OmegaWave Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 I'm a wreck. My girlfriend broke up with me. I don't know what to do now....I can't believe she would let all the fun times we had just go to waste :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerry OldMaster Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 geez, you know why? :( Tell the whole sotry, you'll feel better.And you still have hell a lot years to live, sure you will get a new one... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boss Z Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Atleast you had one... but yes please tell the whole story... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God GAK Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Wise words oldmaster.i totally agree. tell us the whole story at first and we will try to encourage u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OmegaWave Posted January 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Well...... We got into an arguement about how she wasnt serious enough and I was TO Serious. We kept arguing until it got into a full blown fight (Not Physical). Eventually the words "I hate you" were said. Then she said "I'm done with you. I can't believe I wasted my time with you". And that was it..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God GAK Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Well...... We got into an arguement about how she wasnt serious enough and I was TO Serious. We kept arguing until it got into a full blown fight (Not Physical). Eventually the words "I hate you" were said. Then she said "I'm done with you. I can't believe I wasted my time with you". And that was it..... well, i guess you can phone her or send her flowers or sth like that. try not to let her forget u. make her forgive ya Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slash Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 That's sad :(, I hope you guys forget that ever happened and get back together :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobody9999 Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Well my friend, sometimes life is a challenge. Sometimes you win.Other times you lose. Maybe you 2 weren't right for each other. My advice is that you find a new girlfriend and see if you guys connect a it more than the last relationship.:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OmegaWave Posted January 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 The only reason I have a problem with this.....is that she was the only girlfriend I ever had and I love her very much....she thinks I was just lieing to her all the time I said "I love you". What i'm really worried about...is that she gets depressed easily. She tryed to kill herself 3 times. I hope she does'nt do it again....I couldn't live with myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobody9999 Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 :/ She tried to kill herself?Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slash Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 The only reason I have a problem with this.....is that she was the only girlfriend I ever had and I love her very much....she thinks I was just lieing to her all the time I said "I love you". What i'm really worried about...is that she gets depressed easily. She tryed to kill herself 3 times. I hope she does'nt do it again....I couldn't live with myself. Wow she tried killing herself 3 times, thats serious, I hope that doesn't happen either, that would be sad :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OmegaWave Posted January 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 :/ She tried to kill herself?Why? She has had a horrible life. Very abusive father, her mother died on her 5th birthday, she is Emo and gets picked on ALOT. She is depressed. She tryed ending her pain but she was stopped by her sister each time. I don't want her to die...she doesnt deserve it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axiom_Nor Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 try talking directly to her, after school.and tell her not to do anything rash, and that you really do love her from the bottom of your heart. and if she still won't take you back after a few days, try to get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobody9999 Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Wow, so sad. Well, you might have been her only joy in the world. I guess the only way to make you and her feel better is to get together again. She's your love right? Then go get her back.:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+Jono Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Just calm down go talk to her. Get her flowers and say that your really really sorry and you really love her and its all your fault about the fight (even if its not) and you cant take it anymore and you wanna be with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God GAK Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 :/ She tried to kill herself?Why? She has had a horrible life. Very abusive father' date=' her mother died on her 5th birthday, she is Emo and gets picked on ALOT. She is depressed. She tryed ending her pain but she was stopped by her sister each time. I don't want her to die...she doesnt deserve it.