I need some...emotional help.

[OmegaWave]

...And that was Mare from Canada TV.

 

Hope you've got some help there. And I also hope you didn't suicide yet.

 

EDIT: Ah' date=' there you are. Well, nice then.

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Wait...you thought I was gonna commit suicide? Are you nuts?

[Jerry OldMaster]

No, Omegawave. You just didn't post for a while.

[OmegaWave]

No' date=' Omegawave. You just didn't post for a while.

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Oh ^_^ Sorry :P. You see, I don't have my own computer. I use my Dad's. I have to get off the computer when my dad comes home unless he leaves the house.

[nobody9999]

I hope you 2 get together again.

 

You're her only hope.

[Zeroshot]

I don't believe you really love her. but none the less i have been in many fights with girlfriends before just avoid her for awhile you know let her think... it works

[JerryFreelance]

I can't believe TSL is the only one who said it...

 

GET HER HELP.

 

There are councellors at your school for a reason. Talk to them, and have them help her.

 

"But what if she finds out it was me? Then we'll never get back together!"

 

TOO BAD.

 

Would you rather have her hate you and be alive or be dead?

 

And in time, once she's no longer suicidal, she'll forgive you.

 

None of you people should say that he doesn't love her. Who are you to say such a thing? Maybe you're older or whatever, but there is no "certain age" you have to be to feel something... Hell, kids drink alcohol all the time.

 

And can any of you actually DESCRIBE love?

 

Everyone says it's all great and stuff, but then they say it's "indescribable".

 

"Impossible".

 

If you can't describe it, who are you to say who can feel it and who can't?

 

Omegawave, I have a question for you.

 

Who is this thread for:

 

You?

 

Or your girlfriend?

[OmegaWave]

Omegawave' date=' I have a question for you.

 

Who is this thread for:

 

You?

 

Or your girlfriend?

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O_O Uhm...uh....."OmegaWave cannot talk at the moment. Please leave a message after the beep." *BEEP*

 

I'm confused.....(Another thing she said. It's so easy to confuse me. And it's true.)

[Jerry OldMaster]

I can't believe TSL is the only one who said it...

 

GET HER HELP.

 

There are councellors at your school for a reason. Talk to them' date=' and have them help her.

 

"But what if she finds out it was me? Then we'll never get back together!"

 

TOO BAD.

 

Would you rather have her hate you and be alive or be dead?

 

And in time, once she's no longer suicidal, she'll forgive you.

 

None of you people should say that he doesn't love her. Who are you to say such a thing? Maybe you're older or whatever, but there is no "certain age" you have to be to feel something... Hell, kids drink alcohol all the time.

 

And can any of you actually DESCRIBE love?

 

Everyone says it's all great and stuff, but then they say it's "indescribable".

 

"Impossible".

 

If you can't describe it, who are you to say who can feel it and who can't?

 

Omegawave, I have a question for you.

 

Who is this thread for:

 

You?

 

Or your girlfriend?

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You-re really changed. In a good way ;)

[Careless Whisper]

here's how it goes, I just recently got back together with my girlfriend, She was almost like your's, you know the depressed kind. I saw her walking alone one day, and I asked if I could help her feel better, She wasn't really keen on talking, but I still walked with her to her next class, even though I got late to mine. After school that day, I saw her sitting against the wall at the bus-lot, I managed to talk her into standing up, by giving afew comforting words, saying things like "I'm sorry it didn't work out last time, and maybe we should have a second chance." and it worked for me. Try it, if it doesn't work the first time, keep going for it. I have faith that you can do it.

[CrazyKev]

:/

 

She tried to kill herself?

Why?

 

She has had a horrible life. Very abusive father' date=' her mother died on her 5th birthday, she is Emo and gets picked on ALOT. She is depressed. She tryed ending her pain but she was stopped by her sister each time. I don't want her to die...she doesnt deserve it.

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very sad story...:cry:

Hey i know what will cheer you up, wanna here the EMO song?

PM me and ill tell you :)...:cry:

[Arekku_Koro]

Sorry, Omega. These thins happen, but if you really love each other, you'll get back together, hopefully. But what do I know? I'm just a kid.

