Ghoulish Posted November 2, 2011 Report Share Posted November 2, 2011 [spoiler= Quite long but If interested then fell free to give feedback] So I come home from the gym, everything is as usual, except that my brother went for a drive (he is on his L Plates) with my mother, they get home and he is in an uproar (this is not the shock) about getting his P's even though he hasn't done 120 hours and has showed on numerous occasions that he is not confident enough to drive on his own. But because he carrys on the way he does and puts both my parents, along with himself, close to tears they finally say "Fine ill book you in, but you won't have a car to drive!" this is a fair statement, he is 17 has no money and no car (I am currently using the only available car possible as the others are my parents') Does he stop? he got what he wanted and everything should now calm down, well this would be the case for a normal kid anyway, he keeps going and believe it or not worse. Everyone is now involved, he apparently didn't like the usage of "you don't have a car" to remind him that he can't do s*** all with his P's even if he gets them. After about 10 more minutes of yelling and cursing, I honestly felt like for the first time ever I could knock that kid the F#@# out. Bit of history between me and my bro, i'm 19 his 17 atm, and we were pretty much like normal brothers growing up, I hated him and he hated me, but in some miraculous twist of fate we grew up, when he turned 15 and i turned 17, we seemed more eye to eye, we never had any fights, and could pretty much hang out like we were hanging out with members of our own group of mates. After developing this new bond with him that seemed like it would never fade, he was going overseas for a trial and would be away for a month and a half. I will admit I did miss him alot whilst he was gone, although the house was quieter, I didn't have someone really to chill with or basically talk to like we used to. Sister works lots (21), and lets face it jokes at teen age can't really be laughed at with parents. When he came back I was thrilled, and I could tell he was as well, seemed that bond hadn't even been scratched and everything would go back to the way it was. Anyway the event mentioned before happened about a week after he came back. This is shocking if you saw the way he said "hi" to mum and dad, (he went on his own), he was definatly glad to be home....or so I thought. Back with me during the occurence, it progressed to his room and showed him and my father psyching up, of course dad would never hit him and I believe vice versa. My room was next to his and I was ready to go in and try to calm him down, literally just calm him down, and what do I get "F%^& off i'll stab you while you sleep!" at this point I almost lost it both my sister and my dad had to hold me back from killing the kid, "You think your tough cause you workout", honestly I would kill the kid in a fight so I don't know what his on about. I probably could have gotten myself out of being held back, but like I said "almost lost it". It's started to settle down and after seeing my mother and father in tears, and hearing him be the coward he is and try to attack me while I'm asleep it's done, whatever bond we had is broken. I don't know if he is but there was alot of "If you don't like it then leave" I don't care either way at this point his dead to me, that little restrain that held me back from knocking him out is gone. This all happened about 30mins ago, if you were bothered to read it and would like to give an opinion on this or your own experiences then fell free to, I don't think i'll discuss it with anyone I know personally, so I thought I may as well get some feedback from here. [/spoiler] I guess basically the topic is, discuss family disputes, negative concequences, how you try to fix them and so on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Starrk Posted November 3, 2011 Report Share Posted November 3, 2011 [quote name='Holy Descent' timestamp='1320211989' post='5612637'] [spoiler= Quite long but If interested then fell free to give feedback] So I come home from the gym, everything is as usual, except that my brother went for a drive (he is on his L Plates) with my mother, they get home and he is in an uproar (this is not the shock) about getting his P's even though he hasn't done 120 hours and has showed on numerous occasions that he is not confident enough to drive on his own. But because he carrys on the way he does and puts both my parents, along with himself, close to tears they finally say "Fine ill book you in, but you won't have a car to drive!" this is a fair statement, he is 17 has no money and no car (I am currently using the only available car possible as the others are my parents') Does he stop? he got what he wanted and everything should now calm down, well this would be the case for a normal kid anyway, he keeps going and believe it or not worse. Everyone is now involved, he apparently didn't like the usage of "you don't have a car" to remind him that he