[/quote'] then u need to fix it. and she has to be very very sad to dare to commit suicide. poor girl. u need to try and fix ur bond with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerry OldMaster Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 When I read the argument part, I was like "oooh, guy, such things normally get over in 2-3 days. after that it's "Sorry... I love you.." *hug*, and life long and happy. But that suicide part O_OYou imagine you could be the last one she actually loved in the world, Please, be aware of her not trying to suicide again. YOU DON'T WANT THAT.Help her in all situations, and apologise when you 2 are alone for a moment.Also, don't make fun. Make her think you are nothing without her, and try to cure her of that suicide attitude. If you can talk about that subject, tell her that by killing herself, she will kill you as well.Just you need to hit that emotional point that is beneath all those problems and bad stuff.If she loves you, if she really loves you and you touch it, I'll be enough to let her just jump around your neck and cry: "I am so sorry! I couldn't believe I was that stupid!!" Of course, that should be if SHE was the one who said "I hate you". if you said that, it will be a lot harder.Also, please, PLEASE be patient with her. I don't want her to suicide either :\ I'll ask an expert for more help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaco Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Love is so annoying. So, basically, did she leave you because she thought you were too serious? How long have you two been going out? How had the relationship been going before you broke up? Could you feel yourselves drifting apart / could you sense something was different? Because by the sound of it, you initiated the argument because of a concern about your relationship. But really none of those questions concern me as much as this:Do you REALLY think anyone's life is endangered by these events? If you REALLY think so, then the situation has to be handled a lot differently, obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Slime Lord Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 You're only 14 and people are taking relationships that seriously? Jeezuz. People your age need to realize that relationships at that age will fail 99% of time. If she is going to kill herself, get her some help or something. Tell one of her friends. If it's really true, they'll listen. If they won't listen, they need to realize that they're acting like immature little children. Yeah, I realize I'm only 2 years older than you. Anyway, that's my advice. Follow it if you want to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerry OldMaster Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 lol so Mare was right after all XDHow I can help: you can listen to this song, Omegawave. If I am sad, it always makes me feel better. [spoiler=Song]http://www.veoh.com/videos/v1828498MeFybZmx?searchId=7109455944225051926&rank=1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JesusofChaos™ Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 You're only 14 and people are taking relationships that seriously? Jeezuz. People your age need to realize that relationships at that age will fail 99% of time. If she is going to kill herself' date=' get her some help or something. Tell one of her friends. If it's really true, they'll listen. If they won't listen, they need to realize that they're acting like immature little children. Yeah, I realize I'm only 2 years older than you. Anyway, that's my advice. Follow it if you want to.[/quote'] Completely agree i mean im 16 and havent had a serious relationship for like 4 years theres only a small fraction of relationships that start at 14 are still togteher like 2 years later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yusei Fudou Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Before SOME people go like fangirls, "Mare is back! ***0RZ YEAH!" I'm not back, I'm just replying to this thread cuz OldMaster gave me a link and told me to help with my "wisdom". Particularly, I can never run away from my "social helping" stuff, cuz as I help people, I help myself. Now, to your problem. Sorry to be harsh, but you never loved her and she never loved you. You were only friends. Love is a rare moment that you will eventually experience when you become more mature. It's a feeling you cannot describe. "Teen Love" as I call it is only an overrated best friendship because of some "playing around", and unsafe teen love can include a lot of sexual problems. Now now, let's not act all mature and like if you were immature, mm? I heard that she's tried to suicide 3 times. Really. If she didn't care about life, do you think she really cared about you in these different situations? If you still say yeah, or you're still sad, continue reading. Not your first, middle or any love can be the destined one that will never break or have arguments. A breakup is destined, as long as you both don't feel ready for marrying or having a strong connection such as engaging or over-5-years "strong friendship". All you really need to do is cheer up, and forget all about it. I know it's hard, however some music, relaxation, hang-outs with friends and vacation (from YCM, yes xD) might help you get over it. I'm not inviting people to get out of YCM.. >_> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OmegaWave Posted January 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Call it "Teen Love" if you want. I love her. We've been together for 2 years. We've had alot of fun.....Anyway, she is starting to talk to me again...there's hope. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerry OldMaster Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 ...And that was Mare from Canada TV. Hope you've got some help there. And I also hope you didn't suicide yet. EDIT: Ah, there you are. Well, nice then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yusei Fudou Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Before SOME people go like fangirls, "Mare is back! ***0RZ YEAH!" I'm not back, I'm just replying to this thread cuz OldMaster gave me a link and told me to help with my "wisdom". Particularly, I can never run away from my "social helping" stuff, cuz as I help people, I help myself. Well, you'll break-up again. Call me back if it happens. And, I'm not trying to destroy your hope.. I don't even dislike you. Take my above speech just in case. :) Back to quitting (and yes, I'm coming back at Apr 1) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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