❤ Lovely Warrior ❤ Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 So my friend and this other girl are having a fight. Apparently my friend was going around school joking about how Other Girl did drugs. Other Girl got upset and was rely beating down on my friend because she didn't do drugs and she hated that he would go and spread rumors like that. My friend just kind of brushed it off and continued to spread the rumors. Other Girl got rely pissed and just tore him out during lunch but people called her a druggie and threw stuff at her till I stepped in and walked her out. I actually rely hate Other Girl because she is kind of a b**** but they are treating her so horribly and my friend has never done anything like this before so I don't know why he is doing this to her. He usually would never harm a fly. So do I help the mean girl I hate because of whats going on? Do I stick with my friend since I have known him since kindergarden and this is the first he has done something like this? Or do I just ditch him? I have no idea what to do in this situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous00 Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Stay out of it, possibly? It's a lose-lose situation anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vairocana Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Tell your friend that he's being an ass? Also, lolrumorsaboutdrugs. Go to college, assume everyone does drugs. No one cares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Um If I were you, I'd try figuring out why your friend's being a douche. Depending on what he answers, you either let them deal with it, or you help the other girl through it, if you really feel compelled to despite your past with her. Either way, I personally wouldn't take his side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legend Zero Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Am I the only one concerned with a school that has to have another student step in (instead of faculty) when someone is being bullied to that degree? Your friend really has no reason to act like that. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simping For Hina Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Hate=/=die Help her out in someway. You're friend is being a dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
❤ Lovely Warrior ❤ Posted March 29, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 I am trying to help her out but its hard to be nice to someone you hate.... err or should I say don't personally like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rai Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Never take personal differences as a factor when two people are basically harming themselves and others. Even if it's hard, it's important to not take those things in account. Very. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clair Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Well, apparently your friend started this whole ordeal. So tell him to knock it off, because bullying is for losers. ><; Continue to help the other girl through this, apparently since no one else in your school has the fortitude to stand up to your pal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Rai Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 [quote name='Clair' timestamp='1333057604' post='5893996'] Well, apparently your friend started this whole ordeal. So tell him to knock it off, because bullying is for losers. ><; Continue to help the other girl through this, apparently since no one else in your school has the fortitude to stand up to your pal. [/quote] Including any teachers who can't apparently be bothered or are completely unaware that there are reckless drug rumours circulating :S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 [quote name='❤ Lovely Warrior ❤' timestamp='1333053237' post='5893873'] Do I stick with my friend since I have known him since kindergarden and this is the first he has done something like this? Or do I just ditch him? I have no idea what to do in this situation. [/quote] You don't have to go all out and just ditch him right off the bat, especially considering that you go back and this's a first-time offense as you said. That being said, if he doesn't see the problem with what he's doing, then chances are he'll have no problem with doing it again. THAT being said, bring it up and let him know why it's a problem. If he doesn't wisen up, THEN you should ditch him. If he disagrees with others' perspectives, he should be trying to come to an understanding with them by getting their sides of the story, not trying to silence them. He probably resorted to character assassination because he was so alienated by this "other girl" and so fearful of her perspective that he felt he needed to crush her opinion by getting similarly fearful people to empower his own perspective. Fear manifests itself in desperate acts that blur the lines of morality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Βyakuya Posted March 30, 2012 Report Share Posted March 30, 2012 Seems quite tough. The said friend of yours probably has a drug justice problem. You should befriend the girl a bit just to understand. What I think is that people change throughout lives. Your friend may not be the same since Kindergarden. They can get that radical. Or you could get your friend to talk. He may have a personal problem related to drugs or her personally, and tell him resorting to those actions weren't right. Otherwise you can go none of the above and be passive. If you actually have a strong relationship with him as a friend, then I'm unsure. Just let time slip by and take necessary action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THROWDOWN Posted March 30, 2012 Report Share Posted March 30, 2012 Hey look, it's a member of staff. I think I'll tell her. How hard was that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miror B Posted March 30, 2012 Report Share Posted March 30, 2012 Don't ditch him. Tell him off. If he brushes you off as well then ditch him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frunk Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 Kill one/both of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THROWDOWN Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='Frunk' timestamp='1333198412' post='5895920'] Kill one/both of them. [/quote] You're about as helpful as the sun in Africa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frunk Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='THROWDOWN' timestamp='1333205650' post='5896035'] You're about as helpful as the sun in Africa. [/quote] Well, I just wanted to make sure all options were presented, for the benefit of the OP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THROWDOWN Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='Frunk' timestamp='1333205829' post='5896040'] Well, I just wanted to make sure all options were presented, for the benefit of the OP. [/quote] [url="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1klhblVaZ1r5k5eto3_250.gif"]http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1klhblVaZ1r5k5eto3_250.gif[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vairocana Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='THROWDOWN' timestamp='1333205650' post='5896035'] You're about as helpful as the sun in Africa. [/quote] That's pretty helpful. I like the sun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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