Sliver King Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 I am confused. Why won't she be my girlfriend, even though I love her and she loves me? She has had many other boyfriends and she loved them much less then she does me. It just doesn't make sense to me. Also on the subject of the sporadic behavioral patterns of the female gender, how come females never started to like me until I fell in love with this one? Now they be liking me left and right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Limited Edition KING Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 Well she's had other boyfriends before, maybe she just wants a break from all that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 1, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 She actually has one now. Just obtained recently too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doomboi Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 Women are not humans. They are robots built for mens amusement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Limited Edition KING Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 Women are not humans. They are robots built for mens amusement.No. just. No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Βyakuya Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 Simple. She thinks you're not good enough for her and she already has others. And cause you love her doesn't mean she likes you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 Or maybe she just sees you as a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cin Posted October 1, 2010 Report Share Posted October 1, 2010 She loves you, but has boyfriend, what's the problem there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daft Innovation Posted October 2, 2010 Report Share Posted October 2, 2010 You're thinking to narrowly, OP. If someone loves you, properly, she might no go out with you, in case either one breaks each others feelings. If you really like her, however, then you have to prove you like her. Women are such b****es when it comes to that, they want respect from their man. Y'know what I'm sayin'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doomboi Posted October 2, 2010 Report Share Posted October 2, 2010 No. just. No.Yes. Just yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted October 2, 2010 Report Share Posted October 2, 2010 Sometimes it's just not the right time. Sometimes she doesn't want to get involved with a boyfriend. You know, it's really not all that easy. Why not consider that getting a boyfriend is also the potential for losing a close friend? Maybe she doesn't want to lose you at the end of all of it. And for your second question, maybe you stand out more when you're in love. You show your dedication to the one you want to spend your time with. Some might find that quality worthy for their affection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DARKPLANT RISING Posted October 2, 2010 Report Share Posted October 2, 2010 Love can't be measured or predicted in any means. It doesn't fit in a predetermined principle, rule. Maybe, someday, that cute girl would look to you - who knows? Anyhow, I envy you anyways because I go to a boys-only school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sorrow. Posted October 3, 2010 Report Share Posted October 3, 2010 Same story with me... But she needs time to think it over, maybe your not going to fit in with her Friends or she's not going to fit in with yours. But if both of you TRULY love each other then that shouldn't be a problem.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John A. Zoidberg Posted October 3, 2010 Report Share Posted October 3, 2010 I've had a few experiences with stuff like that. If she has a boyfriend now, get to know her better while those two are dating, then when they break it off, you'll have a good idea of how to ask her. As far as me, I actually just asked a girl I've been friends with since 4th grade out. Wish me luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Yes, this same problem has been happening to me for the past six years. Except I don't want to date her. So then I guess it's not a problem. :B There's such a thing as "friend love". She might love you, but she's probably not IN love with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Thanks ya'll. I will consider all of these. Except that she may be a robot. I would know if she was a robot. I am sensitive to Electromagnetic fields. Anyway, she has entered a strange cycle of getting a boyfriend and being rid of him within a week ever since I met her. Before that she had a stable boyfriend who lasted 4 months. Eldritch huh? The pattern confuses even me. [spoiler=I am gonna make an attempt at logic]Maybe she is afraid that I will get caught in that cycle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sorrow. Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Thanks ya'll. I will consider all of these. Except that she may be a robot. I would know if she was a robot. I am sensitive to Electromagnetic fields. Anyway, she has entered a strange cycle of getting a boyfriend and being rid of him within a week ever since I met her. Before that she had a stable boyfriend who lasted 4 months. Eldritch huh? The pattern confuses even me. [spoiler=I am gonna make an attempt at logic]Maybe she is afraid that I will get caught in that cycle. Brother I think your in love with a Wh*re I'm very sorry.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 That is actually what I thought at first. Once I got to know her better I know for a fact she never did much with any of them though. Hell, I wouldn''t be surprised if she never even kissed most of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sorrow. Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 That is actually what I thought at first. Once I got to know her better I know for a fact she never did much with any of them though. Hell, I wouldn''t be surprised if she never even kissed most of them. It seems that she's desperate for companionship, I believe she wants to have the status of having a boy friend just to make her feel more popular, I've seen it before and It is not pretty.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 I see. So maybe that is why she doesn't particularly want me. She doesn't want me to get caught up in that. inb4everyoneITTiswrongcompletely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sorrow. Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 I see. So maybe that is why she doesn't particularly want me. She doesn't want me to get caught up in that. inb4everyoneITTiswrongcompletelyNo she probably is going to think that her friends will deny you as her friends, she thinks that you shouldn't fit but if she truly truly loves you then she would put all of that behind her and just date you. I have to go, we'll talk later my friend.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Ok. Well, I am not sure. I don't know many of her friends, but the ones I do know are some of my best friends. I actually met her through a common enemy. Long story though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FTW (For The Wynn) Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Alright, I see what's going on and I pose a question to you before I give advice. What does she say to you each time she turns you down? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sliver King Posted October 4, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 I don't know right now.That sort of stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FTW (For The Wynn) Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 hmmm, I hate telling you this but that's not usually a good sign. Taking from my experience at love and also at failure, I can almost guarantee that she is having a problem seeing you as more than a friend. It is a hard transition, usually involving leaving your comfort zone, which can cause enormous problems both here and later on. However, the best way to overcome this problem from what I know is to just keep trying and to offer her proof that you are very serious. Buy her roses or something or something. Unfortunately, doing this will probably lead to a fight or at least an argument, but if you stay calm about it and don't lose your cool she'll be a lot more comfortable around you. Think of this as a romantic test of sorts. Of sorts, there are definitely differences between this and a test. Anyway, I also recommend that you don't bring up the boyfriend issue to her, those kind of things tend to make people defensive and withdrawn. Another thing you also might want to consider is the "less talk, more listen" approach, where you do less talking and more listening. I'm not saying you don't listen enough, but I find that the less you talk and the more you listen the better off you'll be. I'm not saying not to talk either, there needs to be conversation (which you cannot have without 2 or more people), but until you are both comfortable with this kind of adjustment it is better off if you listen more first. Most importantly though, be patient. These things take time, and rushing into things isn't always a good idea, especially in the long term. I do assume you want this to be long term, so just relax and take things one small step at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.