Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Well, read the story and then tell me what I should do, if you can or would please.. [spoiler=Story]Well, I was in college going to school and I came home for the summer, well, anyhow, I figured I'd try to test my luck and ask her out, but I'm a chicken sh*t. Well, anyhow, I knew her parents and they liked me, and I'm sure they still do, the Mom and I knew each other before I knew her. We talked alot and stuff and I always went to go get coffee there. Well, when I first saw the mom's daughter, I didn't think about it and then I glanced again and she was gorgeous in my eyes. Well, anyhow, I started growing up and then kept seeing here b/c she was in school. Of course I figured I couldn't go after b/c of age wise. and so I waited and waited. Then I spilt my info about her to my friend, and then he kept trying to get me to ask her out. My friend is a bad influence on me and I fell apart and ended up getting pushed and etc. Well, when my friend kept trying to get me to, she kept dressing nicer and nicer, which was strange, b/c who would like this fat kid. Well, anyhow, he was pushing me so much she started thinking I was a stalker b/c I kept showing up where she was, and I really don't like that. I was friends with her, through the phone, that was....she proly thought I was stalker then to, but who knows. Now my question, is how to I make it so others think I am not a stalker and make her understand that my friend was the one pushing me where ever she was b/c I kept riding with him, and I was under bad influence...That friend is no longer my friend and the girl hates me even though I did nothing but look at her a few times trying to figure out what to say....I should of been smart, but my bad influence was there...now, what should I do, to make it so I'm not a stalker to those people, I don't go near her anymore, I leave my bad influence alone and walk away when he comes by, and etc. I was in havre and etc...Yet I don't what to do anymore, it is all confusing and I moved on, but I can't help think people think of me differently now and I don't want them too.....I used to be a dumbass in High School anyhow, but this was all when I was in college.... Well, so, my 2 q's are these: 1st: Should I just forget about and move on...if someone tries to bring it up, ignore them or tell them to shut it?2nd: Try to talk to her somehow in private? Remember, we are 4 yrs different and I don't want to be considered a pervert. Of course everyone thinks you are when you do, but my Mom and Dad was 4 yrs apart, so I'm not sure what to do... Note: I used to be in college, I'm 20 and the girl is 16/17 and born on December 31st as I am born on May 23rd. We were friends until my friend ruined it...Never been in a relationship sadly..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sabotage Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 1st, before anything else, the Enter/Return key. Invest. Second, While I'm not too good at relationship advice and the like, just try talking to her. Ask her what she thinks of you. In other words, not Q. 1, do Q. 2. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Well, she hates me and I'll try to talk to her if I see her at the store o whatever, but we aren't BF/GF, just friends....well, was.....But I guess I could try to do number 2 question... Also, forgot to mention it, but what do you call it when you like girls that are either shy or are B*tches? its weird.... Also, what do you mean by this: 1st, before anything else, the Enter/Return key. Invest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Identity Unknown Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Mix a bit of both answers.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wahrheit Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 If you're in college as you claim, you should be able to work this one out for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legend Zero Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 4 years isn't a big difference. Only kids think that. =/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 @Wahrheit: Well, was, but ended up not being smart enough, I had A's in some classes, but generals killed me out of college really fast.... @Legend Zero: Well, true, true...But some adults act like kids if you think about it.... 20 year old guy 16/17 year old girl, law comes in until she's 18.....and I really didn't want admit that, but she was a friend when I was younger too..... @Identity Unknown: Well, you say a mix and I should know what you are getting at, but everyone has a different mind, so could you explain.... @All: I live on a farm/ranch, so it might be awhile before I go in b/c I'm not in high School or College anymore.... But thanks for your advice, I appreciate it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PikaPerson01 Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 You're in college? I don't believe that. If true, I weep for the future of the country you live in, and hope to God it isn't America. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tourmaline Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 You're in college? I don't believe that. If true, I weep for the future of the country you live in, and hope to God it isn't America. That you think he is the only problem to use as an example is naïveté. Haven't you witnessed society by now? Talking usually helps the problem. It allows an understanding between two at times. Unless, of course, one attempts to provoke. Then it will worsen. TC should know this. Or at least have an idea of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 @Pika Person: Use to be and I have never been great with girls or relationships, and in fact, never had an relationship sadly....If you don't believe I was in college, I could try and get my transcript if I can remember how that is...I got go somewhere and fiddle with the stupid e-net. Or I could show you an email that I will get when I need to repay the loans back. My ACT overall score was 14, that should tell you something... Also, you'll start balling here soon, I live in