jordan90 Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 So i have a problem with hate my little sister. I try not to do it but i cant help it. i've told he many ones that i hated her and she told me she hated me too. I dont know why i find it disgusting to have a relationship with her. I try not to touch her when she next to me because im disgusted with her. Whenever i thought about my future kids and its in her hand but i get angry and i think i'm not letting my kids to be held by my sister. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DARKPLANT RISING Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 I'm told a majority of kids with brothers/sisters have that problem. I don't have it (in fact, my relationship with my younger sister is going amazingly well), but anyways. Well, I suggest you first try to find a good thing about her. Just one is enough. It doesn't have to be directed at you necesarrily, though that's probably better. You might be able to feel she's not all-disgusting from head to toe. If you can't, you're either not trying hard enough, or your sister is really a total b**** who deserves what you're giving her right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cin Posted May 11, 2012 Report Share Posted May 11, 2012 Seriously it will get easier, alot of siblings squabble when they're younger, me and my sister still do now (at 24 and 21), but we trust each other with most things. There has to be a reason when you really thing of why you 'hate' her. I say 'hate', because I don't feel you can really hate your own flesh and blood unless they've done something seriously cruel (abusive, etc) to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Yeah, I [i]hated[/i] my sister in middle school. I don't know how old your sister is, but if she's middle school/high school, it's safe to say she'll grow out of it. I truly do think my sister's one of the most obnoxious and loud people I know, but luckily for her, other people have perceived it as boldness and being quirky. She's pretty snarky, pessimistic, and crude at home, so she can still grate on my nerves pretty well, just not as badly as when she hit puberty and met mean schoolgirls. I would also try looking for one positive aspect of your relationship with her. Firstly, if it seems like she's always the antagonist, then take pride in the fact that you're the protagonist and hopefully not the one at fault most of the time. And secondly, you've become pretty used to her and her behavior, right? If there's one thing I'm grateful for about having a sister is that she taught me incredible patience and tolerance. I really had to force myself to handle her maturely and that seeped in with the rest of my life until I became a more mature-minded and polite person. Hopefully she's having the same effect on you. It's like if you can handle your sister, you can handle anything, right? Unless your sister's a sadistic b*tch or something, then don't worry, these feelings are pretty normal. Unless there's other certain extenuating family circumstances I don't know about, you two will get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garthfunkle Vii Backwards Posted May 20, 2012 Report Share Posted May 20, 2012 [quote name='Darkplant - VENOM' timestamp='1336734803' post='5936956'] I'm told a majority of kids with brothers/sisters have that problem. I don't have it (in fact, my relationship with my younger sister is going amazingly well), but anyways. Well, I suggest you first try to find a good thing about her. Just one is enough. It doesn't have to be directed at you necesarrily, though that's probably better. You might be able to feel she's not all-disgusting from head to toe. can't, you're either not trying hard enough, or your sister is really a total b**** who deserves what you're giving her right now. [/quote] [quote name='Yin' timestamp='1336760179' post='5937200'] Seriously it will get easier, alot of siblings squabble when they're younger, me and my sister still do now (at 24 and 21), but we trust each other with most things. There has to be a reason when you really thing of why you 'hate' her. I say 'hate', because I don't feel you can really hate your own flesh and blood unless they've done something seriously cruel (abusive, etc) to you. [/quote] these two know what they are talking about here really try this :Well, I suggest you first try to find a good thing about her. Just one is enough. It doesn't have to be directed at you necesarrily, though that's probably better. i have a sibling and my sibling have bipolar disorder so that probmatic at best now i will adtempt darkplant advice my sibling is tough a worker (some people are just plain lazy and never work a day in their life) hmm thats all for now but we are not getting along at all there alot of problems beside the bipolar thing my sibling is making alot of wrong decisons right now and im trying to make things right but seems bleak the mere thought of my sibling makes me sick i really want to hurt my sibling (no hold to the death sort of thing) but honestly i do not want this way forever but seems hopeless and its seem our relationship we not change for the better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.