Jericho Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know him too well.[/quote'] You really thought that was an attempt at humor? :lol: It wasn't. I am 100% serious. I don't doubt the validity of his post. I also don't doubt that he's looking for support to get help him get through what he thinks is a difficult time. I just don't think that a forum based on a children's card game is the place to find support for anything that requires this much attention. EDIT:But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] MY grandpa (moms side) was dying and my thread got locked whe i was not even whining. -_- So i agree with Jericho. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 dont u even feel sorry for him. Nope. But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] MY grandpa (moms side) was dying and my thread got locked whe i was not even whining. -_- So i agree with Jericho. +1 win for you. Oh, and Swift to me does seem like the type to make stuff up. He's done it before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juuzou Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 yes, because the first thing you go to for sympathy is a children's forum. must have a rainy cloud blocking your judgment. either that or you're an attention noob. think it's teh first :) don't worrybe happy nao do do do do do do do do do do do do HAPPYNESH =D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marly Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Jericho's right on both accounts, although I admit, he could've used a bit more compassion when stating it. =\ I'm sorry to hear your mother's dying, but a Yugioh Forum really isn't exactly where you should turn to. Try another relative or a close friend, heck, even a counselor or a teacher would help. Maybe even PM some of your YCM friends, I'm sure they'd listen and try to give you the best advice possible. About living alone with your dad.I haven't exactly lost a parent, but my mother did divorce my father 5 years ago, and we haven't talked or seen each other since (Then again, I have no desire to, but that's beside the point). Having only a single parent is difficult, but try to be considerate and help around the house and such. You can also get a job and save funds for the rent, electric bill, etc. Life will be harder, but you'll hopefully get through it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparta™ Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Why don't you wait until she's actually dead instead of worrying about what might happen? You don't know for sure what's going to happen. >> It's already painful enough for him/her to know that his/her mom could possibly die' date=' and I know how he/she feels because my sister almost died. But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] This. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeoDemonX Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 *Cyber [spoiler=]*kick in the balls*....no then [spoiler=]*Cyber Hug* but I hope your mom will be ok man, this is sad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrimalFear Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 I would like to first tell you a story, Last year my Grandmother was taken into the hospital for a heart attack. She wasn't breathing on her own and was hooked up to a breathing tube, her Kidney's where failing and she was hooked up to a dialisis machine everyday, and was expected to die. My family and I traveled 55 miles every day or stayed at a friends house so we could be with her everyday expecting the worse to happen. Finnaly about 1 week later she awoke. she was still unable to breath on her own and the doctors where still unaware if she would live. Her lungs finnaly regain their normal streangth but her kidney's still didn't work, she was able to get of the Breathing machine and was able to talk with us. In the end she lived she still is barley unable to move alot and relies alot on a wheel Chair or a walker. Now I'm not saying this is the case with your mother, but I truly and deeply hope that she will survive like my Grandmother, Have hope. I will think of her and you in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EliminateHRN Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Wait until she actually recovers/dies before posting something like this. I agree with Yuyuko Saigyouji on this, I never plan ahead because something usually changes. Also, why would you post this on a YuGiOh forum? I'm not saying your a liar, but your getting help where most are under ten-years-old. I agree with Jericho on this one, I think your trying to get attention. I don't really understand why you would post this here. If your mother is in the hospital, I hope she will recover. It's always a shame for someone to die. I hope for the best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Golden Chaos Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Well, I hate your planning thing!!Keep hope Christian, never assume anything, and remember that there's God, so pray for her and she will hopefully become better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeoDemonX Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 I would like to first tell you a story' date=' Last year my Grandmother was taken into the hospital for a heart attack. She wasn't breathing on her own and was hooked up to a breathing tube, her Kidney's where failing and she was hooked up to a dialisis machine everyday, and was expected to die. My family and I traveled 55 miles every day or stayed at a friends house so we could be with her everyday expecting the worse to happen. Finnaly about 1 week later she awoke. she was still unable to breath on her own and the doctors where still unaware if she would live. Her lungs finnaly regain their normal streangth but her kidney's still didn't work, she was able to get of the Breathing machine and was able to talk with us. In the end she lived she still is barley unable to move alot and relies alot on a wheel Chair or a walker. Now I'm not saying this is the case with your mother, but I truly and deeply hope that she will survive like my Grandmother, Have hope. I will think of her and you in my prayers.