America.....um, don't get your hopes up....Also, weeping and crying is for babies or people who seen their most loved ones die....I taught myself how to cry in one eye for the dying occasion.... @Hinagiku Katsura: I might want to put in the first post I have never been in a relationship and she is a friend and how I miss texting here when we were friends...then I was considered a stalker by here when I my bad influence friend kept pushing me towards her... Also, who is TC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Identity Unknown Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Also, you'll start balling here soon, I live in America.....um, don't get your hopes up....Also, weeping and crying is for babies or people who seen their most loved ones die....I taught myself how to cry in one eye for the dying occasion....You are a wise person who made a mistake talk to this girl and tell her the truth and if she does not want to listen chances are your relationship would head down that same road... When people ask you if you are a stalker, tell them the truth and if they dont want to listen, screw them, they are ignorant and dont deserve to be in your presence... Rumors spread lies are taught we live in a world that revolves around lies and deceit but there are a rare few who wish to fight these lies with truth... History is made by the victors... Now go and make history the way it should be... Your history... Your truth... And people will soon believe you... In response to your quote I feel almost the same way... When something happens I mourn for a day and then never look back I dont let the past burden me, rather... I let the future guide me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 You are a wise person who made a mistake talk to this girl and tell her the truth and if she does not want to listen chances are your relationship would head down that same road... When people ask you if you are a stalker, tell them the truth and if they dont want to listen, screw them, they are ignorant and dont deserve to be in your presence... Rumors spread lies are taught we live in a world that revolves around lies and deceit but there are a rare few who wish to fight these lies with truth... History is made by the victors... Now go and make history the way it should be... Your history... Your truth... And people will soon believe you... In response to your quote I feel almost the same way... When something happens I mourn for a day and then never look back I dont let the past burden me, rather... I let the future guide me... D*ng, thank you, that aided me a lot, I need to keep a positive mind like yours, I appreciate this comment and I should try the talking thing, though chances are you are right, she wouldn't want to listen, and I accept your aid, you actually cheered me up a little bit, and I will + rep you and etc... I've been aided by wonderful people on here and I appreciate all of them, now a mod can lock this if they want, I got the answers I need and should have tried to get them myself, as of course though I'm not wise in relationships but among other things I am.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Identity Unknown Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 I'm not wise in relationships but among other things I am....You are now use the bad experiences you had to your advantage... That way this occurence does not happen again... You are a great person who cared much for a girl who also knew you alot... I think she would understand and if not I fear for her children XD But in all seriousness failures happen you just need to learn to dust off the negative and start buying the positive it is an investment you can't refuse.... Unless you want to ;D This is a world filled with idiots...But it also a world full of Kind hearted, generous, understanding, loving, caring individuals you will find one eventually... EDIT: I understand that friend of yours propelled you to do such a thing but heres some advicetry and give him another chance.... A long time ago I vowed to never let anything but me influence myself... Although this sounds a bit brash try to be ignorant towards other peoples influences if you can... :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 You are now use the bad experiences you had to your advantage... That way this occurrence does not happen again... You are a great person who cared much for a girl who also knew you alot... I think she would understand and if not I fear for her children XD But in all seriousness failures happen you just need to learn to dust off the negative and start buying the positive it is an investment you can't refuse.... Unless you want to ;D Yea, you could say I cared for her alot, writing her initials in dirt but stopped b/c I realized that was just plain nuts... Now I understand what you meant by the first post of yours....Well, I need to learn to smile more I guess.... I understand and I normally give people 3 chances and he don't like the fact that I changed a little bit.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Identity Unknown Posted May 9, 2011 Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Yea, you could say I cared for her alot, writing her initials in dirt but stopped b/c I realized that was just plain nuts... Now I understand what you meant by the first post of yours....Well, I need to learn to smile more I guess....Remember why your here and then you will remember why you are happy... *This one I am not going to get into detail about think of this as a life long code that you and only you can decode until then Ariva Deirchi my friend* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted May 9, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 9, 2011 Umm okay, well, a mod can come and lock this is now.....Thanks all..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I-dreezyAFG Posted May 10, 2011 Report Share Posted May 10, 2011 *cee-lo green voice* FORGET HER!!trust me. i've seen and liked so many girls, i wish they wouldn't be so sensative if i went out with all of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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