.Spock Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 [spoiler=Don't read unless you're 18. If you do that's your choice but I'm not having my thread locked on account of you.]Yesterday I received a text from a girl, Amy, I’m very close with romantically to bring her some vodka. I said I’d think about it as I was busy at the time and then shortly after I receive another text from her saying, “why don’t you say hi to Alex?” Alex is a girl I used to be close with last summer. I said, “Okay, hi Alex” assuming she was there with her.“f*** off” Amy replied“So let me get this straight you’re pissed off with me for whatever reason and you want me to hook you up?” I then phoned her, she went on to say how she knows that I flirt and talk to other girls sexually and romantically, which I don’t and even if I were to I wouldn’t have seen it being a huge problem as I’ve never even kissed her. In the end I gave her my Facebook e-mail and password and said go through all my messages yourself, this morning I got a text message saying, “I’m so sorry, I guess that’s what happens when my drunk friends get a hold of my phone.” I know she’s lying and she was clearly THAT drunk that she can’t remember talking to me on the phone. I don’t know whether to accept her apology and move on or just leave it as it is. She’s demonstrated a huge lack of faith in me and even if I were to accept her apology I wouldn’t want to get involved with her romantically. In fact, I’d probably be edgy about being her friend. Help me out with this and discuss relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 Relationship advice from this site? How many times has it been explained that this site isn't the appropriate site to ask such questions as most people (other than some rare members) don't have a significant other / any relationship experience to talk about to even help in regards to relationships? But really, it's your life, and the best thing to do for you is to figure it out yourself to learn from this experience. But if she acts like that when she gets drunk, it's bound to happen that one day she doesn't need to be drunk to act that way, and logically, that will only make the relationship hurt. So I feel that it would be the best for you to distance yourself from her. But hey, this advice is just coming from some random person from YCM who doesn't have any real experience with this subject, so it's up to you to either take the suggestion or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Spock Posted October 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 Lol. Maybe it's for the best that they don't have a significant other or relationship experience. Maybe I was going for a completely fresh outlook from outside the relationship box. Anyway, thanks for your advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ListenToLife Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 If she's shown the capabililty to be like this, then it's probably going to happen again. And if you're having doubts, then you're probably gonna continue to have doubts. If you think you'll be happy, then go for it. But you're obviously unsure about it, which isn't exactly great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
'tyleR Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 You're also coming to the internet, more specifically, this site, for advice. That's not exactly not great either. Really, though, you have to think about the fact that any relationship you have will contain some sort of argument or fight at some point. It's up to you to decide if the person is worth it. If you're willing to discard it so quickly, then jabroni, you must not have cared that much in the first place. Obviously she had SOME sort of reason to believe you were lying as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hatcher Posted October 6, 2012 Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 Your thread is labeled 18+, but I very much doubt either you or the girl are a day over 15. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Spock Posted October 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted October 6, 2012 I'm 18 and so is the girl. You don't know what you're talking about half the time, Hatcher. Anyhow, lock this thread please. I resolved the issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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