The dating advice thread!!

[ragnarok1945]

My 2 most problems are;

1. I don't have the guts to ask her out.

2. I can't really break the ice.

 

Just give it a little time until your confidence goes back up. You'll know when that time comes

[aceecaecaace]

Thanks. I still need help though. I have never had a gf before. I have had numerous crushes, though.

[ragnarok1945]

Oh we've all had many crushes. You just have to determine which one stands out among the rest

[aceecaecaace]

Yah, all but one recent one has faded. I am accually getting close to her.

 

We were typing stories and I was the third one done. Of course, she was second, and a girl I hate was first done. So we talk and everything it is nice.

[ragnarok1945]

then there you go. You have the starting point set already

[aceecaecaace]

Yah, it is good. I was recently in a race, I tried to get her to watch me, but it was 18 degrees Ferenhiet.

[ragnarok1945]

so she rejected? If yes, don't feel bad. Try enough and you'll get her

[aceecaecaace]

No, she wanted to watch me. Three things that were a problem;

1. It was 18 degrees ferenhiet

2. It was Thanksgiving morning

3. It was 9:00 in the morning

 

So about this three thing. We call ourselves the "Three Amigoes." One problem, I want it to be the "Two Amigoes." Like I said, I hate the other girl. But if I say anything about getting rid of the other girl, she wouldn't like it.

[ragnarok1945]

yeah that's going to be hard. Does she have anything against the other girl?

[aceecaecaace]

No, but I'm not sure she has anything for the girl either.

[ragnarok1945]

If she's neutral then only the time factor should matter is ridding the other girl

[aceecaecaace]

I mean, she probably would like to have her in the gruop though.

[ragnarok1945]

well can you put up with the other girl?

[aceecaecaace]

Definately. She is in my class, at my same table, 1st period. Yah, If I can deal with her 1st period, I think I can deal with her in the group.

[ragnarok1945]

then you have nothing to worry about

[aceecaecaace]

Except, I don't want the girl I hate in the group to know I like the other girl. She Is big on gossip. And I have no way to ask her or break the ice.

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[ragnarok1945]

then this could take time before she changes her ways

[Benraino]

If you can't drive, don't date.

[ragnarok1945]

unless the places you want to go are in walking distance

[Benraino]

Not even then. You should only really date when your 16+ but even then, high school relationships will probably not last.

[ragnarok1945]

well, depends if you go your separate ways afterwards. If you do, then by all means they probably won't

[Benraino]

well' date=' depends if you go your separate ways afterwards. If you do, then by all means they probably won't

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Even so, you aren't even close to developing personally and emotionally. How you act in high school is different then you act after graduation.

[ragnarok1945]

also true, which is why most relationships develop afterwards

[Pikachu]

Oh well, dum de da....

I have a question that i hope YCM could answer:

 

There's this girl who I really have a crush on. Her name is Pauline and she's french, really cute (yes she's more huggable than me). I used to like her because we're partners in French class (oui, c'est bien) and we always talk. But this year, we're in the same class, but doesn't talk to me. How could I get her attention....alone?

 

Could someone help please?

 

~Pikachu

 

p.s I am 12, so I just want her attention as a 'friend'

[ragnarok1945]

well, first answer me this: how often do you see her alone?