Father Wolf Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I haven't gone out with anyone yet because I don't know how to approach them. I'm also affraid that if I try to ask someone out' date=' they'll reject me and tell their friends about it, making me the laughingstock of the school. What should I do?[/quote'] shoot for girls the are equal to ur social group. ask general question like what their doing, or their day. music is an easy ice breaker, but not a great opener. then continue the convo about u and her. dont tell stupid jokes. then repeat till a friendship is made. ect ect. then u know what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armageddon08 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I don't really know what social group I'm in. I used to be considered a nerd and made fun of, but that doesn't happen much anymore. Oh yeah, and I also like listening to hard rock and metal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRKinky Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 oh, I know that. In high school, I was so afraid of rejection! I never really dated in high school. I was even afraid of asking a friend to prom, but luckily she said yes :p But I realized in college, rejection is a part of life. And its not as bad as you think it is. You wont be the laughing stock of school. Just approach the person you like and ask them if they would like to go out (hang out, grab a bite to eat, a movie, or something). once I figured that out, I asked my now partner on our first date and we've been together for over a year. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armageddon08 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Wow, I'll try that, but I'll try to get to know the person first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRKinky Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 yeah...forgot to mention get to know the person :) but yeah, trust me, I'm now 22 y/o and I'm happier than I've ever been. Took me until I was out of high school to realize that rejection will always happen, but its not as bad as its made out to be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armageddon08 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 How bad is it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Wolf Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 How bad is it? to be honest idk never had a “100% no”. the closest ive had was a girl say she didnt want a bf but wanted a friend with benafits. so i cant help ya there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRKinky Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Basically, its "Lets just be friends" and you may feel a little sad, but then if they have single friends, they may introduce you to them :) so basically, just feeling a little sad or a little tummy ache...thats it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father Wolf Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Basically' date=' its "Lets just be friends" and you may feel a little sad, but then if they have single friends, they may introduce you to them :) so basically, just feeling a little sad or a little tummy ache...thats it.[/quote'] tummy ache. lulz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 yeah well I'd take the let's be friends, then give it time to develop to relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRKinky Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 yeah...i know...I'm so used to talking to my nephews and nieces (i have 7)...lol... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 That can get annoying depending on their age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JRKinky Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 the oldest 1 is 12 (13 in a month), an 8 y/o, a 6 y/o, two 5 y/o, two 2 y/o...and another is due in April... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well, I'm a young 12 year old with a BF who is the most kind and considerate guy ever. He is just so perfect and caring, and he is a great guy to talk too. He is just very shy. We are one of those couples who are to shy to do anything besides talk to eachother and we are also shy talking to eachother in person. Should I try to talk to him more and fix the shyness? Another thing is that I promised to hug him very soon (like I said, we are shy so even a hug is hard), but whenever I try ot hug him, I freeze up and just can't do it, he is also shy about it. What should I do to progress the relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I suggest to talk to him and fix the shyness, it's not easy, but you should. At my school I've seen plenty of couples who's gf are near silent, and that tends to ruin social life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well, I'm not shy at all, its just abut being a couple, I kinda get a bit shy. Well no, I'm fine when talking to him, he is just normally shy. To everyone. So now think about him being shy to his girlfriend, it makes him a bit more shy. He is shy whn talking to me, but when we text eachother we can talk just fine about everything, but thats not the relationship I want, not over texting. lol. Well, so I've been promising to hug him for a while now and he even understands that it is hard for me because we both are shy, so how should I hug him? Should I just do it? Cuz I think when I hug him that will advance our relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 just do it, go with your gut instinct. Some of my friends do it without thinking the slightest bit at all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well, I'm completely different. =)Ok, I'll try on Monday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 besides, he may be a little embarassed, but it's the starting point, at least so he's not shy to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Yeah, our relationship has to progress. So I'll hug him and see where that takes us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 as long as you're talking to him, it'll progress (maybe not as fast as you want it to, but it'll move) Just don't rush him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christian-Exodia Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I've also got a issue about that:I'm too young for that stuff yet. It makes me a bit sick. I'm only 10. I shouldn't be exposed to that stuff until i'm like, 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 *shrugs* some people do it when they're very young. One guy I knew did it at the age of 8. Most of my friends didn't even begin until they were 16-ish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 You mean getting a BF or GF? Well, just don't go to far into a big relationship at that age. lol. I'm to young to, but if you truly love someone, there is nothing stopping you from getting a BF or GF. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 the bad part of it all is that for many relationship developed in the mid teens, they fall apart in the early 20s because you go your separate ways. You want to keep it you REALLY have to follow each other afterwards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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