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How old are you, that's sometimes a matter in this state of shyness. I'm also greatly shy too, and none of the tips I give you are tested, therefore shyness barriers cant be lifted that way.

 

Another idea, is that if your teacher asks you to get in groups for some reason or another, try asking her to be in her group, just as a factor of getting to know her.

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I can't give you my age (you know, privacy and security) It's not thaT I don't trust you, my parents don't want me giving out personal info. >_< I am younger than 16 though.

 

And the groups thing, my teacher usually pics the groups so I have no say >_>

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Thats kinda sad.

Why? I didn't like most of the girls in my middle school' date=' and same holds for moat girls in my high school. The few that I do talk to aren't the kind of person I would want to date. The one person I do "like" is one of my closest friends and I've already said why I wouldn't want to make a move.

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I know what your going through =\

 

It's really risky if you want to show what you really feel cause if you really like her then moving to early, quickly or even moving at all could mean whatever you had could even get lost. I hate it when people say "Just ask her, you've got nothing to lose!" cause you do. I myself am kinda shy, not with close friends but with people I really don't know as in I can't make friendships as quickly as others, this is mainly with girls really not that much when it comes to boys. Just do what Sin Aura said I guess, except the passionate look =\

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hears things that i do to get to know a girl. I dont know if this will help you much but its helped me.

 

Step1: Eye Contact-Make eye contact. Make sure you hold your gaze for a little longer than a usual glance. If you see the girl doing the same, then your good for the next stage. See, the girl is will be interested if you keep a longer gaze and if she does then shes interested in you.

 

Step2:The Smile- If she gives a quick smile, it is important to smile back because then the girl will think your not interested. Just a small smile will do.

 

Step3: Preen-If she plays with her hair,runs her tongue over her lips, and adjust clothes and jewlry, its safe to say shes trying to look good, usually subconcious.

 

Step4: Talk-give a few chat up lines. It make take a while before you strike a conversation, but be patient. Hint: if after a few minutes of speaking with the girl, she yawns,frowns,or sneers you can count that she isnt interested. If she crosses her arms, put her hands in her pockets, and avoids your gaze, u might as well forget it.

 

Step5: Touch- After a certain time of talking to her and when you are comfortable with talking to her, lightly touch her on her arms our hands either on accident or for a genuine reason. if shes happy with touching, u can continue with more touching. Hint: an easy way to start touching is to shake hands.

 

-The eyes are the main part of knowing a girl likes you because if her eys are dilated, she likes you.(assuming shes looking at you)

-the more closer to the girl you can get without her moving, the more she likes you.

-try talking to the chick with a "wing-man" friend that isnt as shy, its also easier to talk to her with a support of your friends.

-be polite to her. (open the door for her, pick up her pencils,etc)

-be YOURSELF!

 

well good luck.

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