[Careless Whisper]

Nobody can describe love because it's different for each individual relationship. Those who say they can describe love obviously cannot find it. And, this is to everybody who says the love has an age-restriction, go f*** yourself. Love is an emotion that's inside us all. The spirit of love can reach anyone of any age, and no I'm not overexaggerating. I'm 17 years old, It's difficult for me to keep my relationship intact because I do alot of traveling thanks to my school's drumline, but I still manage to give my girl all my attention. To some people, love is all they got to remain happy. To others, family is there happy-source, some people even settle on just simply being alone, even though I don't recommend it. My best friend used to have no friends for 7 years of his life. Until he met me. My girlfriend, same story as my best friend, I was her first friend, and we started going out 4 years ago. If anything were to rupture my relationship with her, I'd go nuts. Love can become a very powerfull bond. If it's severed, it can leave a very sad effect. But everybond can be put back togehter again. You just have to try. Good luck with your ex. And remember, that trusting YCM members are giving you their support

[Static]

The only reason I have a problem with this.....is that she was the only girlfriend I ever had and I love her very much....she thinks I was just lieing to her all the time I said "I love you". What i'm really worried about...is that she gets depressed easily. She tryed to kill herself 3 times. I hope she does'nt do it again....I couldn't live with myself.

 

I agree for the most parts with TSL and Mare. I disagree with Mare on his statement about love, but aside from that, they are right.

 

You should be able to get over it if you need to. IF she will talk, talk to her. If you really love her, you would make sure she is alright.

 

The bolded part causes me concern. More than worrying about someone I have never spoken to kill themself, I would concern that you cannot cope with such a thing. You must understand, that no matter what, no matter who you meet, and feel any sort of feeling towards, you are ALWAYS the greater. You will perceive through you, and you alone, so my point is, if the worst happens, then for your own sake, get over it. None of that stuff in the bolded part, be prepared, and accept it if it happens. I doubt it will happen, more than 4/5 of all people who attempt suicide are female, and the success rate is 1/36 females.

 

Statistically, it is not likely that she will succeed, so your pretty much set, but if it happens, you should be able to move on and cope with it.

 

And Mare, it is not fair to assume that "Love" cannot be experienced as a teen. I really could care less on the issue, as I think that being emotionally dependant on another person is silly, but making such a judgment is not in all cases correct, nor a fair judgment. If you wish to deny how someone else feels, be my guest, but ignorance is not a good quality.

[Miranda_Cosgrove14]

its okay.

I just broke up with my gf, so dont feel so bad. ull get another one.

[Miranda_Cosgrove14]

Nobody can describe love because it's different for each individual relationship. Those who say they can describe love obviously cannot find it. And' date=' this is to everybody who says the love has an age-restriction, go f*** yourself. Love is an emotion that's inside us all. The spirit of love can reach anyone of any age, and no I'm not overexaggerating. I'm 17 years old, It's difficult for me to keep my relationship intact because I do alot of traveling thanks to my school's drumline, but I still manage to give my girl all my attention. To some people, love is all they got to remain happy. To others, family is there happy-source, some people even settle on just simply being alone, even though I don't recommend it. My best friend used to have no friends for 7 years of his life. Until he met me. My girlfriend, same story as my best friend, I was her first friend, and we started going out 4 years ago. If anything were to rupture my relationship with her, I'd go nuts. Love can become a very powerfull bond. If it's severed, it can leave a very sad effect. But everybond can be put back togehter again. You just have to try. Good luck with your ex. And remember, that trusting YCM members are giving you their support

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dude, thats deep. And true, theres no age restriction. anybody who says that ar flipping idiots.

[Static]

Nobody can describe love because it's different for each individual relationship. Those who say they can describe love obviously cannot find it. And' date=' this is to everybody who says the love has an age-restriction, go f*** yourself. Love is an emotion that's inside us all. The spirit of love can reach anyone of any age, and no I'm not over-exaggerating. I'm 17 years old, It's difficult for me to keep my relationship intact because I do a lot of traveling thanks to my school's drumline, but I still manage to give my girl all my attention. To some people, love is all they got to remain happy. To others, family is there happy-source, some people even settle on just simply being alone, even though I don't recommend it. My best friend used to have no friends for 7 years of his life. Until he met me. My girlfriend, same story as my best friend, I was her first friend, and we started going out 4 years ago. If anything were to rupture my relationship with her, I'd go nuts. Love can become a very powerful bond. If it's severed, it can leave a very sad effect. But every bond can be put back together again. You just have to try. Good luck with your ex. And remember, that trusting YCM members are giving you their support

[/quote']

 

That was, besides the spg/gmr, beautiful. Though I will choose to be alone, regardless, absolutely beautiful piece here. That first sentence cannot be argued without sheer ignorance, and the rest of it is just handsomely articulated. Beautiful, Just beautiful. Period.

