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Hi Yugioh card makers!

I'm josh, super huge yugioh player and i did make a set a really long time ago on this website, but now, i want to share with you guys a video me and my friends made part of a anti-bullying club at my school called Project Caritas. PLEASE check out this video, and while you're at it, keep on dueling and expressing your creativity here on this site!

It's our own It Gets Better Video. Thanks!

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Never went to a public school and when I did interact with other kids I was usually too oblivious to let anything bother me, so I can't really relate, but yeah, the video's cool.


Kind of assumes a lot about the person watching though.

A terrible unloved a****** could be a bully-victim.

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[quote name='Katniss Everdeen' timestamp='1332975886' post='5892997']
Agreed. Bullying is stupid and karma will eventually come back to haunt the bully.
Cato was a bully and look what happened to him.
[/quote]

Yet another Hunger Game reference form this kid....

OT: Great video, inspirational. Together we can stand up to bullying!

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I watched the video and all I got from that is we are all oh so little special flowers

Sure, bullying is bad, but to me, its also a valuable life lesson that the world isn't a happy place and you will encounter situations that you are forced to defend yourself, being yourself in competitive areas, like applying for a job, doesn't always get you anywhere and even older people are actually ZOMG SO MEAN to diffirent races and believes all the time.

So yeah, how is this project going to stop those considered suicides again, if this project's only purpose is to tell other people they are special, then when they get older, they finally got slapped in the face by reality?

and 1000 views isn't that much you know

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[quote name='Master Hyperion' timestamp='1333540495' post='5901234']
I watched the video and all I got from that is we are all oh so little special flowers

Sure, bullying is bad, but to me, its also a valuable life lesson that the world isn't a happy place and you will encounter situations that you are forced to defend yourself, being yourself in competitive areas, like applying for a job, doesn't always get you anywhere and even older people are actually ZOMG SO MEAN to diffirent races and believes all the time.

So yeah, how is this project going to stop those considered suicides again, if this project's only purpose is to tell other people they are special, then when they get older, they finally got slapped in the face by reality?

and 1000 views isn't that much you know
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This. Really f***ing. Bothers me.

So because the world's not a nice place, we should all just accept that and...I don't know, [i]not try to make the world a nicer place[/i]?

Do you know why bullying is so devastating? [i]Because the kid can't walk away from it[/i]. When you're bullied in school, you're getting harrassed and mocked- every day- in a place you are [i]required to go to[/i]. There is not a "real life" equivalent to this. There just isn't.

And I f***ing resent you implying that kids who get bullied are some kind of weaklings who don't know how to handle reality. Because they go through s*** that you'll never have to, and they get up in the morining every day and do it all over again.

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I agree, yet some extreme forms of bullying are [i]more[/i] harsh than reality to an emotionally volatile teenager.


If kids are being driven to suicide, clearly something is wrong.


Okay, I just thought of something. People pick on each other, that's only natural. What makes bullying so troubling to people? I have a theory. It's not the actual act of bullying itself, it's all the bystanders who do nothing.


Get in a fight with one person and lose? Big deal.

Get in a fight with one person and lose while everyone else stands around laughing at you? Sad panda.

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[quote name='Greiga te Jalokia' timestamp='1333544672' post='5901270']
They can walk away from it but tbh their mind is too weak to actually do that or even know what to do.
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Tell me, how exactly do you "walk away" from a bully?

Scenario: Big dude picks on you, shoves you around. You walk away. He follows you mocking you further and then shoves you into a wall.
Scenario: You avoid your usual hang out spots in fear of the bully. He finds you anyway because he derives pleasure from your suffering and a school simply isn't that big.
Scenario: You hide in the bathroom for most of the day to avoid him. You are miserable because you are hiding in a bathroom
Scenario: You fake sickness to avoid school. This works for maybe a day and then he beats you up extra for avoiding him

The problem with bullying is, outside of drastic measures such as switchign schools, [i]you can't walk away from them[/i]. You HAVE TO go to school everyday, and the bully is going to be there waiting for you.

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[quote name='Vairocana' timestamp='1333555721' post='5901377']
Tell me, how exactly do you "walk away" from a bully?

Scenario: Big dude picks on you, shoves you around. You walk away. He follows you mocking you further and then shoves you into a wall.
Scenario: You avoid your usual hang out spots in fear of the bully. He finds you anyway because he derives pleasure from your suffering and a school simply isn't that big.
Scenario: You hide in the bathroom for most of the day to avoid him. You are miserable because you are hiding in a bathroom
Scenario: You fake sickness to avoid school. This works for maybe a day and then he beats you up extra for avoiding him

The problem with bullying is, outside of drastic measures such as switchign schools, [i]you can't walk away from them[/i]. You HAVE TO go to school everyday, and the bully is going to be there waiting for you.
[/quote]

Well it depends on the type of bullying, you can walk away form a minor bully, but larger ones have to be dealt with.

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[quote name='Admiral Tim' timestamp='1333569670' post='5901623']
Well it depends on the type of bullying, you can walk away form a minor bully, but larger ones have to be dealt with.
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Well we're discussing bullying that has caused suicied, so I sort of assumed everyone was on the same page.

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[quote name='Greiga te Jalokia' timestamp='1333544672' post='5901270']
They can walk away from it but tbh their mind is too weak to actually do that or even know what to do.

Not saying bullying is ok but if you're bullied for a pariod of time it tends to toughen you up.
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I disagree with that.

I was bullied a ton in middle school because I was deemed to be a total ditz. Other girls began to gossip behind my back, and boys jeered at me when I walked around school. The secretive whispers that followed me were almost too much to take. I tried to stay strong, because I had far from a "weak mind" as you say. It's just, as Vairocana said, that I [i]couldn't escape my bullies[/i]. I had to get my education at the public school that I was financially strapped into, but school was where the hurt was. Thus, I had no choice in the matter, and the teachers and my parents who were supposed to be doing something both turned a blind eye. Bullying didn't toughen me up. Bullying made me afraid to be myself around others, made me cry at night, turned me into somebody weak, somebody that I wasn't. The bullying has stopped as my classmates and I have both matured, but middle school always gives way to painful memories.

I'm sorry for my long post. But this is a personal subject for me. ><

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And who cares if 1000 views is little? We're a small fledgling organization just beginning to grow. we don't expect 1 million views in the first day. and i wholeheartedly agree that anything, no matter how the size of its impact, can change someone's viewpoint on bullying. this video wants to reassure to anyone out there who feels alone, that there are people who care about you.

this was supposed to strengthen people. not remind them how weak they are.

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