~Shore Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 It's hard, it really iiiiiiiiiis. I wanna be nice, I hate feeling like such a duche all the time, but there are just so many people I despise or who piss me off that it's hard to just smile through it all. Any tips? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Just be nice.For me, there's no other incentive or reason to be. Than to just be nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silas Angel Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 The funnest part about being nice is that is really ticks off your enemies =P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Shore Posted December 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Well that's something I can understand =DOf course, it's not really the best motive, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Tips? Think about what you are gaining/going to gain from being nice, and act nice acordingly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Tips? Think about what you are gaining/going to gain from being nice' date=' and act nice acordingly.[/quote'] I don't understand... Gain what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Tips? Think about what you are gaining/going to gain from being nice' date=' and act nice acordingly.[/quote'] I don't understand... Gain what? Depends.I can think about what I can gain if I was nice to you. If I find something worth being nice to you for, I'll be nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JoshIcy Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Tips? Think about what you are gaining/going to gain from being nice' date=' and act nice acordingly.[/quote'] I don't understand... Gain what? Depends.I can think about what I can gain if I was nice to you. If I find something worth being nice to you for, I'll be nice. Then pardon me and Fireworks here. But being nice and being polite to gain something is totally different. At least imo, and he agreed on MSN. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeonark Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Tips? Think about what you are gaining/going to gain from being nice' date=' and act nice acordingly.[/quote'] I don't understand... Gain what? Friendship. Obviously. Just act nice really. There is no way to explain to how act like it. Except, don't be a jerk. Problem solved. If you're tempted to act like one, don't do it unless you know what's coming next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pikachu Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Don't argue.Don't piss them off.Talk normally, and occasionally smile. Mmk? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Omega Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 It's hard' date=' it really iiiiiiiiiis. I wanna be nice, I hate feeling like such a duche all the time, but there are just so many people I despise or who piss me off that it's hard to just smile through it all. Any tips?[/quote'] And what do these people that you despise/piss you off do? Just ignore them :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flexta McSignals Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 just take itjust do itand listen (unless they're wrong about something) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tempest Dahlia Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Being nice is hereditary.Being mean is hereditary. Take it up with your mom. "Say mom, you being a b**** throughout life has made your babies mean too. Thanks alot b****".... lt won's solve the problem, but it gets alot of that built up anger out. XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Be yourself~ (lawl)If others doesn't like you, then guro raid them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Help others out when they need it. Offer yourself, instead of having to being asked. Simple things like that will work. Also, know how to control yourself. I'm a pretty cold hearted person... But I restrain myself back from it all~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyfe. Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 Here's a little hint. You despise someone? Ignore them. Don't talk to them, don't look at them. One of your friends comes and you end up despising them? Ignore them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mindscatter Posted December 26, 2009 Report Share Posted December 26, 2009 I luv being nice to people. It makes me feel so warm inside... I'm one of the nicest persons you can get...try me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dismal Euphony Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 I'm nice because I don't really know how to be mean... I can never find it in me to be mean, even to those that deserve it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willieh Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 Being nice isn't something you do for gain. Being nice is just something you should do. Being nice extends to all levels though. Don't think you're better than someone else because you're nice either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Wright~ Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 Being nice isn't something you do for gain. Being nice is just something you should do. Being nice extends to all levels though. Don't think you're better than someone else because you're nice either. I was going to say something else, but I looked at this and completely agreed. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chaos Pudding Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 If you need tips on being nice, then you're dangerously close to being a sociopath. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Shore Posted December 27, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 Hooray, I feel better.Um, explain? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chaos Pudding Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 Hooray' date=' I feel better.Um, explain?[/quote'] Do you know how to emphasize? That's all you really need in order to be nice. If you're able to understand how people feel, then there's no problem being nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Shore Posted December 27, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 I don't think I have much problem empathizing with people. The problem is that I'm decidedly self-centered. It's hard for me not to do things for myself. I go about my day and try to have a good time, and in doing so I get in other people's way more than I want to, often unintentionally. I'm a loud person, I take up a lot of space and I can be annoying, and yet I really enjoy being that person, but after the initial fun is over, I end up feeling bad about all the people I irritated or whose spotlight I tried to steal. I can be "nice" so to speak, if I try, but its still for personal gain, it's still to get rid of that bad feeling, it's still just so I can feel good about myself before I go off and have more selfish fun. Its not so much the social skills required for niceness that I don't understand, it's the selflessness. Some people are naturally unselfish, but I have this deeply rooted "it's all about me attitude" that gives me good times and bad times but often ends up making me feel bad about myself in the end, because I always want to be the star but when I see the stars in real life, the people who go out of their way to distinguish themselves and be noticed, they often seem like complete duchebags, and its the humble people who come off as the real heroes. But I'm not humble, I don't just do things for the sake of doing them, I do them because I want to be noticed. I want to entertain people, but I also want to entertain myself, I have a tendency to shove myself down people's throats and by the time I realize that I just need to shut the hell up I realize it's too late. When I made this thread, it was just a sort of an afterthought. I was thinking about myself, again, and considering myself a duche, and wanting to be better, but I never really defined the problem. Its selfishness. I can be nice, but its so easy to do it for selfish reasons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mindscatter Posted December 27, 2009 Report Share Posted December 27, 2009 OMG wall of text crushes my head above. Fortunately I escaped and got +1 post count. Seriously dude use more "ENTER"s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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