[Careless Whisper]

thank you, I use deepness to make my gf happy. She loves it, and I love being able to help people get back to their senses.

[Static]

thank you' date=' I use deepness to make my gf happy. She loves it, and I love being able to help people get back to their senses.

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Eloquence is an excellent skill. Makes you sound smarter and deeper and counter statements sound far better when written in such a way.

[Careless Whisper]

it is an excellent skill, I just people could see that anyone can learn it. You just have to try your hardest and not be afraid of sounding bad. If your adraid of sounding horribly, then you'll sound horribly, if you believe that you can sound great when stating what you believe in, then you will sound great. I may mistake in spelling and grammer, but I still believe that I can change the world still. The universe is full of potential. The universe just has to learn how to use it.

[Yankee]

hmmm, wow, Sry about that Omegawave, I said I got a Gf on the bf/gf thread thing, and I recently broke up, yeah, it sucks, I am not exactly, well, i'm just not the kind of person that talks about that sort of stuff, I tend to just sit and think, and that has not worked for me =/ Yeah, I still think about what happend, but don't know what did =/

Anyway, back to you XD

I am realy sorry man. Feel free to pm me anytime ^_^

[Frunk]

thank you' date=' I use deepness to make my gf happy. She loves it, and I love being able to help people get back to their senses.

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Eloquence is an excellent skill. Makes you sound smarter and deeper and counter statements sound far better when written in such a way.

 

Such is grammar.

[the Snakey Wolf Lord]

The only reason I have a problem with this.....is that she was the only girlfriend I ever had and I love her very much....she thinks I was just lieing to her all the time I said "I love you". What i'm really worried about...is that she gets depressed easily. She tryed to kill herself 3 times. I hope she does'nt do it again....I couldn't live with myself.

Sounds kindof like myself... Except... Less doubting... I can say that you should just talk to her... In words that are something with a strong detail... But you must mean it...

[Shaco]

Nobody can describe love because it's different for each individual relationship. Those who say they can describe love obviously cannot find it. And' date=' this is to everybody who says the love has an age-restriction, go f*** yourself. Love is an emotion that's inside us all. The spirit of love can reach anyone of any age, and no I'm not over-exaggerating. I'm 17 years old, It's difficult for me to keep my relationship intact because I do a lot of traveling thanks to my school's drumline, but I still manage to give my girl all my attention. To some people, love is all they got to remain happy. To others, family is there happy-source, some people even settle on just simply being alone, even though I don't recommend it. My best friend used to have no friends for 7 years of his life. Until he met me. My girlfriend, same story as my best friend, I was her first friend, and we started going out 4 years ago. If anything were to rupture my relationship with her, I'd go nuts. Love can become a very powerful bond. If it's severed, it can leave a very sad effect. But every bond can be put back together again. You just have to try. Good luck with your ex. And remember, that trusting YCM members are giving you their support

[/quote']

 

That was, besides the spg/gmr, beautiful. Though I will choose to be alone, regardless, absolutely beautiful piece here. That first sentence cannot be argued without sheer ignorance, and the rest of it is just handsomely articulated. Beautiful, Just beautiful. Period.

 

Nobody can describe love because it's different for each individual relationship.

 

At the cost of seeming ignorant, I'd like to interject my viewpoint.

 

Love is a single, definable thing.

The problem isn't that love is different in different situations, rather it's that the other things you feel in the other relationships aren't love, or at least, shouldn't be called love.

The problem is that love is given too many definitions which could be, or should be, split into several different words with different meanings.

 

I suppose all various definitions of the word are comparable by their feeling of a strong connection to another person or thing.

 

Perhaps that is the definition of love "a strong connection to another person or thing"

[Bloodrun]

well certainly you have gotten alot of responses to this thread, and i dont know where you are right now, or how you feel as of this moment, but, all i can say is that if you give it time, give yourself time, and dont allow yourself to dwell on the bad things, that will only make it worse.

ok im gonna cut the bs out

yeah i know it hurts, yes i know it sucks, but sometimes this crap happens, its happened to me plenty of times, and evrytime i let it effect me

dont be a "me"

dont let it effect you to a point where you cant control yourself, ok?

now im pretty sure i didnt help you much at all, but i tried lol =/

[Careless Whisper]

Responding to Shaco...

 

I wasn't talking about defining the word "Love" I was talking about describing it. There is a huge difference between Defining and Describing.

 

Now to the one who needs help.

 

Bloodrun is right, give it time, and don't let it ruin your entire life. Oh and just remember. the the trusting YCM members give their support and wish you luck with getting your gf back.