Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [spoiler My Story] Okay, first off Today, dad is saying I have a defetus attitude, but really, why should I not, no one ever proves I should be positive.... [b]My reason:[/b] I could dress clean, I could get dressed up and everything, but in the end, people wii stil treat me like they did before.... Its not like they'll care 2 cents your clean or not, or bout my attitude.....I've tested this before.....I got dirty, went to town, and talk to people, went on home.....Nex time, I was clean, everything wnt to be exactly the same.... So, what purpose in my life is it that I should be clean and make the move when its all going to end the same, its not like somne is going to ask me out, no, they want me to ask them out, so then they can reject me, its not like an employee is going to hire me just becuase i'm clean and my attitude is good, really.... I bet ya all I could go to miles city tomorrow dressed & cleaned up nicely that nothing new will happen, no one would even care if I was clean, dressed up, or anything.... If I'm wrong, you'll all get a cookie --------- So, question is, why does people care about your cleanliness when they don't care about you when you were clean, don't take any initiative to say nice things, but talk about you behind your back when your dirty..... So, thats the only problem I'm going through right no, other then that, i'm peachy about myself and the way I am; Why should I change when if i asked all the other peple to change, they won't and I respect that.... [/spoiler] So, I know you all going to point out the obvious that nothing good is going to come o being positive, but why should I be optimistic when others are still going to not do a thing for me....Really, there is no point in being clean, happy, optimistic if youhardly ever go somewhere and when you do,its a waste to get cleaned, dressed up, or even be optimistic about stuff when you already know that people are still not going to get near ya or ask ya out or anything when you are nice.... [b]my Question:[/b] [b]1st: Why care?[/b] [b]2nd: Are you optimistic or pessimistic & why?[/b] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CDDRodrigo Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 Criticism is much easier to pull off than praise. Because people are hypocrites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 @Mu-12: 1st:huh [indent=1] 2nd: True[/indent] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Amazing Avian Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 I agree with Mu on the firs one I'm a realist, but I still try to act the optimist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 Oh, okay....Any other people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 I'm a realist/optimist. Being an optimist is actually more efficient. It psychologically makes you more adequate. Being clean is healthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clair Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 I'm an optimist. Keeping a positive attitude sure helps with living, laughing, and loving. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [quote name='Crab Helmet' timestamp='1331275793' post='5862803'] The moral of the story is that putting on a clean shirt for once in your life doesn't magically solve all of your problems when you're already a manchild so stupid he can't solve a middle school math problem in less than a week and so unlikeable he spends most of his time on the internet whining about how life is a never-ending miasma of pain and everyone in the world has always been unfair to him. [/quote] Sometimes you say the harshest things, yet I can never find a better way to say what you say. To simplify what Crabby said: Doing something different one time isn't going to prove anything. Why do you think scientists do multiple tests during a single experiment? Now go take a bath so you'll stay healthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THROWDOWN Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 Crab comments; let the kiss-asses roll in. It's nice to care; the only reason your father told you what he did is perhaps so that you could better yourself? If he didn't care about you then he wouldn't have said anything at all. Not only that, keeping a dirty shirt on is just unhygienic and unpleasant, people won't treat you the same as before because you can't even take care of yourself. I'm an optimist, anytime something negative happens I look on the bright side of it. E.g, I miss a bus and have to wait 10 minutes for the next one, the up-side is that the next bus is most likely to be the one that takes me all the way home. Either way, stop moaning about your life; it's fine. People want to read interesting threads, not ones like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greiga Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 Not at a computer now so short answers. 1st: Why not? Like, what, I need a reason to care about people now? 2nd: Peccimist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [quote name='Crab Helmet' timestamp='1331275793' post='5862803'] The moral of the story is that putting on a clean shirt for once in your life doesn't magically solve all of your problems when you're already a manchild so stupid he can't solve a middle school math problem in less than a week and so unlikeable he spends most of his time on the internet whining about how life is a never-ending miasma of pain and everyone in the world has always been unfair to him. [/quote] You could have left that thread out of this one, it would have been nicer.... o wait, your crab, never mind....and crabs never care about people or there feelings, only themselves.... Oh, by the way, i have a life to you know, it just aint as good of one as a person would have hope and I don't spend internet all the time, only when I get time, I have a job, hence why this even came about....... I've taken showers all my life, and I felt like being dirty because I knew I was going to get dirty the next day working on stuff.....So, perhaps you missed the other point, that is, [b]Why should I take a shower to get clean when you know your going to get dirty again just to take another shower to get dirty again, isn't that a waste of valuable water and money? I'd say so, but people don't look at the pessimistic conservative side of things often....