can't do s*** all with his P's even if he gets them. After about 10 more minutes of yelling and cursing, I honestly felt like for the first time ever I could knock that kid the F#@# out. Bit of history between me and my bro, i'm 19 his 17 atm, and we were pretty much like normal brothers growing up, I hated him and he hated me, but in some miraculous twist of fate we grew up, when he turned 15 and i turned 17, we seemed more eye to eye, we never had any fights, and could pretty much hang out like we were hanging out with members of our own group of mates. After developing this new bond with him that seemed like it would never fade, he was going overseas for a trial and would be away for a month and a half. I will admit I did miss him alot whilst he was gone, although the house was quieter, I didn't have someone really to chill with or basically talk to like we used to. Sister works lots (21), and lets face it jokes at teen age can't really be laughed at with parents. When he came back I was thrilled, and I could tell he was as well, seemed that bond hadn't even been scratched and everything would go back to the way it was. Anyway the event mentioned before happened about a week after he came back. This is shocking if you saw the way he said "hi" to mum and dad, (he went on his own), he was definatly glad to be home....or so I thought. Back with me during the occurence, it progressed to his room and showed him and my father psyching up, of course dad would never hit him and I believe vice versa. My room was next to his and I was ready to go in and try to calm him down, literally just calm him down, and what do I get "F%^& off i'll stab you while you sleep!" at this point I almost lost it both my sister and my dad had to hold me back from killing the kid, "You think your tough cause you workout", honestly I would kill the kid in a fight so I don't know what his on about. I probably could have gotten myself out of being held back, but like I said "almost lost it". It's started to settle down and after seeing my mother and father in tears, and hearing him be the coward he is and try to attack me while I'm asleep it's done, whatever bond we had is broken. I don't know if he is but there was alot of "If you don't like it then leave" I don't care either way at this point his dead to me, that little restrain that held me back from knocking him out is gone. This all happened about 30mins ago, if you were bothered to read it and would like to give an opinion on this or your own experiences then fell free to, I don't think i'll discuss it with anyone I know personally, so I thought I may as well get some feedback from here. [/spoiler] I guess basically the topic is, discuss family disputes, negative concequences, how you try to fix them and so on. [/quote] Indeed a tough situation. But time heals all wounds. Distance yourself from him and keep your restraint. Things will go back to normal with time. However, if he ever tries to attack you in any way, knock the f***er out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted November 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2011 Yea I suppose that's true, it was just more surprising than anything, considering that we haven't fought for years and then he says something like that, I willa dm it it cut mr deep, but yea trying that method and hoping he will at the very least apolagize for it. And don't worry I will lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted November 4, 2011 Report Share Posted November 4, 2011 The only family I have is my mother and my brother. We don't have times for drama/tantrums. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted November 4, 2011 Report Share Posted November 4, 2011 Most family dramas were rows between my sister and mom during her middle school years. I legit [i]hated[/i] my sister back then. Now I've just learned to tolerate her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted November 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 4, 2011 That's the kind of way I was with my brother, then we got passed it, very far passed it actually then this happened and we're worse then we started. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted November 5, 2011 Report Share Posted November 5, 2011 [quote] "F%^& off i'll stab you while you sleep!"[/quote] Classic! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lt. Colonel Remo Posted November 5, 2011 Report Share Posted November 5, 2011 Act [i]really[/i] nice Genocide family, neighbors, and all extended family and family friends threaten to kill him Tell him he needs to get stronger as he is too weak with hate ??? Profit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 5, 2011 Report Share Posted November 5, 2011 methods of vengance: put him in the bin while he sleeps. and the next day would be when the bins are emptied. make sure he only gets fruit and veg to eat. wave whatever hes allergic to in his face. FALCON PAAUUUNCH! sneak attack from behind(jump on his back and do whatever) etc, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted November 6, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 6, 2011 [quote name='Remo S. Valentine' timestamp='1320455496' post='5618013'] Act [i]really[/i] nice Genocide family, neighbors, and all extended family and family friends threaten to kill him Tell him he needs to get stronger as he is too weak with hate ??? Profit [/quote] I was wondering where you were going with that then saw "tell him he needs to get stronger" haha it worked for Kishimoto so I guess it'll work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lt. Colonel Remo Posted November 6, 2011 Report Share Posted November 6, 2011 [quote name='Holy Descent' timestamp='1320565453' post='5620872'] I was wondering where you were going with that then saw "tell him he needs to get stronger" haha it worked for [s]Kishimoto[/s] Itachi so I guess it'll work [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted November 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 But Itachi ended up letting Sasuke win Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted November 7, 2011 Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 Older bro: Gets to the school of his dream Gets 11k to help with his education Takes away my own room by driving me out via cumming all over the f***ing bed when he's f***ing his 16 year old girlfriend Gets a BMW What the f*** he did: Stole 300 bucks from me and another from our lil bro Stole 500 bucks from our dirt poor mom who lives in the ghetto in New Orleans Asks our dad who's dirt poor for 1k Tries to take over my computer (Payed 500 for) and my PS3 (Me and my lil bro both payed 250 for) What the f*** happened: He came to me and asked for the password to my account, the main/the one who controls everything. I say no. He says whynot? I say I don't trust him. He f***ing rages, calls me a fa****, tells me he'll kill me when I'm not looking and then says I'm not allowed to ask for anything from him. His f***ing history: Told our dad he's bi polar and needed a month off of school Spent a third of his FIRST senior year playing MW2 Told our cousins he doesn't care about us or about what's best for us Forced me to lay in his love bed without me knowing it for weeks Punched me in my stomach after disciplining our little sister when she kicks me in my nuts Tried to change me into a jock against my will Threatened my life and used my fears to make me do stuff for a couple years til I called his bluff Claimed to had a hard childhood, turns out of the three of us, he had the cushiest childhood not having to work nor getting beaten at all. Called me a fa**** for liking MLP, sleeps with 4 other doods in the same bed Calls me a horrible person, cheats on his young gf with her latino friend Rejects who I really am (A angry and morbid person) and replaces me with his own version Claims to be hardcore and once nearly killed a teacher, turns out all he did was beat the s*** out of his teacher when he wasn't looking (Old man none the less) Threatened to kill our younger bro if I don't give him money, called his bluff During teh summer when we took care of our baby bro and sis, me and my lil bro headed to our cousin's house to chill and relax for the rest of summer. When we came to visit, both our younger siblings were sick, he left for the week to go party with his friends. During 4th of July, he was incharge of getting fireworks, he was given $700 dollars to go buy us some fireworks, he gambled it all away. Now you know why I hate his guts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted November 7, 2011 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 [quote name='~Batshit Insane VK~' timestamp='1320632927' post='5623088'] Older bro: Gets to the school of his dream Gets 11k to help with his education Takes away my own room by driving me out via cumming all over the f***ing bed when he's f***ing his 16 year old girlfriend Gets a BMW What the f*** he did: Stole 300 bucks from me and another from our lil bro Stole 500 bucks from our dirt poor mom who lives in the ghetto in New Orleans Asks our dad who's dirt poor for 1k Tries to take over my computer (Payed 500 for) and my PS3 (Me and my lil bro both payed 250 for) What the f*** happened: He came to me and asked for the password to my account, the main/the one who controls everything. I say no. He says whynot? I say I don't trust him. He f***ing rages, calls me a fa****, tells me he'll kill me when I'm not looking and then says I'm not allowed to ask for anything from him. His f***ing history: Told our dad he's bi polar and needed a month off of school Spent a third of his FIRST senior year playing MW2 Told our cousins he doesn't care about us or about what's best for us Forced me to lay in his love bed without me knowing it for weeks Punched me in my stomach after disciplining our little sister when she kicks me in my nuts Tried to change me into a jock against my will Threatened my life and used my fears to make me do stuff for a couple years til I called his bluff Claimed to had a hard