[/quote'] Its like my Grandma but she was battling death for 11 years but dead this year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Culpa Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Well' date=' today while I was in school, I was notified my mom was taken to the hospital. My dad called me during my lunch period and said the doctor wanted to make sure she was okay, since she had the flu [NOT SWINE'] for the past few days. Everyday after school, I go to my grandma's. My mom or dad will pick me up from there around four. I had dinner, and my dad called saying my mom had to stay overnight, and I'd be staying with my grandma tonight. Just now, I came in from playing Manhunt with my friends. I grabbed a pepsi and my grandma said that my dad was home to change his clothes and he was going back to the hospital. She said that was all she could tell me. I asked her what she meant, and she told me my mom wasn't breathing, almost. She was dying. DYING. I'm on the verge of tears now, seeing as I'm pssibly about to lose my closest family member. I don't want one of those gay-like dads who try to do mom stuff. And a step mom wouldn't be awesome unless I get a brother who likes the same dumb s*** as me. Anyway, how do I live with my dad alone? I don't how to handle it should it happen. Can someone give me advice? ): Hopefully, she pulls through. I've seen people pull through worse. I mean heart failure bad. They've come back to life because they weren't technically dead. It's a tramatic period, the time after a loved one dies or even gets hospitalized. People become quiet. They talk less, and grieve more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PowerlinX Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 I'm sorry man. I just lost my nana to cancer a few weeks ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neiko Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Sucks to be you. Best of luck to you I guess. :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Careless Whisper Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 [spoiler=Quotes]But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know him too well.[/quote'] You really thought that was an attempt at humor? :lol: It wasn't. I am 100% serious. I don't doubt the validity of his post. I also don't doubt that he's looking for support to get help him get through what he thinks is a difficult time. I just don't think that a forum based on a children's card game is the place to find support for anything that requires this much attention. EDIT:But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] MY grandpa (moms side) was dying and my thread got locked whe i was not even whining. -_- So i agree with Jericho. Thank you. Even though Swift has a history for making stuff up, you can still never know when exactly he's telling the truth or not. You want to expect the unexpected, like maybe for once he is actually telling the truth. Either way, you want to still play along with it, even if it is just a lie. However, I doubt that Swift would make up a false story about his own mother dying. He's not that cruel. Anyway... In case he is telling the truth, all I have to say is this.-"Cry about it. It takes more courage to let yourself cry than it does to fight it. You may look stronger if you fight off crying, but eventually you will crack."- [/$0.02] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Emo~ Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 [spoiler=Quotes]But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know him too well.[/quote'] You really thought that was an attempt at humor? :lol: It wasn't. I am 100% serious. I don't doubt the validity of his post. I also don't doubt that he's looking for support to get help him get through what he thinks is a difficult time. I just don't think that a forum based on a children's card game is the place to find support for anything that requires this much attention. EDIT:But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] MY grandpa (moms side) was dying and my thread got locked whe i was not even whining. -_- So i agree with Jericho. Thank you. Even though Swift has a history for making stuff up, you can still never know when exactly he's telling the truth or not. You want to expect the unexpected, like maybe for once he is actually telling the truth. Either way, you want to still play along with it, even if it is just a lie. However, I doubt that Swift would make up a false story about his own mother dying. He's not that cruel. Anyway... In case he is telling the truth, all I have to say is this.-"Cry about it. It takes more courage to let yourself cry than it does to fight it. You may look stronger if you fight off crying, but eventually you will crack."- [/$0.02]Sympathy. Its all about sympathy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freeshooter Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 you have no clue what it's like for a family member to be dying' date=' do you?