Yankee Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Well, Icyblue and Bloodrun know the situation...A friend of mine, Adam sent me the following IM on msn: [spoiler=MSN message][email protected] says:hey[email protected] says:I just wanted to say that this looks like goodbye from me[email protected] says:i have had fun being friends with you and everythng[email protected] says:and hopefully[email protected] says:i will be seeing you in heaen[email protected] says:heaven*[email protected] says:bye After alot of attempts to stop him..It seems my friend Adam has commited suicide...Now, to go along with this, he sent me the e-mail of a girl, and told me to tell her things he couldent tell her before. I'm in a tough spot...I have to tell the girl he loved that he is dead, and other such things, and I don't even know her...Not only have I lost a friend, I have to ruin the mind of another person I don't even know... Please help me in some way with this... If this is spam..I am sorry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Honestly? Let the family handle it at best...I do not believe the girl should have to handle this kind of pressure.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saturn of Elemia Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 I agree with Icy. It would not be fair to her... My condolences are offered for this troubling time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fh-Fh Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her, her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fh-Fh Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fh-Fh Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Jeez. What did you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Jeez. What did you do? Me? Nothing... I was invited into the conversation to try and coax him out of it.Sadly he claimed not to see me or Bloodrun's IM messages, even after I added him. Which only added further to the skepticism... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fh-Fh Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Jeez. What did you do? Me? Nothing... I was invited into the conversation to try and coax him out of it.Sadly he claimed not to see me or Bloodrun's IM messages, even after I added him. Which only added further to the skepticism... You should have helped him (more)! Have a serious discussion with him.Sit down and talk with him. I know its rough for you, and I don't wish to be mean or anything, but suicide is serious! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 ^: I did, heavily...Kept trying to IM him one-on-one etc, no avail. At least as much as someone can do online... I ain't flying to New Zealand for that... And if that was sarcasm... o.O... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fh-Fh Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Jeez. What did you do? Me? Nothing... I was invited into the conversation to try and coax him out of it.Sadly he claimed not to see me or Bloodrun's IM messages, even after I added him. Which only added further to the skepticism... You should have helped him (more)! Have a serious discussion with him.Sit down and talk with him. I know its rough for you, and I don't wish to be mean or anything, but suicide is serious! ^: I did, heavily...Kept trying to IM him one-on-one etc, no avail. At least as much as someone can do online... But I ain't flying to New Zealand for that... And if that was sarcasm... o.O... Don't break the quote chain =| New Zealand O_o. I thought you were closer, like, same town.Not much you can talk with interwebz (cept' for videophone). I thought of suicide in 7th grade. Then I thought what I could do when I grew up, and stopped myself. But this is a weird case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Why did he kill himself? He wasnt even clear on that...Everything was her' date=' her, her, her boyfriend, her... Nothing about himself.And then the occasional I am gonna kill myself and sulky mood...[/quote'] Ah. Deppression. See now this is where I am skeptical...He made NO mention about himself in any situation, outside the occasional 'I am gonna kill myself' icebreaker message.... Jeez. What did you do? Me? Nothing... I was invited into the conversation to try and coax him out of it.Sadly he claimed not to see me or Bloodrun's IM messages, even after I added him. Which only added further to the skepticism... You should have helped him (more)! Have a serious discussion with him.Sit down and talk with him. I know its rough for you, and I don't wish to be mean or anything, but suicide is serious! ^: I did, heavily...Kept trying to IM him one-on-one etc, no avail. At least as much as someone can do online... But I ain't flying to New Zealand for that... And if that was sarcasm... o.O... Don't break the quote chain =| New Zealand O_o. I thought you were closer, like, same town.Not much you can talk with interwebz (cept' for videophone). I thought of suicide in 7th grade. Then I thought what I could do when I grew up, and stopped myself. But this is a weird case. Icyblue = HawaiiBloodrun = (I forget, Central US I think)...Yankeefan = Oregon or WashingtonSuicide in Question = New Zealand... And :?I could never think of suicide for myself like that."Violence unto none including oneself."The first rule of who I am... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hioco Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 man this is a bit bad man... Looks like you guys knew him well... But i say let the family handle it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pikachu Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Adam commited suicide? Wow, that is horriblewell.....no choice but to follow his will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tiger Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 I'm sorry(A sympathetic sorry)Well, don't worry about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfMagicians Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 He didn't kill himself.99% of all suicides, they aren't going to come out and tell you about, they will just do it.Its an attention thing. He's feeling sorry for himself right now and just needs some time to think.Gawd, kids these days think everything is so d*** dramatic all the time...Wait til yall get to the real world. You think its hard now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Hunter™ Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Sorry about your friend... Just let the family handle it, it'll work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Protoman Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Sorry about your friend... Just let the family handle it' date=' it'll work.[/quote']agreed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Wolf Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 He didn't kill himself.99% of all suicides' date=' they aren't going to come out and tell you about, they will just do it.Its an attention thing. He's feeling sorry for himself right now and just needs some time to think.Gawd, kids these days think everything is so d*** dramatic all the time...Wait til yall get to the real world. You think its hard now...[/quote'] Q4T! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyber Altair Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Tell the girl "Oh hai there. My good friend, you see, has committed suicide and before he did that he sent me an e-mail that i should tell you that he had a crush on you. kthnxbye" Girl: "=O. Oh well, he's dead and i am sexy so i can get another one. meh =\" It really doesn't seem hard to me, then again I'm a dick and such things seem easy to me =P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodrun Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Simple.You sneak up on your friend, and stuff an ice cube up his cube hole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bury the year Posted October 8, 2008 Report Share Posted October 8, 2008 *gives a big virtual hug* I can't offer any words, for I would most definitely sound insincere. I'm sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted October 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 8, 2008 Thanks for all the posts everybody. I'm glad some people actually care about this 0_o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyber Altair Posted October 8, 2008 Report Share Posted October 8, 2008 This is the internet, actually no one cares. NO ONE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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