[/b] They just look at what pleases themselves, not others.....Meh,i guess I shouldn't have tested it because people think they care for others when they are just looking out on there own, omg, he's dirty, hes going to infect me with a disease, get away, ......type thoughts and attitudes which really is not going to happen.... @Dwarven king: Actually, one time = people talking behind your back about your hygiene instead of confronting you in person.....really, I only not take showers when I know I'm going to get dirty in the same day, then going to town resulted in bad things, so, yea, it does tell ya the truth....Even though they care for their own selfish needs.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CinnamonStar Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 1. I think you could listen to your dad. Just my impression. I mean, no one expects you to spend all day in the shower or dress to the nines, but in most places you go to outside of your work and home, people will expect you to be at least presentable. When you go out with friends, say, to the movies or whatever, being clean shows that you care about the meet-up. Not to mention that it's better for yourself; my dad is a worker and most of the time he's working outside, but he always takes a shower when he gets home. I assume that by getting dirty at work, you also mean sweathing and well, going to bed with all of that isn't very healthy.:/ As for a job application, you're not going to be hired anywhere if you stink and people can smell from miles away that your motivation to do the job is equal to none.:S They will look at skills/diplomas/whatever is required, but it's also [i]necessary[/i] to be presentable and show a good attitude. 2. I'm an optimist. People often ask if I took something, but that's how it works.*shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dwarven King Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [quote name='THROWDOWN' timestamp='1331290880' post='5862858'] Crab comments; let the kiss-asses roll in. [/quote] Me kiss up to Crab? Lol, what? You sir apparently do not know me. [quote name='Skylie' timestamp='1331302907' post='5862935'] @Dwarven king: Actually, one time = people talking behind your back about your hygiene instead of confronting you in person.....really, I only not take showers when I know I'm going to get dirty in the same day, then going to town resulted in bad things, so, yea, it does tell ya the truth....Even though they care for their own selfish needs.... [/quote] There HAS to be more to this "situation" then you are telling us. I'll admit, I don't take showers everyday. Haven't got the time these days. Not once has someone talked behind my back. If I stink, they tell me. So if people are talking behind your back, then either you and the people in question are still in Middle School, or there is more going on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 @dwarven: Actually, the people that were talking behind my back were adults believe it or not, and just one day(Granted that I didn't do it for 2 days; but they don't know as I hardly make run-ins into town or cities), I decided I felt like not taking a shower and going to miles city for a quick run in to pick up stuff, then next day I hear John, my Uncle saying that there were lots of adults complaining, seriously, just 1 day of no cleaning and adults complaining, thats just messed up....Seriously, it torques me when they do that, who cares, you only had to see me that day once....I had pitstick and deodorant on, seriously....I bet half of those people in town were as dirty as me.... [b]@Anyone: Moral of the story is that people will talk smack just because they can and about something they want to help make themselves feel better....Why? 2nd Moral Is: why be positive & happy when Nothing will change.....I never used to be a pessimist, but that changed when I got to highschool and got out of my shyness state....[/b] My 1st question was a derrogative statement saying for a meaning: Why do people all seem selfish about themselves other then others....H*ll, If I had 2 billion dollars in my hand, I'd give you all 10 million if I knew how to give it to you if I was rich, i'm not selfish, yet others think to need to talk behind a poor slums man about hygiene when in fact he was obly dirty for 2 days and they only saw you once dirty and 2 days ago you were clean...... And about the water thing, think of it in this sense... Renting an Apartment: 500 dollars with everything but electricity & water paid for Food: 600-700 dollars a month: Thats not much to even get buy unless you live in a big city, but i don't. Water: 20 dolllars a month unless you take long showers like me, you can assume 50-60 dollars, yet you still have to pay the 60 dollars then they still rip you off by charging more even though it only costs them 30 dllars to give you it. Electricity: 100-200 dollars a month: Total: 1600-2000 a month = broke job = nothing good Cutting Water & Electricity bill in half....by not using as much.... 1450-1850 a month.... Don't you suppose I would want to cut the water bill, the electricity bill off a little bit once a month.