Big Bad Pennar Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 I got bullied cause I was very arrogant with my smarts, what I did was that I went to a vocational school, and cooled my arrogance. After that, I gained many friends. Nowadays, my dad bullies me cause of my exceptional ability to use the computer, and even banned me from them for really retarded reasons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 what kind of reasons? Because I got the same thing from my parents on the computer when they are so illiterate about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mehmani Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 To everyone who says that fighting back only gets you in trouble - I don't care. If you just snap and go full SPARTAAAA on them, as long as it makes the overall bullying situation better (which it often will) I don't care if I go to court for GBH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 I know, tell me about it bullies only get the message once you use your own fists on them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolta Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Flandre Scarlet' timestamp='1310452387' post='5347339'] Nowadays, my dad bullies me cause of my exceptional ability to use the computer, and even banned me from them for really retarded reasons [/quote] [s]He's half right, I'm a wierdo.[/s] Even if the internet is full of wierdos, it wouldn't be wierd to be a wierdo on the internet. I had no idea what I just said. Either way it goes, Wierdos don't exist on the interwebz. Only trolls and noobs. I got bullied... I'd say, all the time. I used to always get aggresive, or bottle up my feelings until I become hysterical. I'm sorta a lonely guy with (hardly) no mael friends to understand boy stuffz. Except for those I DON'T talk to. Bullying was more common in my Primary school, but at least I had more friends back then too. Times change. Big Time. I remember once I fought back really badly. And I took part of the blame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 I actually had more bullying on me in middle school, people who were WAY too arrogant for their own good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Bad Pennar Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='ragnarok1945' timestamp='1310454131' post='5347358'] what kind of reasons? [/quote] first, as Jolta said, "The internet is full of weirdoes", then he proclaims about how dangerous the Internet is, comparing it to a cliff at first, then to a bar(which he goes to a lot of them). My bully case was actually different from you guy's, I was bullied cause I was being very arrogant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 yeah but that's how people respond: you treat others as how they treat you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admiral Tim Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 man I'm like the only asian kid in my whole school full of white kids so racist comments do show up but no one will pick a fight with me cause I'm to big. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mehmani Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='ragnarok1945' timestamp='1310455329' post='5347378'] I know, tell me about it bullies only get the message once you use your own fists on them [/quote] That's because they are idiots, but sometimes to only way to communicate with an idiot is to behave idiotically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Mikhail Nekem'evič Tal' timestamp='1310481999' post='5347960'] That's because they are idiots, but sometimes to only way to communicate with an idiot is to behave idiotically. [/quote] Yeah, only when they learn that form of communication will they become smarter as the old saying goes "When you're dealing with a beast, you have to treat him like a beast" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 i hate it too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 you ever get bullied a lot, Deidara? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='ragnarok1945' timestamp='1310493928' post='5348494'] you ever get bullied a lot, Deidara? [/quote] yes, quite often, actually. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 the only drawback with the fist option is you have to be VERY careful when you use it I discovered more often than not the bullies are allowed to get away with whatever they want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='ragnarok1945' timestamp='1310494379' post='5348521'] the only drawback with the fist option is you have to be VERY careful when you use it I discovered more often than not the bullies are allowed to get away with whatever they want [/quote] good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 you ever experienced that yourself, Deidara? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 nope. not yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 12, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 @Deidara: Can you contribute a little more to this thread than two to three worded posts? Any way's. About two years ago I started Wing Chun Kung Fu for self defence from bullies. I did end up using it and I ended up knocking someone out which wasn't one of my proudest moments. I basically defended myself from one of his punches, grabbed his wrist and pulled him past me. I then proceeded to kick him in the back of his knee and forced him down into the ground and then I knocked him out with an elbow to the head. He didn't pick on me again but it didn't gain me many friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Liebert Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 but, i've been called perveted, gay [i'm not], retarded, and other names. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solemn Silver Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 Up until this year's graduation, (my own,) there was always somebody in my life to Abuse me verbally, and in rare occasions, Physically. I've always been the mature, gentle Good guy of my peers, and nobody seemed to respect me, with few exceptions of other "Freinds" from other schools, and 2 girls from my 8th grade class.. I'm really hoping I get some respect come high school, otherwise I don't know what I'm going to do.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Ctrl+Alt+Win' timestamp='1310502619' post='5349094'] Up until this year's graduation, (my own,) there was always somebody in my life to Abuse me verbally, and in rare occasions, Physically. I've always been the mature, gentle Good guy of my peers, and nobody seemed to respect me, with few exceptions of other "Freinds" from other schools, and 2 girls from my 8th grade class.. I'm really hoping I get some respect come high school, otherwise I don't know what I'm going to do.. [/quote] Trust me, I've see my share of bullies in high school that's even worse They are too arrogant to learn unless you take their bulling and turn it against them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solemn Silver Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote]Trust me, I've see my share of bullies in high school that's even worse They are too arrogant to learn unless you take their bulling and turn it against them [/quote] F***. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 yeah it's not a pretty sight, but it's the only those people actually learned not saying that applies to all, but certainly some Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PowerlinX Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Mikhail Nekem'evič Tal' timestamp='1310422341' post='5346300'] Bullying in excess in a terrible thing, but as bullying is merely a part of human nature it can never be wiped out. I was bullied a huge amount throughout Primary School and in hindsight it was character-building. I look back on it and I'm glad I had to deal with it. I do still get bullied now (not as much) but I know that if I get attacked again I'll fight back. Even the act of fighting back can often gain you enough respect to stop others from bothering you. Bullying will never be truly eradicated. The strong (not necessarily intelligent) children will mercilessly bully anyone weaker than them. If you can speak out and question them, if you have a quick wit and are good at carefully wording your insults, you can effectively deal with a bully. "Cussing" well has got me out of tight situation several, it earns you respect and demonstrates your improvisational ability. [/quote] Agreed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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