let me give u some girl advice

[Sunn O)))]

This is, like, the best advice here, like, totally.

 

Be attractive and have money.

 

You can now get as many girls as you want to.

[Zauls]

Just because you're highly emotion doesn't mean anything to the fact that you're only relying on your emotions to fuel your desire or trust in relationships. Yeah, I would love my life to be a Disney movie where I can just fall in love and live happily ever after. You can't suspect for a relationship to the mean the world for you before anything that actually happens. Relationships come and go, and that is how it works. Sure, you should go into a relationship without thinking it is going to end, but you shouldn't think about a relationship like you're going to marry the person until it is serious enough. You should go into a relationship wanting to get to know a person because that is what a relationship is meant to be.

 

You're just naive if you think that relationships are built upon already knowing the person. Yes, you can date a friend, but the intimacy of the relationship will be more than a friendship can offer. And you'll learn more about the person while you date them than you would as a friend.

 

I'm obviously not expecting, as you say, to just "fall in love and live happily ever after". Things happen, mostly bad things, so that's not exactly going to be the case. I'm not trying to live in a Disney movie, all I'm saying is that people should take relationships at least slightly seriously. If you're in a good relationship, take it seriously because you don't want it to go badly. Opportunities like that don't exactly come by that often.

 

I think if you already know a person and you then get into a relationship with them, you will get to know them in a different way than if you are just their friend. Obviously you will get to know a person better by dating them, because it is a different kind of relationship and it does bring things out in people. All I'm trying to say is that if you don't know someone at all, then they won't be interested in going on a date with you. A couple of conversations might be enough, it depends really on what you mean by "knowing someone". 

 

I think another point that needs to be said is the difference between "dating" and "going on a date". You can go on a date with people you don't know very well, but you shouldn't start dating them until you've gotten to know them at least a little I think.

 

I think the mistake I have been making with my points is not clearly differentiating between these two, but yes, this is entirely true.