childhood, turns out of the three of us, he had the cushiest childhood not having to work nor getting beaten at all. Called me a fa**** for liking MLP, sleeps with 4 other doods in the same bed Calls me a horrible person, cheats on his young gf with her latino friend Rejects who I really am (A angry and morbid person) and replaces me with his own version Claims to be hardcore and once nearly killed a teacher, turns out all he did was beat the s*** out of his teacher when he wasn't looking (Old man none the less) Threatened to kill our younger bro if I don't give him money, called his bluff During teh summer when we took care of our baby bro and sis, me and my lil bro headed to our cousin's house to chill and relax for the rest of summer. When we came to visit, both our younger siblings were sick, he left for the week to go party with his friends. During 4th of July, he was incharge of getting fireworks, he was given $700 dollars to go buy us some fireworks, he gambled it all away. Now you know why I hate his guts. [/quote] After most of that, even I don't have the patience to run his head though a wall, seriously if my bro was that bad I would literally kick the s*** out of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Great Unclean One: VK Posted November 7, 2011 Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 Only reason I didn't kill the fucktard myself is because I can bide. I'll wait and watch his girlfriend call rape on him after I reveal the fact he's f***ing her friend. Then I'll watch him reap his rewards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lt. Colonel Remo Posted November 7, 2011 Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 [quote name='Holy Descent' timestamp='1320629240' post='5622840'] But Itachi ended up letting Sasuke win [/quote] Sasuke nearly became good tho =/ [quote name='~Batshit Insane VK~' timestamp='1320655369' post='5623534'] Only reason I didn't kill the fucktard myself is because I can bide. I'll wait and watch his girlfriend call rape on him after I reveal the fact he's f***ing her friend. Then I'll watch him reap his rewards. [/quote] Tell what happens You have my support bro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niv-Mizzet Posted November 7, 2011 Report Share Posted November 7, 2011 [quote name='~Batshit Insane VK~' timestamp='1320632927' post='5623088'] Older bro: Gets to the school of his dream Gets 11k to help with his education Takes away my own room by driving me out via cumming all over the f***ing bed when he's f***ing his 16 year old girlfriend Gets a BMW What the f*** he did: Stole 300 bucks from me and another from our lil bro Stole 500 bucks from our dirt poor mom who lives in the ghetto in New Orleans Asks our dad who's dirt poor for 1k Tries to take over my computer (Payed 500 for) and my PS3 (Me and my lil bro both payed 250 for) What the f*** happened: He came to me and asked for the password to my account, the main/the one who controls everything. I say no. He says whynot? I say I don't trust him. He f***ing rages, calls me a fa****, tells me he'll kill me when I'm not looking and then says I'm not allowed to ask for anything from him. His f***ing history: Told our dad he's bi polar and needed a month off of school Spent a third of his FIRST senior year playing MW2 Told our cousins he doesn't care about us or about what's best for us Forced me to lay in his love bed without me knowing it for weeks Punched me in my stomach after disciplining our little sister when she kicks me in my nuts Tried to change me into a jock against my will Threatened my life and used my fears to make me do stuff for a couple years til I called his bluff Claimed to had a hard childhood, turns out of the three of us, he had the cushiest childhood not having to work nor getting beaten at all. Called me a fa**** for liking MLP, sleeps with 4 other doods in the same bed Calls me a horrible person, cheats on his young gf with her latino friend Rejects who I really am (A angry and morbid person) and replaces me with his own version Claims to be hardcore and once nearly killed a teacher, turns out all he did was beat the s*** out of his teacher when he wasn't looking (Old man none the less) Threatened to kill our younger bro if I don't give him money, called his bluff During teh summer when we took care of our baby bro and sis, me and my lil bro headed to our cousin's house to chill and relax for the rest of summer. When we came to visit, both our younger siblings were sick, he left for the week to go party with his friends. During 4th of July, he was incharge of getting fireworks, he was given $700 dollars to go buy us some fireworks, he gambled it all away. Now you know why I hate his guts. [/quote] Wow. That's just... wow. I've got two younger bros and while they can get annoying, I'd never do anything like that again. Eh, if he keeps doing that s***, I can pretty much guarantee he's not going to have a very happy life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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