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THROWDOWN Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [quote name='Dwarven King' timestamp='1331317764' post='5863146'] Me kiss up to Crab? Lol, what? You sir apparently do not know me. [/quote] Your name was never even mentioned mate. I wasn't directing my comment at you but to a select group of members. Just because I commented after you replied to CH it doesn't mean I bothered to glance at your reply, let alone read it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not-so-Radiant Arin Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 It's hard to praise everyone when they're all idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rai Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 All I've actually even managed to deduce from this topic is that we have one extremely money-stingy person who doesn't want to wash because it 'wastes money'. The answer to your questions are: 1. Because no-one really needs to praise you. Why should anyone praise another for being clean? It's simply hygiene to stay clean for your own health and so you're not making anybody else uncomfortable. It's like praising someone for eating everyday or something. Not to mention, that you would probably wouldn't notice if you weren't [b]trying[/b] to search for praise after getting criticism (psychologically a subconscious effect of what is basically spite). i.e. it's probably more selfish of you to be asking why you weren't praised in the first place. It's also kinda selfish to expect absolutely no criticism at all for not having hygiene. When a majority believe that a certain thing is right, you cannot possibly hope for absolutely no criticism whatsoever for having a view of the minority (in this case, that you think that hygiene is unimportant). 2. Why go a Middle Eastern country and wear a veil? You don't have to if you wanted to be stubborn, but it's [b]pure courtesy[/b]. Why wash? Because people don't want to be around dirty people because cleanliness is the most common thing. [quote]Food: 600-700 dollars a month: Thats not much to even get buy unless you live in a big city, but i don't.[/quote] Wait, how do you spend this much on food? If you're actually good with money, you could [i]easily[/i] shave $200 of this. Healthy, cheap eating pls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 9, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 [quote name='.Rai' timestamp='1331329487' post='5863360'] All I've actually even managed to deduce from this topic is that we have one extremely money-stingy person who doesn't want to wash because it 'wastes money'. The answer to your questions are: 1. Because no-one really needs to praise you. Why should anyone praise another for being clean? It's simply hygiene to stay clean for your own health and so you're not making anybody else uncomfortable. It's like praising someone for eating everyday or something. Not to mention, that you would probably wouldn't notice if you weren't [b]trying[/b] to search for praise after getting criticism (psychologically a subconscious effect of what is basically spite). i.e. it's probably more selfish of you to be asking why you weren't praised in the first place. It's also kinda selfish to expect absolutely no criticism at all for not having hygiene. When a majority believe that a certain thing is right, you cannot possibly hope for absolutely no criticism whatsoever for having a view of the minority (in this case, that you think that hygiene is unimportant). 2. Why go a Middle Eastern country and wear a veil? You don't have to if you wanted to be stubborn, but it's [b]pure courtesy[/b]. Why wash? Because people don't want to be around dirty people because cleanliness is the most common thing. Wait, how do you spend this much on food? If you're actually good with money, you could [i]easily[/i] shave $200 of this. Healthy, cheap eating pls. [/quote] 8.76 dollars for 20 cans of pop, which last a month. 4 dollars a can of soup, tomato soup, polish dogs to pizza to hamburger alone cost about 5 to 8 dollars an average. A normal person eats 3 big meals a day, then goes do there jobs. Sure, i could cut a meal down, but it'd cost my body to get interrupted and not be heatlhy, really, think about places in the world, not all the prices are the same. Some have 2 dollar bags of candy as my store has 6 dollar bags of candy(Which I don't buy as I don't need it but there for making a point). Bread is 2-4 dollars, sometimes 6 depending ho wmuch bread is left. Condiments range from 3 to 10 dollars.... Its not because our economy groceries are stingy, its because we live far awaw from the consumers and the trucks that deliver want more money, so the econmy has to get their money to make a living, in which return causes us with high end groceries..... [spoiler So, to calculate as I knew I was going to have to....] Hamburger: half a pound a week and leaves 2 new meals, not to mention whatever else you want with it costs to. Chili: Hamburger Required; Beans Required,Sauce Required Sphagetti: Hamburger Required, Noodles Required, Sauce required Bread: For hamburgers, or lunch meat: Lunch Meat: 4-6 dollars a for just enough for 2 servings, really, its not much at all..... Cans of Soup, raviolios, or whatever else: 4-10 dollars depending on what you get Necessities to keep clean(I store sells it): 5-10 dollars Cheese Singles: 2.75 to 3.75 depending on brand. Lettuce: 4.75 Cleaning Supplies(For apartment or house or whatevs): 4.75 to 10 dollars Hamburger Buns or Hot dog Buns: I don't buy them to cut down the cost, just use