EndUser Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 Just ignore the title if you don't understand it :P To the point: Wanting to express your feelings about stuff that wouldn't change a thing, or because you seek attention (often for no reason), is pointless. It can also be tiring if it's about a repeated/continuous situation. Subsequently, it's better not to say a thing and try to act normally and more lively, without overthinking it or looking for answers that won't boost your good self anyway. Of course, I'm not including the cases where a situation requires talking to someone (or generally) because it's important. Do you agree at some (or all) of this? Something to add perhaps? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 Humans are social creatures complete with social appetites. I'm not sure what this "trying to act normally" suggestion of yours entails, but it doesn't sound particularly appealing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dova Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 I agree, but that doesn't mean I like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EndUser Posted December 17, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 Humans are social creatures complete with social appetites. I'm not sure what this "trying to act normally" suggestion of yours entails, but it doesn't sound particularly appealing. Hm... Here's an example: Instead of crying over not being active in a specific activity (i.e. overthinking), it's better not to think of it and do something to spend your time instead, for example (i.e. try to act normally/be more lively). Let's say, I could start talking about how inactive I am regarding DP or I could say practically anything (just to seek attention), but instead of hurting myself or complaining just for the sake of it, I could simply not do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 I almost feel this is directed at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 I can't really get behind that way of thinking. Speaking from past experience, holding in what I was feeling was a terrible idea. I got caught in a rut and the perpetual negativity put me through a vicious cycle. I usually wear my heart on my sleeve. For better and worse, everyone knows what I'm feeling and what mood I'm in when they're around me. And I like to get people's feedback about situations; even if I don't intend on telling all my friends about something, I'll naturally end up doing so after a point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 Hm... Here's an example: Instead of crying over not being active in a specific activity (i.e. overthinking), it's better not to think of it and do something to spend your time instead, for example (i.e. try to act normally/be more lively). I can think of few livelier pastimes than crying, precisely why it's among my favourites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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