Beauty is only skin deep...

[Willieh]

I used to think people were just trying to sound philisophical, or ugly, or self-loathing when they told me this. But upon reflection, I've never been told a better thing or more true thing in my life. I don't give a damn how good looking or hot someone is, personality is what I find to be most important. A few months ago, I would have told you the complete opposite; that that's just something ugly people say because they want some self-confidence. But really, your personality is you. If someone's personality is crappy, their looks could never make up for it.

 

So I guess I'll make a discussion out of this. Do you agree or disagree? If you disagree, please elaborate on why. I've yet to actually find a way to make this point of view untrue.

[Abstract [Atrocity]]

I've found that "ugly" people have the best personalities.

The world may shun then, but they hug back.

That's the story for this one girl in my english. She's pretty bad off, but she's never depressed about it.

 

I've also found out, that a lot of the hot girls have something wrong with them >>

they're stuck-up b*tches, rude, materialistic, whatever.

 

I'm not gonna just go and date the ugliest girl alive because she's nicer than anyone else, but what's beauty if they have nothing else good about them?

 

The beautiful people

teh beautiful people

it's all relative to the size of your steeple

can't see the forest for the trees

and you can't smell the sh!t on your knees!

[Willieh]

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I've found that "ugly" people have the best personalities.

The world may shun then' date=' but they hug back.

That's the story for this one girl in my english. She's pretty bad off, but she's never depressed about it.

 

I've also found out, that a lot of the hot girls have something wrong with them >>

they're stuck-up b*tches, rude, materialistic, whatever.

 

I'm not gonna just go and date the ugliest girl alive because she's nicer than anyone else, but what's beauty if they have nothing else good about them?

 

The beautiful people

teh beautiful people

it's all relative to the size of your steeple

can't see the forest for the trees

and you can't smell the sh!t on your knees!

 

Lol I don't even look for sexual attraction in a girl anymore. I've realized that it's basically useless because they all have the same reproductive organ. :P

 

I think that if you're going to be with someone, you should be with someone you want to be around, not someone you want to have sex with.

 

Physical attraction is just kind of an added on bonus. Like buy one get one free or something.

[ragnarok1945]

what you see on the outside doesn't mean it's the same on the inside.

 

That's why I look mainly at personality.

 

Of course I agree, I have never heard of anyone firmly believing inside and outside are exactly the same based on what they see on the outside only

[Guest]

How does it feel to be

One of the beautiful people

Now that you know who you are

What do you want to be

And have you traveled very far

Far as the eye can see

 

How does it feel to be

One of the beautiful people

How often have you been there

Often enough to know

What did you see when you were there

Nothing that doesn't show

[Bakura Vessal]

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I've found that "ugly" people have the best personalities.

The world may shun then' date=' but they hug back.

That's the story for this one girl in my english. She's pretty bad off, but she's never depressed about it.

 

I've also found out, that a lot of the hot girls have something wrong with them >>

they're stuck-up b*tches, rude, materialistic, whatever.

 

I'm not gonna just go and date the ugliest girl alive because she's nicer than anyone else, but what's beauty if they have nothing else good about them?

 

The beautiful people

teh beautiful people

it's all relative to the size of your steeple

can't see the forest for the trees

and you can't smell the sh!t on your knees!

 

Lol I don't even look for sexual attraction in a girl anymore. I've realized that it's basically useless because they all have the same reproductive organ. :P

 

I think that if you're going to be with someone, you should be with someone you want to be around, not someone you want to have sex with.

 

Physical attraction is just kind of an added on bonus. Like buy one get one free or something.

you know, i think your IQ went up by 20 points just today.

 

i agree with what you say.

[Akira]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Saturn of Elemia]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

THANK YOU! Somebody else who gets it!

[Akira]

I've always been the one to disagree, when people at school or wherever say to me "don't you think "x" is hot?", and I'll say "no, she's a materialistic b***". They don't understand why I make that connection between personality and looks, but perhaps that is because they are rampaging hormonal beasts with far less control over their carnal lusts than I...

[Death Metal]

I agree. Innards are beautiful too.

 

Especially the small intestine.

[Pikachu]

I learned this by watching a TV cartton when I was 7 (lucky number XD)

And it showed a boy liking a girl, the girl said 'But I'm ugly'

 

Then the boy took an old apple and said 'It doesn't matter whats on the outside *cuts apple* it's what matters on the inside'

 

It was quite romantic.

[Bakura Vessal]

I agree. Innards are beautiful too.

 

Especially the small intestine.

what bout the rib cage.

 

i think those are pretty smexy

 

and yes beuaty IS skin deep, thats why you get a knife and see the beauty inside

[Larxene]

I agree. Innards are beautiful too.