bread, it all works Fruit and Stuff: To keep healthy; 2-5 dollars per can, or let sit fresh food on the counter for a week to spoil as no one will eat it..... Deodarant: 5-7 dollars Toilet Paper: The kind I like is 10 dollars for a 6 pack.....The kind dad likes is 13 dollars for an 8 pack, and its worse.... Cereal: 5-10 dollars and the boxes are all less then 10 servings...Bags are worse Animal Necessities: 6-12 dollars depending on whats needed Water(As I am picky of water as all town and city water is nasty): 2-4 dollars Noodes, Sphagetti: 6-7 dollars Now mulitply that stuff when the amount of needed and you'll get up to 200 dollars, and that'll only be good for 2 weeks in my family, as we like to eat different foods....and I'm not fat like people think, I may be a little overweight, but not by much. Like 10-20 pounds. Yes, i live in a town where everything is expensive, the gas is 4 dollars and raises and lowers everyday, the diesel is now a penny more or less then the gas everyday, the food is outragous. Now, lets say i planned to move out of my safe heaven as I'm not actually living on my own yet, I could move out of town, but practically improbable when the oil booms hit those other towns. The prices on groceries have doubled, even tripled, rent is 3000 dollars in those places for a month, just for a mancamp....And wors of all, the original living places have to pay the skyrocketed money in those places, but cannot because they don't make enough money. There are goodsides by increasing jobs, increasing the economies production, but it also causes problems for people trying to make a living. It could be a good thing to get a head start of it, build a business, and prosper, but how would you know if the oil boom would even come, which is taking a great risk at getting a job, a place and everything else. So, now don't go tell me you can live on 200 dollars a month on food, I know you can't, ask your parents how much you eat in a day, say bye bye to those snack foods, and goodies, like I did, to even survive....As economy prospers, there are the ones who do and don't..... I actually don't live on my own, but was preparing when i found a job, and dad told me no one can live on 400 dollars of food, unless anorexic or anemic....and calculate it with those prices I made for you, and assume everything you need to live is 5 to 10, sometimes even 20 dollars depending on what it is. If i need better prices, next time I go to town, i could give you a chart of everything there with the prices. And sure, lets go veggie and go pale and sick and weak, no thanks, I'd rather be fat then weak; pale, faint, and horrible feeling. [/spoiler] Hope that answers stuff.... Oh by the way, i wasn't wanting to be praised, I was just hoping for something new to happen, as nothing ever does...Sure, new to you guys is a truck wrecking, a tornado forming, citites being destroyed, life alays has something planned, but it seems normal in my opinion as you already know a tornado is going to happen, not soon, but you know its going to happen, and same with fires, earthquakes, Volcanoes erupting, are all old, not new, not something someone would say, OMG to unless they were in its path, and what I'm wanting, is Life ever going to throw something not ever done before at us, o wait, no, as history repeats itself, so will life..>When I pass on into the afterlife, granted it won't be the exact same, but will be close, another person will login and do the same thing, and end up saying almost exactly the same things, unless life will change course, which it will not..... What I'm saying is, Will people stop making up BS about stuff, like New tornado, New ashes in the sky, New Ufo's, when they are not new, they are just fresh in the day or night, if its new, it has to be something new, OMG, there is something never before seen happening to New York(Should be called Old New york, as its not New, its old, not fresh even, staled with polluted clouds, as people already know), or To Montana, or Something Else. And I don't want disasters to happen, I just want something new to happen, or this Life and Era has been officially wasted and I would rather waste it in heaven or H*ll, as nothing NEW will ever happen....Sure, i go take a shower, then I go eat food, go do my job, go home, pay bills, play games once in awhile, or drive a fourwheeler around, go do stuff in town, its all there, I've done it before, and I do it again, just in search of something NEW, and yet nothing new has happened....If an Ice or Snow Tornado or Flaming Earthquake happened, then I might change my pessimistic view of Life, but since Life does not change, just repeats itself in a different more elusive and evading way, its not new, its just different. Me talking to you guys is nothing new, just different....If it was new, you'd all be gone, not talking to me, doing something else today, that'd be new, but I want a NEW that affects everyone and not just one solo person.....and I hope the NEW thing that Life would have to do would be positive, but granted, Life hates everyone, so it won't, but if it'd do something interesting and New, i might be able to look the other way....for a day.... Life is Repitition and Thus no less, not new, not ever New... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CinnamonStar Posted March 9, 2012 Report Share Posted March 9, 2012 I can see what you mean now though. If you want something 'new' to happen, have you taken the initiative and tried to do something like that on your own? Taken up an interesting hobby or tried something you've never done? You mentioned no one asking you out or complimenting you even when you went to the city being all clean and groomed, but well, we can't always people to bring up cleanness if it's a common necessity, right? Or maybe your dad is right and people don't really feel like approaching you because of your negative attitude? I can't really tell since I don't know you in real life, but have you tried asking someone ou yourself, for that matter? I find it hard to believe that, as you said, 'people won't ask you out because they're waiting for you to do it, for the sheer pleasure of being able to reject you'. 