Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Can someone help me cure my shyness? I, like others, don't have the guts to go out into the world and socialize. There's this girl I like, and I never really talk to her, because I'm shy. If I keep this way, I'll have to spend Saturday Nights for the rest of my life at home, on YCM.... (Yes I know there's a thread kinda similar to this) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazer Yoshi Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Well, don't be Afraid. If you ask her out, the Worst Thing that can Happen is that she says No, and you guys and stay Regular Friends. I have this crush on someone, and I'm going to tell her with Ease. Plus, I have a whole bunch of Girls as Regular Friends, and we all love to mess around. Plus, I have Male Friends too. Gotta be a dude :lol:Too get rid of your Shyness, do something Silly in Public. Once it's over, you'll Realize it it not too bad to be around people. If you need anything else, let me know :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 What do suggest I do that's silly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazer Yoshi Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Run around with an Afro Wig. Sing REALLY loud, but a Funny Song. Tell Jokes to people to give them a Laugh. I know of this stuff, because I am REALLY social. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 You sound like a chick magnet :D. I don't know any jokes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akira Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 If you're gonna follow Yoshi's advice, sing "Never Gonna Give You Up" By Rick Astley ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skuldur Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 just think "What the Heck" and take a risk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I think, "Am I gonna die from this? No." But it never works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flame Dragon Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Try to find people that share like the same things you like. This will make it easier to to start talking to people. But you really aren't mssing out on much. Most people are stupid. Well' date=' don't be Afraid. If you ask her out, the Worst Thing that can Happen is that she says No, and you guys and stay Regular Friends. [/quote']Wrong. It greatly complicates a relationship and can make things very awkward between the two people if she/he says No. My one friend asked my other friend out. She said no and for about half a year they really just stopped talking. They still aren't talking as much as they did before he said he liked here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazer Yoshi Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 ^ Well, you have to be Friends first FOR A WHILE. Most Girls just stay regular Friends with Dudes that asked them out and Failed around the Area I live. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I'm shy too, and I'm in the same predicament, this girl I like I've also never really talked to, she sits behind be in geometry, she a beautiful red head, man, she even beats Hayley, but still, I don't have the balls to really talk to her. She obviously doesn't like me, but I also don't know what to do. I can also give relationship advice (even though I've only been in one and it lasted a week), I love helping, so give this a try: Walk by her in the halls at school, make sure she notices you noticing her, give her a look (almost passionate, but not too much), or, if she's in any of your classes, and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flame Dragon Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 ^ Well' date=' you have to be Friends first FOR A WHILE. Most Girls just stay regular Friends with Dudes that asked them out and Failed around the Area I live.[/quote']This is the way it is for most cases just1) things will become awkward, even if only a little.2) their are some cases when the friend ship is damaged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferro Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I'm shy too' date=' and I'm in the same predicament, this girl I like I've also never really talked to, she sits behind be in geometry, she a beautiful red head, man, she even beats Hayley, but still, I don't have the balls to really talk to her. She obviously doesn't like me, but I also don't know what to do. I can also give relationship advice ([b']even though I've only been in one and it lasted a week[/b]), I love helping, so give this a try: Walk by her in the halls at school, make sure she notices you noticing her, give her a look (almost passionate, but not too much), or, if she's in any of your classes, and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working. Wtf, and your 16. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flame Dragon Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I'm shy too' date=' and I'm in the same predicament, this girl I like I've also never really talked to, she sits behind be in geometry, she a beautiful red head, man, she even beats Hayley, but still, I don't have the balls to really talk to her. She obviously doesn't like me, but I also don't know what to do. I can also give relationship advice ([b']even though I've only been in one and it lasted a week[/b]), I love helping, so give this a try: Walk by her in the halls at school, make sure she notices you noticing her, give her a look (almost passionate, but not too much), or, if she's in any of your classes, and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working. Wtf, and your 16.I'm 16 and haven't even been in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferro Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Thats kinda sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I'm shy too' date=' and I'm in the same predicament, this girl I like I've also never really talked to, she sits behind be in geometry, she a beautiful red head, man, she even beats Hayley, but still, I don't have the balls to really talk to her. She obviously doesn't like me, but I also don't know what to do. I can also give relationship advice ([b']even though I've only been in one and it lasted a week[/b]), I love helping, so give this a try: Walk by her in the halls at school, make sure she notices you noticing her, give her a look (almost passionate, but not too much), or, if she's in any of your classes, and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working. Wtf, and your 16.I'm 16 and haven't even been in a relationship. Nothing wring with being 16 and not being in that many relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flame Dragon Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Thats kinda sad.Why? I didn't like most of the girls in my middle school, and same holds for moat girls in my high school. The few that I do talk to aren't the kind of person I would want to date. The one person I do "like" is one of my closest friends and I've already said why I wouldn't want to make a move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 if she's in any of your classes' date=' and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working.[/quote'] If I did the paer thing, it would be awkward because I sit in the front and would have to walk to the back to give it to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 if she's in any of your classes' date=' and your teacher asks you to come up front to grab the homework sheet, grab an extra for her. Soon she'll notice you and start talking to you more. This is just a test, I'm working on the same thing I just said, and I hope it's working.[/quote'] If I did the paer thing, it would be awkward because I sit in the front and would have to walk to the back to give it to her. Ahh, yeah, that won't work... Maybe, you can still do it, and then she'll see the extra effort your putting out for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Uh, I don't know, it would be awkward, and my shyness prevents me from doing even the smallest things :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 I have another idea, but you make have to break the shyness shell for this, OK, go to her, ask her an irrelevant question, then walk away, and if she wants to talk to you she'll come to you and if she doesn't, then you know... If you don't like that, I have many more ideas up my sleeve. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Let's see what else you got. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Alright, so you didn't like that... Try this, give her a simple stare, make sure the stare isn't creepy, and when she notices you looking at her, look away briskly... It'll make it look like you're shy to meet her (well, you are, but you get the point), do it several times to get her in the knowing that you like her. Plus, what makes it better, is that you said she sits far behind you, that, my friend, will make it look like you had the extra effort to look at her, as that most girl enjoy being looked at. Did this help? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catman25 Posted November 9, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Kinda When she passes my desk I sometimes look at her briefly, as that what you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FindingTheEverlight Posted November 9, 2008 Report Share Posted November 9, 2008 Well, does she notice you looking at her for that brief moment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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