The dating advice thread!!

[Pikachu]

^ Maybe once a day in the morning

Usually by the lockers

[Skarlet]

Man I am so glad I found this thread, I have a serious issue, here it is in point form

 

1. my friend hooked me up with a girl as a prank, but it fell through cuse we got on realy well (we never dated but we both liked each other, at that stage neither of us knew)

2. she nearly killed her self cuse her best friend died

3.my other friend showed up, and talked her out of suicide, then she hooked up with him

4. he cheated on her, and they broke up

5. the friend who tried to hook us up in the first place is with her now, and im stuck out in the cold, after failing at life yet again

 

anyone know what I should do?

[ragnarok1945]

^ Maybe once a day in the morning

Usually by the lockers

 

Well how much time do you get to talk to her? (Pretend she wants to talk to you right now)

[Pikachu]

^ Um....about 5 minutes maximum

What should I do? O.O

[Protoman]

Pika if you see here 5 minutes a day at max your kinda screwed unless lunch counts

[aceecaecaace]

Hey, I have another delema. There is this one girl I don't like. I think she likes me though! Once, my hair was a little messed up. She fixed it. And once she asked me to be partners in a math project. I don't want to go out with her if she askes, but I don't want to hurt her feelings if she does ask! What should I do? Do you guys think she likes me?

[JRKinky]

She may have a little crush on you, or she may think that you are the best choice for partners in school projects. If she does like you tho, and asks you out, just tell her you want to be friends. She may be a little sad, but being friends is still a good thing. Thats the best way to go...Dont drag it out and say "I'll think about it." Thats just mean. Just tell her you want to be friends.

[aceecaecaace]

Ok, thanks.

[ragnarok1945]

actually, I've known girls who tends to take the "I'll think about it" response as a no.

 

If I were you, I'd say "Sorry I'm too busy that day" or something. At least that's a more reasonable answer because she'll think you don't have the time, whereas the "I'll think about it" answer means you do

[Protoman]

No, if a girl says Maybe to you it means a no, some girls take I'll think as a maybe, if you don't really like her if she ask you let her down gentley at least

[ragnarok1945]

yeah, but others take a "I'll think on it" as a means of trying to weasel out of it

[Protoman]

Sometimes but thats not always the case also for all of your who hav egotten a i don't know, then there is a big chance your screwed, most of the time it means no, most of the time :P

[ragnarok1945]

yeah but it also depends on the girl. Most of the girls I'm used to, in such events that's how they see it

[JRKinky]

see, I dont deal with girls anymore :p havent for years...but yeah, a lot of girls take "I'll think about it" as no. As do a lot of guys. Just be straight forward with them.

[ragnarok1945]

yeah, bottom line is that some people prefer you go straight, good or bad news

[JRKinky]

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See guys and gals, like we're both telling you, just be honest and straight forward. Its easier on the other person instead of dragging it out.

[♫Griffinsusername♫]

O.k here is my big relationship issue:

I used to go out with this girl named Hanna. For almost two years we thought that we were made for each other. Once the new school year started, things changed. whenever I tried to hold her hand she shoved her hands in her pockets and ect.. I wasn't sure what to do, but I broke up with her. This resulted in these things happening to me:

1.Now my ex and her best friend pay more attention to me and won't leave me alone (wierd)

2.There is another girl named Alana who is smart, popular, funny, and hot. We don't have any classes together so we talk a little through the halls. A week ago I asked her out and she said no. She says no to everyone but I almost made a chink. it took her three days of deciding w/ my bf Joey.

3. Ther is an 8th grader (Im in 7th by the way) who im pretty sure likes me. Every day I pass her in the halls and she (Josi) always will yell my name in an affectionnate way (much like my ex's bff) I met her on the soccer team and we are friends. She is smart, cool, hot and a great person

 

Here are my questions:

1. should I stay single?

2.Should I try and ask alana out again and hope for a yes and possibly miss my chance with Josi?

3.^ Vice versa? ^

4. Should I try it again w/ Hanna?

 

I triend to figure out an answer for a long time and got nothing. I know this would be hard to help me, but plz try your best.

