctor said, but her doctor didn't tell me that she wasn't contagious. So, here is what I want; 1st: Was I wrong to say I didn't believe her?2nd: What is your trust level at? P.SShe isn't my friend, my friends friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Starrk Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Ok, so recently I was doing some things, and people told me this girl had bronchitis. Well, I heard from a friend that iw as contagious and I knew it depended on the type. Well, she came in and i asked her, she said she did have it, but she said her doctor said she wasn't contagious. So I made her leave, b/c I didn't want it. I just didn't want her around when sick, and brandon don't care, my room mate, b/c he is sick to, but just a common cold. So she got pissed and left. So I looked up bronchitis and it said there were two types, which the viral one was contagious. So I called her up and said, what type of bronchitis do you have? She said she don't know. So, am I wrong to not trust someone I meet and don't know that well, or what? My friend knows her, but not that well, but he thinks he does and trusts her. So, should I have left and let her stay or what? I just find it hard to trust someone you don't know that well off the bat, especially b/c she calimed her doctor said, but her doctor didn't tell me that she wasn't contagious. So, here is what I want; 1st: Was I wrong to say I didn't believe her?2nd: What is your trust level at? P.SShe isn't that great looking and has some issues... I feel you are insecure for a disease that can go away with time. You need to calm down, talk with her, and see if you can mend the emotional wound. The P.S was very unnecessary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted October 13, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 I feel you are insecure for a disease that can go away with time. You need to calm down, talk with her, and see if you can mend the emotional wound. The P.S was very unnecessary. Well, maybe, but I do it to anyone I wouldn't know, i could get to know them, but it takes me forever to do so, then when I do, I'd know they are not lying. But one thing is, she isn't my friend, and so how can I trust her if she isn't my friend? Its not just the disease, its just with people I do not know... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Starrk Posted October 13, 2010 Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 Well, maybe, but I do it to anyone I wouldn't know, i could get to know them, but it takes me forever to do so, then when I do, I'd know they are not lying. But one thing is, she isn't my friend, and so how can I trust her if she isn't my friend? Its not just the disease, its just with people I do not know... This is where you have to stop. If you keep pushing yourself to someone just so that you could interrupt their life its going to hit you hard because one day someone is going to say NO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted October 13, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2010 This is where you have to stop. If you keep pushing yourself to someone just so that you could interrupt their life its going to hit you hard because one day someone is going to say NO.I have no idea what in the world you are saying? -I know it was wrong for me to kick my friends friend out, but I didn't want to get sick. I'm not in the room anymore b/c of that fact. If I must, I could go say she could go back and hang with him, but I only can trust limited people, it may not be for others, but if she wasn't sick, I wouldn't care for her to hang, but when i'm sick, I wouldn't want anyone else sick and I'd kick my room mate out If I was sick to. So in other words, I have low trust levels, but I have friends that I know wouldn't lie. But the main point is, how would I know if my friends friend would lie? Hint: i used to be shy when I was younger... _______ Nevermind, I know what I need to do, my cards helped me realize that, and coyote, thanks for just talking, needed some relief, +rep to you.... Some mod, please lock this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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