 

Especially the small intestine.

what bout the rib cage.

 

i think those are pretty smexy

 

and yes beuaty IS skin deep' date=' thats why you get a knife and see the beauty inside

[/quote']

 

So I can resume dismembering Roxas?

 

Yay. <3

[ragnarok1945]

I agree. Innards are beautiful too.

 

Especially the small intestine.

what bout the rib cage.

 

i think those are pretty smexy

 

and yes beuaty IS skin deep' date=' thats why you get a knife and see the beauty inside

[/quote']

 

mental knife, don't kill to see what's inside

[Guest Welche]

I might think somebody is hot, but you might think she is the ugliest person ever. Is she nice or not?

[Mr. Judgment Dragon]

I agree. Innards are beautiful too.

 

Especially the small intestine.

what bout the rib cage.

 

i think those are pretty smexy

 

and yes beuaty IS skin deep' date=' thats why you get a knife and see the beauty inside

[/quote']

 

So I can resume dismembering Roxas?

 

Yay. <3

 

Go ahead. No one's stopping you.

 

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I've found that "ugly" people have the best personalities.

The world may shun then' date=' but they hug back.

That's the story for this one girl in my english. She's pretty bad off, but she's never depressed about it.

 

I've also found out, that a lot of the hot girls have something wrong with them >>

they're stuck-up b*tches, rude, materialistic, whatever.

 

I'm not gonna just go and date the ugliest girl alive because she's nicer than anyone else, but what's beauty if they have nothing else good about them?

 

The beautiful people

teh beautiful people

it's all relative to the size of your steeple

can't see the forest for the trees

and you can't smell the sh!t on your knees!

 

Lol I don't even look for sexual attraction in a girl anymore. I've realized that it's basically useless because they all have the same reproductive organ. :P

 

I think that if you're going to be with someone, you should be with someone you want to be around, not someone you want to have sex with.

 

Physical attraction is just kind of an added on bonus. Like buy one get one free or something.

 

It's all true. Especially the bolded parts.

[Bloodrun]

Beauty is only skin deep. Its affection that goes deeper.

 

Beauty is only the table of which your two glued 2x4's lay upon.

It is affection that which clamps it down.

 

;)

[Luna Diviner]

Despite the fact, I do not want a relationship (for now, at my age it is stupid). I agree with you but the looks can be a bonus.

[ragnarok1945]

I might think somebody is hot' date=' but you might think she is the ugliest person ever. Is she nice or not?

[/quote']

 

That depends on perspective, and what you see on the outside isn't going to matter too much if you find out what's on the inside is bad

[MarbleZone]

Theoretically this is true, and it's easier to spend a long time in a relationship with somebody uglier but deeper than hot but shallow.

 

What actually happens though, is that most people, myself included, are incapable of completely looking past the physical traits. I try much harder to get to know a good-looking girl than an ugly one. And when I do, then yes, I usually find them boring and superficial. But I find myself incapable of not wanting to at least get to know the pretty girls - it's not as indifferent to me as I'd like it to be.

 

Still, like I said, it is true, personality is the most important trait in long relationships. My girlfriend isn't the hottest chick around, but she's awesome - awesome - company.

[ragnarok1945]

I understand that, and if these people truly can't look past the physical traits, then I'm not sure the relationship could work out well

[Felix]

I have to agree with you "beauty is only skin deep". I don't think many people would disagree as a matter of fact. Nevertheless less even if some people agree there is a chance that they don't care. These are the who are looking for a one night stand or a little bit of fun.

 

However no one can deny (unless your aiming really low) that even if some one looks like they've been hit in the face by a poo bat, even if they have the best personality in the world…You wouldn't.

 

On the other hand you could take the meaning of a statement another way. Instead of just seeing it as a 2D, you could say that "No the statement isn't true, it's what's on the inside that's beautiful, not what’s on the outside". See where I’m going with that? Huh huh? I thought it was pretty clever.

 

Sorry about the essay like reply but I new I had some input on the matter.

[ragnarok1945]

yeah but I'm talking about it from a relationship POV, not just like a one night stand.

 

If we talk one night stand like a once in a lifetime chance to meet someone, plenty would not care

[Felix]

I get that, I do, personality does count and relationships wont last long without them. However so does how cute they are, how smart they are, whether or not they have the similiar interests to you. Everything is a factor when it comes to this sort of thing. I mean if your going out with a fugly idiot that has a nice personality are you really going to try and stay together? (Be honest now and don't just try and be Mr. Valiant/ Hero)

[ragnarok1945]

yeah I know personality doesn't play the only factor. I admit the outside appearance has SOME factor to it, but it's lower than people think in a relationship, but that's just me