 

Thx,

Griffin

[Raelen]

O.k here is my big relationship issue:

I used to go out with this girl named Hanna. For almost two years we thought that we were made for each other. Once the new school year started' date=' things changed. whenever I tried to hold her hand she shoved her hands in her pockets and ect.. I wasn't sure what to do, but I broke up with her. This resulted in these things happening to me:

1.Now my ex and her best friend pay more attention to me and won't leave me alone (wierd)

2.There is another girl named Alana who is smart, popular, funny, and hot. We don't have any classes together so we talk a little through the halls. A week ago I asked her out and she said no. She says no to [u']everyone[/u] but I almost made a chink. it took her three days of deciding w/ my bf Joey.

3. Ther is an 8th grader (Im in 7th by the way) who im pretty sure likes me. Every day I pass her in the halls and she (Josi) always will yell my name in an affectionnate way (much like my ex's bff) I met her on the soccer team and we are friends. She is smart, cool, hot and a great person

 

Here are my questions:

1. should I stay single?

2.Should I try and ask alana out again and hope for a yes and possibly miss my chance with Josi?

3.^ Vice versa? ^

4. Should I try it again w/ Hanna?

 

I triend to figure out an answer for a long time and got nothing. I know this would be hard to help me, but plz try your best.

 

Thx,

Griffin

 

Follow your heart. Who do you like better?

Tip: Going out with older girls can be a little risky. Go out with someone in your own grade.

It seems you're in a hard(Yet lucky) position. Choose whichever you are more interested in. If one fails, move on to another!^_^

[♫Griffinsusername♫]

Thanks. thats what I thought but I needed to make sure

[JRKinky]

Yeah, just follow your heart. Its usually the smart thing to do when it comes to these situations. As for the older girl thing...that shouldnt matter, cause she is only 1 grade above you. I know plenty of people who dated someone who is a grade above them. Heck, my brother's wife was a grade above him all through school, and they dated for 4-5 years until he graduated and they have now been married for 8 years. lol. Just do what your heart tells you. :) You're still young. You have plenty of time to figure out who the lucky girl will be :)

[ragnarok1945]

O.k here is my big relationship issue:

I used to go out with this girl named Hanna. For almost two years we thought that we were made for each other. Once the new school year started' date=' things changed. whenever I tried to hold her hand she shoved her hands in her pockets and ect.. I wasn't sure what to do, but I broke up with her. This resulted in these things happening to me:

1.Now my ex and her best friend pay more attention to me and won't leave me alone (wierd)

2.There is another girl named Alana who is smart, popular, funny, and hot. We don't have any classes together so we talk a little through the halls. A week ago I asked her out and she said no. She says no to [u']everyone[/u] but I almost made a chink. it took her three days of deciding w/ my bf Joey.

3. Ther is an 8th grader (Im in 7th by the way) who im pretty sure likes me. Every day I pass her in the halls and she (Josi) always will yell my name in an affectionnate way (much like my ex's bff) I met her on the soccer team and we are friends. She is smart, cool, hot and a great person

 

Here are my questions:

1. should I stay single?

2.Should I try and ask alana out again and hope for a yes and possibly miss my chance with Josi?

3.^ Vice versa? ^

4. Should I try it again w/ Hanna?

 

I triend to figure out an answer for a long time and got nothing. I know this would be hard to help me, but plz try your best.

 

Thx,

Griffin

 

Follow your heart. Who do you like better?

Tip: Going out with older girls can be a little risky. Go out with someone in your own grade.

It seems you're in a hard(Yet lucky) position. Choose whichever you are more interested in. If one fails, move on to another!^_^

 

Most of the time that's what we all try, there are some cases where that doesn't work. A few of my friends have bf/gf one grade below/above them

[JRKinky]

 

 

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Well, I almost didnt follow my heart, but I did. And now I'm in a great relationship. Been in it for over a year. Known my partner for years, but were both afraid to ask the other out. So, I finally followed my heart and now we're together, happy, and planning the rest of our life together :)

[ragnarok1945]

what caused you almost not to in the first place?

[JRKinky]

well, how my parents reacted and where I grew up (a farming community...I was born and raised on a farm), so I was afraid...but one of my friends from college told me to do it, cause I shouldnt make myself miserable because of how others felt about it. So, I asked him out and here we are.

[Benraino]

Steps to fix any relationship problem

 

1) Slap a b***h

2) Give her flowers

3) Tell her to make you a sammich

4) ???

5) PROFIT!!!!!