Phant0mZPlayer Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 This has been bothering me for a while and I'd like to take it out of my mind and "rexpress" my feelings. Best way to get rid of a [roblem is to talk about it. Anyway, lets get to the point. My school isn't just like any other school (not that I know). In my school, you have to EARN friends, you don't gain friends by just being a kind person. If you wana make friends, or become popular in some sort of way, you have to fall into one of these two categories. 1.Good at sports, and I mean REALLY good at sports. Or 2.A tough guy who can beat up people and sh*t Now, I fall into the first category, and I'm not really happy about this either. I mean come on, since when did becoming popular, or gaining friends have conditions? Can't you just be a nice person? Not anymore. I just feel so f****** pissed when I see those "tough" guys pick on the other kids. Me? No, I don't get picked on, I'm quite popular, thanks to my athletic abilities, but I still don't get why people are starting to act like this. What would you gain from punching kids who are weaker then you? Those "tough" guys really make a big deal about small things. That just gets on my nerves, man what I'd do to have some of Cole's (inFAMOUS reference) powers right now, I know it might sound stupid, but I just wish that would possibly happen. Now, I'm gonna speak the truth, I'm not really the type of guy you'd probably call when you're in a fight, no. I'm not really considered "strong". I feel much better now that I've talked about this. Life has changed, it isn't so simple anymore. Thanks for taking your time to read this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Corgi Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I'm so weak and bad at sports that I don't get picked on in school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolta Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I get this a lot. I used to, at least. *Sigh* Life hasn't changed. It was like that all this while. For me at least. Good thing I'm not wearing a rosary... [/lamecatchphrase] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christian Exodia Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 Not that far, but I thank God i'm somewhat good at sports, and i'm conditioning for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Starrk Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 At my old school, I fit into both of these groups even though I've never even gotten into a fight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qu@ke Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I agree Life has changed, but things were always tough. Bottom line is that people aren't always gonna like other people, it sucks but that's how it is right now; the world would be a better place if we all just lived in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phant0mZPlayer Posted June 8, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='♪♫ SF-A2★Miki ♫♪' timestamp='1307542703' post='5266721'] I get this a lot.I used to, at least.*Sigh* Life hasn't changed. It was like that all this while. For me at least. Good thing I'm not wearing a rosary... [/lamecatchphrase] [/quote] In the old days, all friendship needed was trust.Not anymore. [quote name='• Starrk •' timestamp='1307543181' post='5266731'] At my old school, I fit into both of these groups even though I've never even gotten into a fight. [/quote] I've gotten into arguments A LOT. As for physical fights, I only fought once, where I punched some guy in the face. Still don't feel like I'm tough just for doing that :/ I have, once, I punched that guy right in the face, I was in 6th grade that time :/ [quote name='Qu@ke' timestamp='1307544367' post='5266762'] I agree Life has changed, but things were always tough. Bottom line is that people aren't always gonna like other people, it sucks but that's how it is right now; the world would be a better place if we all just lived in it. [/quote] Well said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ieyasu Tokugawa Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I was told that I could be made into a cool person with some help from an ex-friend. I told them to f*** off, because I could care less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phant0mZPlayer Posted June 8, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='Miror B.' timestamp='1307545177' post='5266786'] I was told that I could be made into a cool person with some help from an ex-friend.I told them to f*** off, because I could care less. [/quote] I'm not saying anything about being cool, I'm just saying how different it has become to make friends these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody Frost Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I'm not the strongest, not the most popular, but I was considered one of the nicest persons at my school :3 On a different note, I have been bullied before when I was in 1st and 2nd grade, but when I finally said enough was enough and kicked my bully in the nose making it bleed (even though I got quite the beat up of my life after that), I ended my being-bullied era. The bruises and cuts were still there for about a week though. >_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frunk Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 You don't have to be either of those things if you're good-looking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grunt Issun Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I'm not good at sports, and I'm weak... coincedently, so are 4 of my 7 good friends, the other two, ones pretty strong, and the others amazing at sports, despite that, there still my best friends, and the third is just an average girl. Don't get me wrong, its like that at my school to, just not EVERYONE is like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phant0mZPlayer Posted June 8, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='Frunk' timestamp='1307548290' post='5266881'] You don't have to be either of those things if you're good-looking. [/quote] True. So SO true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody Frost Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='Frunk' timestamp='1307548290' post='5266881'] You don't have to be either of those things if you're good-looking. [/quote] Only in some cases the best looking guy at my school had a bit of an issue this year. Good think me and a couple of my friends were there to bail him out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whirr Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='Frunk' timestamp='1307548290' post='5266881'] You don't have to be either of those things if you're good-looking. [/quote] Yeah, that's pretty much how I got through school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garthfunkle Vii Backwards Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 you are starting to see the world as it truly is how humans act and treat each other but that life what you should do (snice you are popular because of your athletic abilities) you should try to stand up for the little guys try to make a change change starts with one person if your so called "freinds" decide to you are no longer "cool" then Fl_l<l< THEM who gave them the right was awesome and whats not they not true blue freinds anyways and lastly karma a real l31+<l-l one day one of those so called "loser" that messed with will be rich because hes smart while they are flipping burgers because they did not what had what it takes to pass a community college Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grunt Issun Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 Uhh... no one said the losers were smart. Infact, for all we know, there might not be any smart people in his school, and for that matter, just because your good at sports, or strong, doesn't mean your dumb. Remember the friend who I said was good at sports? He gets better grades then I do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gospel. Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 In my spare time, I punt babies. I have no friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody Frost Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='~N~' timestamp='1307558337' post='5267178'] Uhh... no one said the losers were smart. Infact, for all we know, there might not be any smart people in his school, and for that matter, just because your good at sports, or strong, doesn't mean your dumb. Remember the friend who I said was good at sports? He gets better grades then I do. [/quote] Too true. I've seen a few guys who are both, or neither [quote name='Rei IV' timestamp='1307558654' post='5267190'] In my spare time, I punt babies. I have no friends. [/quote] REI!!!! HOW COULD YOU?!?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Î’yakuya Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 I have friends, lots of them who are similar to my tastes. Whether they like Pokemon, draw well, or are well knowing, I make lot's of friends. But people who base just on strength and athletics are quite inconceivable. It's pretty much a weird norm to go by. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel of Silence Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 It truly is an unfair thing...My class is the same way, I am good at sports though. Oh and in my class I'm also the smartest, I was the one called a nerd throughout all of Junior high. Guess who got a girlfriend first? Me. In life, if you're nice to everyone, if you respect everyone, you do get treated better. Just stick to treating everyone fairly and you'll do well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garthfunkle Vii Backwards Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 sorry about that its just i have not seen to many of both smart and athletic ingoring that part what ive said is more or less is right on the money Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody Frost Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 [quote name='Byakuya Kuchiki' timestamp='1307559177' post='5267213'] But people who base just on strength and athletics are quite inconceivable. It's pretty much a weird norm to go by. [/quote] I like the way you stated that. And it's true! I'm the dancing/energetic/academic/semi-nerd/semi-jock that everyone loves or at the least can talk to X3 Some of my friends are drawers who think I'm insane, others are FULL BLOWN Jocks or Nerds, some are stuck-up and some are shy. It's good to keep your friends diverse because that's just how the world is :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted June 8, 2011 Report Share Posted June 8, 2011 Don't worry. You'll grow up and realize it's [color="#FFFFFF"]all about money (and confidence)[/color]. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clair Posted June 9, 2011 Report Share Posted June 9, 2011 Try your best to be kind to everybody and see how many new friends you can get. ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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