'New' things don't automatically happen, sometimes you have to look for them or make the first step. Actually, it's not like there will be something super out-of-the-ordinary everyday either, a certain routine will always settle a some point in life. But I've always believed that you can make life more interesting by taking joy into small things. As for the food, I can understand that depending on where you live, the food prices can really stock up and you don't have access to some things. However, I find some things a bit hard to believe, like do you really need a hamburger to make spaghetti? When you have garlic, onions, canned tomatoes and liquid cream at home, there are a lot of cheap, Italian dishes that you can make. IDK, eat a tomato sauce one day, then the next day a cheese sauce which is simply cream + cheese melted in a pan, or put some mushrooms into the cream-based sauce for some other time? That's what I do and it does end up being cheap in the long run. (Sorry if my post is a bit 'thrown-out-there' right now, I'm logging off now anyway.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 10, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 Eviltaxi: yea, those things help, and I appreciate that you finally understand, but how do you make something new happen everyday and end it with every ending?(By ging to bed).... But you've actually helped me here, thank you very much....I do appreciate it....But I've taken the initiative everyday to go somewhere, do something, tried to ask people out, tried to ask for jobs, but usually to a null-end result in something like, "Its complicated" or its," Its not you, its me" or the money the job offers is not even worth it to get to even try new things is kind of desperado.....But you did end up cheering me up by showing me a few new things I didn't think of.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JordanPark24 Posted March 10, 2012 Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 I read through most of the comments here (some were REALLY long and I skipped them), but here's what I have to say: You can't expect something new to happen everyday. If you walk through a city, odds are people won't notice you because they're busy or you didn't make the first move. Most people are in their own little world; you can't expect them to drop everything and do something different. Like stated before, there are certain patterns in life that will stay until acted upon by an outside force. You can make that change, but you're much too negative to do anything about it. You just expect it to happen. You can't do that, at least not in today's society. People won't take notice unless you make them notice. Perhaps if you cleaned up your attitude and took the initiative, something good could happen. The point that you said about people wanting you to ask them out for the sole purpose of rejecting you is ridiculous. Who honestly does that? And if they do, why would you want to go out with an @$$ like that? Honestly. Have a little faith in society. Finally, being clean is a common courtesy that everyone should practice. No one wants to be around someone who is dirty or smells. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 10, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 @Above: I discovered my problem now, I'm apathetically pessimist....Tell ya what, I take the initiative which you apparently skipped the post above you already telling you I did, and yet it still seems to fail....I take the initiative to do somethng and it backfires, I'm nice to people, usually don't let them see this side of me, but somehow people still look over my shoulder, even when i asked them if they needed help cutting logs or something..... So, I'm a apathetically pessimis; Then again, I may be wrong there 2.......... 3rd one was to just to draw attention, which it did, and i understand.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smesh Posted March 10, 2012 Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 ...just take a shower. I'm not really optimistic or pessimistic, I'm whatever the word is for idgafistic. Don't let what people say bother you. Works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted March 10, 2012 Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 [quote name='Crab Helmet' timestamp='1331407938' post='5864825'] It's like all the losers who diagnose themselves with Aspergers on the internet because sticking a name on their loserdom makes it okay, [/quote] Woah woah, aspergers may not be common but the symptoms it causes would usually cause one to integrate into an online forum such as this, thus the seemingly large population of aspies. That being said, I'm sure there's a few people lying about it. Regardless, that was a great read. I always enjoy your work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master White Posted March 10, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 10, 2012 [quote name='Crab Helmet' timestamp='1331407938' post='5864825'] No, let me tell you what your real problem is: you won't accept responsibility for anything. It's the same as what you did in the "I suck at math" thread, where you claimed that the real problem was all those evil teachers who didn't understand you and those