[/quote'] Well, I know you were saying this to Lar, but I've lost 3 family members. Really, when I say this Christian, trust me: Your mother IS the most important relative you will ever have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Careless Whisper Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 [spoiler=Quotes]But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know him too well.[/quote'] You really thought that was an attempt at humor? :lol: It wasn't. I am 100% serious. I don't doubt the validity of his post. I also don't doubt that he's looking for support to get help him get through what he thinks is a difficult time. I just don't think that a forum based on a children's card game is the place to find support for anything that requires this much attention. EDIT:But I think this falls under attention seeking threads. People get sick all the time. People die all the time. I think your attempt at humor makes you look like a fool. He's obviously going through a tough time' date=' and he needs support. I think it's selfish to call it "Attention Seeking". No one is going to just make something like that up, especially not Christian. I know himtoo well.[/quote'] MY grandpa (moms side) was dying and my thread got locked whe i was not even whining. -_- So i agree with Jericho. Thank you. Even though Swift has a history for making stuff up, you can still never know when exactly he's telling the truth or not. You want to expect the unexpected, like maybe for once he is actually telling the truth. Either way, you want to still play along with it, even if it is just a lie. However, I doubt that Swift would make up a false story about his own mother dying. He's not that cruel. Anyway... In case he is telling the truth, all I have to say is this.-"Cry about it. It takes more courage to let yourself cry than it does to fight it. You may look stronger if you fight off crying, but eventually you will crack."- [/$0.02]Sympathy. Its all about sympathy. Even if he is just seeking sympathy, why not let him have it? What do you gain for not showing sympathy? Certainly not wisdom. If it's a mistake to show sympathy for him, then at least I will have something to learn by for future references. Even so, you can still never know exactly if he's just asking for sympathy, or if his mother really is sick in the hospital. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zorc: The Dark One Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Nobody says that a step-mom will come with a brother. :/ *virtual hug* Dun worry' date=' be happy![/quote'] *Cyber Hug* Hope she will feel better. You will get through it somehow. Just try to be with her as long as you can. Hopefully she doesnt die.My friend's dad is gonna die, so I kinda know what you feel like... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxdmilleo Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 loss,pain,sorrow,heart broken all those felling in 1 i wish i could know when i lost my dog i was to young to understand but she'll fight through....count on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lelouch Lamperouge Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 NEVER WISH FOR A STEP MOM. You will regret it.I lol'ed at this, since I once had a insane step mum that stole my stuff and hated me.O.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skuldur Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 If this is true, I hope your mom gets better. If not, GTFO and stop attention seeking! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 This is KoD and Bloodrun all over again =.=" Seriously, YCM isn't a place for stuff like this. Ever heard of irl friends/family? Go talk to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lelouch Lamperouge Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 If this is true' date=' I hope your mom gets better. If not, GTFO and stop attention seeking![/quote']Too harsh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 If this is true' date=' I hope your mom gets better. If not, GTFO and stop attention seeking![/quote']Too harsh... It's the internet. Get used to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Omega Posted June 9, 2009 Report Share Posted June 9, 2009 Well' date=' today while I was in school, I was notified my mom was taken to the hospital. My dad called me during my lunch period and said the doctor wanted to make sure she was okay, since she had the flu [NOT SWINE'] for the past few days. Everyday after school, I go to my grandma's. My mom or dad will pick me up from there around four. I had dinner, and my dad called saying my mom had to stay overnight, and I'd be staying with my grandma tonight. Just now, I came in from playing Manhunt with my friends. I grabbed a pepsi and my grandma said that my dad was home to change his clothes and he was going back to the hospital. She said that was all she could tell me. I asked her what she meant, and she told me my mom wasn't breathing, almost. She was dying. DYING. I'm on the verge of tears now, seeing as I'm pssibly about to lose my closest family member. I don't want one of those gay-like dads who try to do mom stuff. And a step mom wouldn't be awesome unless I get a brother who likes the same dumb s*** as me. Anyway, how do I live with my dad alone? I don't how to handle it should it happen. Can someone give me advice? ): Have hope will ya? My father had died when I was 6, and I'm not in tears. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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