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I am confused. Why won't she be my girlfriend, even though I love her and she loves me? She has had many other boyfriends and she loved them much less then she does me. It just doesn't make sense to me.

 

Also on the subject of the sporadic behavioral patterns of the female gender, how come females never started to like me until I fell in love with this one? Now they be liking me left and right.

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You're thinking to narrowly, OP.

 

If someone loves you, properly, she might no go out with you, in case either one breaks each others feelings. If you really like her, however, then you have to prove you like her. Women are such b****es when it comes to that, they want respect from their man.

 

Y'know what I'm sayin'?

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Sometimes it's just not the right time. Sometimes she doesn't want to get involved with a boyfriend. You know, it's really not all that easy. Why not consider that getting a boyfriend is also the potential for losing a close friend? Maybe she doesn't want to lose you at the end of all of it.

 

And for your second question, maybe you stand out more when you're in love. You show your dedication to the one you want to spend your time with. Some might find that quality worthy for their affection.

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Yes, this same problem has been happening to me for the past six years. Except I don't want to date her. So then I guess it's not a problem. :B

 

There's such a thing as "friend love". She might love you, but she's probably not IN love with you.

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Thanks ya'll. I will consider all of these. Except that she may be a robot. I would know if she was a robot. I am sensitive to Electromagnetic fields. Anyway, she has entered a strange cycle of getting a boyfriend and being rid of him within a week ever since I met her. Before that she had a stable boyfriend who lasted 4 months. Eldritch huh? The pattern confuses even me.

 

[spoiler=I am gonna make an attempt at logic]

Maybe she is afraid that I will get caught in that cycle.

 

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Thanks ya'll. I will consider all of these. Except that she may be a robot. I would know if she was a robot. I am sensitive to Electromagnetic fields. Anyway, she has entered a strange cycle of getting a boyfriend and being rid of him within a week ever since I met her. Before that she had a stable boyfriend who lasted 4 months. Eldritch huh? The pattern confuses even me.

 

[spoiler=I am gonna make an attempt at logic]

Maybe she is afraid that I will get caught in that cycle.

 

 

Brother I think your in love with a Wh*re I'm very sorry..

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That is actually what I thought at first. Once I got to know her better I know for a fact she never did much with any of them though. Hell, I wouldn''t be surprised if she never even kissed most of them.

 

It seems that she's desperate for companionship, I believe she wants to have the status of having a boy friend just to make her feel more popular, I've seen it before and It is not pretty..

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I see. So maybe that is why she doesn't particularly want me. She doesn't want me to get caught up in that.

 

inb4everyoneITTiswrongcompletely

No she probably is going to think that her friends will deny you as her friends, she thinks that you shouldn't fit but if she truly truly loves you then she would put all of that behind her and just date you. I have to go, we'll talk later my friend..

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hmmm, I hate telling you this but that's not usually a good sign. Taking from my experience at love and also at failure, I can almost guarantee that she is having a problem seeing you as more than a friend. It is a hard transition, usually involving leaving your comfort zone, which can cause enormous problems both here and later on. However, the best way to overcome this problem from what I know is to just keep trying and to offer her proof that you are very serious. Buy her roses or something or something. Unfortunately, doing this will probably lead to a fight or at least an argument, but if you stay calm about it and don't lose your cool she'll be a lot more comfortable around you. Think of this as a romantic test of sorts. Of sorts, there are definitely differences between this and a test. Anyway, I also recommend that you don't bring up the boyfriend issue to her, those kind of things tend to make people defensive and withdrawn. Another thing you also might want to consider is the "less talk, more listen" approach, where you do less talking and more listening. I'm not saying you don't listen enough, but I find that the less you talk and the more you listen the better off you'll be. I'm not saying not to talk either, there needs to be conversation (which you cannot have without 2 or more people), but until you are both comfortable with this kind of adjustment it is better off if you listen more first. Most importantly though, be patient. These things take time, and rushing into things isn't always a good idea, especially in the long term. I do assume you want this to be long term, so just relax and take things one small step at a time.

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