elitists trying to put down your totally reasonable goal of building a computer without math. Nothing is ever actually your fault; it's the worlds fault for not accommodating you. And you're doing the same thing here. Man, it's not your fault you're a smelly friendless loser. It's the world's fault for not wanting to be around someone as filthy as you and for unfairly demanding that the air around you be breathable and for not throwing a concert in your honor the moment you start making the slightest vague attempt at what is second nature to everyone else from primary school onwards. Even with this "apathetic pessimist" epiphany you think you're having, you're still shoving responsibility off to the side by hiding behind a label. It's like all the losers who diagnose themselves with Aspergers on the internet because sticking a name on their loserdom makes it okay, or those even more pathetic losers who label themselves hikikomoris because they don't go outside all that often (even though hikikomori means a lot more than that and due to societal differences isn't something that can exist at all in America). As long as you can attach a name to something, you don't need to actually struggle to improve yourself or feel guilty; you can just say, "Hey, I'm not a pathetic failure, I suffer from Patheticfailure Disorder!" and sit back looking smug because they think that makes it okay. You're not interested in being a less terrible person; you're interested in finding a nice name for your terribleness. That's why you react so negatively any time anyone says anything negative here - you're only comfortable with anything negative being said as long as it involves putting you into a nice little box so you can let the box take responsibility for you. With the box, you can pretend you're not a failure, you're just special, or misunderstood, or mistreated, or sick, or whatever else. Without the box, you'd be forced to confront what a horrible person you are. And it's completely self-destructive. Why are you a pessimist? Because the world has always been "unfair" to you. Why do things never work out well for you? Because you're a loser who gives up on basic necessities like cleanliness when making the tiniest effort in that direction doesn't revolutionize your world. Why do you do that? Because you've decided to call yourself a pessimist and therefore feel the need to assume failure to maintain that title. I have to insult you because the only way to help you is to insult you - your problem is completely overlooking your own failures and blaming all your problems on everyone else, and the only way to break that illusion is to shove down your throat just how pathetic you are. [/quote] Do you really think insulting me would solve any problems, NO!!!....Not ever once does hurting a person ever help them, not one instant, it just makes things worse.... 2nd: PLEASE STOP BRINGING THAT THREAD INTO THIS ONE; THAT WAS A WHOLE DIFFERENT PROBLEM IN RELATING TO SCHOOL; NOT IN WANTING A LIFE WORTH LIVING..... 3RD: ALL my life I've seen a*holes like you that end up abusing the online forum community thinking thats how it helps others, when in fact, in turn does that opposite. I'm not trying to be harsh, as your a mod, and gaurenteed going to ban me for calling you something, but instead, I'd prefer to be banned, I've asked Icy to ban me once, you know he didn't, not sure why....Now, I really don't want to be until the end of my Contest is done... Besides the point, this was suppose to ask the people about themselves, not me, my story was there to just Draw attention, which it did, just in the Wrong way.... This is my ideal To see Life as is is to make sure Life has an oppurtune moment in which everything fails in order to rise it up in the new brith in which will be the correct way.... But I'm an a born adventurer born in an adventureless world, so its hard to find an adventure unless thrown off into space with your head or hi-jacking an shuttle or spaceship.....[Which I might do if the world does end in 2012] -------------- The whole intent of the story was to draw attention and maybe help me out, which it did draw attention, but neither did nor do any good in helping me out....It just caused more porblems... The others were aimed and relevant at the other YCMers on purpose, as I want them to feel that they are welcomed; Wanted, and so I know what they are.... Crab: Positive Hygenist who's clearly goal is to make others feel bad about themselves so she feels better about themselves. Still loyal and friendly, and can be fun. An okay person. Comrade Trollestia: A person in which seeks a mediocre state in Life who has the pleasure of knowing someone in order to look up to one in order to make themselves better about themselves. Smesh: The only one to have the correct answer in seeking what I wanted for answers, simple answers was all I wanted, and yet got big answers that all relevanted to the same thing. Smesh is a smart person, actually one person to overdundant. Also, i have taken the shower already, you'd think I'd go a week without taking a shower, thats just not right. My Main Reason and Goal was to draw attention to answer the 2nd question to know about yourselves, so I've clearly made that more obvious about myself....I wanted to know more about YCMers and have clearly got more answers that are overwhelming, so someone please lock this, thanks all....Especially Crab.... For definitely showing me your true side.... Oh, by the way, will someone answer this one question riddle. When Life ends no Ones fault, Life shall have an Beginning in Which the middle is the End. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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