Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Prison? I don't know really as ristraning orders are very unused in the UK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 come now, when it comes to abusive family members surely the court has to give some order to protect the family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 They might but we don't want to go to court. I think as soon as my dad walks through the door he will be arrested due to the amount of crimes he conducted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 They might but we don't want to go to court. I think as soon as my dad walks through the door he will be arrested due to the amount of crimes he conducted. and why do you think that's a bad thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Well I don't ever want to go to court as it would gepidise my reputation I would be called to the stand type place and we will need a lawyer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Well I don't ever want to go to court as it would gepidise my reputation I would be called to the stand type place and we will need a lawyer. so it's like loyalty to your dad, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Well I don't ever want to go to court as it would gepidise my reputation I would be called to the stand type place and we will need a lawyer. so it's like loyalty to your dad' date=' right?[/quote'] Yeah, drunk or not he is still my dad and I can't betray him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I understand. But still this is among the internal strains in the marriage. SOMETHING has to be done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I understand. But still this is among the internal strains in the marriage. SOMETHING has to be done One day it will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I understand. But still this is among the internal strains in the marriage. SOMETHING has to be done One day it will. All right, but I hope it is soon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I would say around another year or 2. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I would say around another year or 2. you must have great tolerance. I know plenty of marriage who'd be willing to put up with it for even a week, much less years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I would say around another year or 2. you must have great tolerance. I know plenty of marriage who'd be willing to put up with it for even a week' date=' much less years.[/quote'] I've learnt to control my anger and accept my dad, for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I would say around another year or 2. you must have great tolerance. I know plenty of marriage who'd be willing to put up with it for even a week' date=' much less years.[/quote'] I've learnt to control my anger and accept my dad, for now. Yeah, that's another risk in marriage: you never know what can set a person off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Yeah, I have a couple of idea of what can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 and that's what leads to divorce. Sometimes you have to try really hard to hold it in Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Yes, my dad doesn't seem to do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 which brings it all to the other side. Some people are very good at holding things in even when they shouldn't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 That's me ^_^; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 Actually I was thinking on the wife side. Some husbands can be very abuse yet the wife holds it in whereas others never hold it in Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 That's my mum ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 That's my mum ^_^Â Yeah but that has a consequence too. Suppose someone else saw this action and THEY took action. The penalty could be even worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I understand. Though that situation can happen marriage or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atomix Posted January 17, 2009 Report Share Posted January 17, 2009 I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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