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ragnarok1945 Newbie

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Look Injection Fairy Lily, from what I see you've been around too many girls who have deliberately tried to take advantage of you, and sadly there are those who simply don't see guys as anything more than just toys to be used for a while then thrown away.

 

For some, when they are older (has to be at least 17) they'll begin to see differently. For now however, I suggest you take a month or so off of them. Get your mind into your sports or something. It certainly helps lifting your depression.

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*shrugs* Sure if that's what you want. Just remember, nothing is ever predictable. I don't want your confidence destroyed if you're heartbroken repeatedly. Yes Bloodrun did say at age 15 you're not old enough to understand all this yet, but if you have your confidence shattered so many times over, that's going to affect you when you're older.

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It's affecting me now =/.

 

And that is why you need a confidence boost. Right now from what I see, it's not really going to matter what kind of a boost it is, not how big of one. I get the impression all you're seeing is disappointment after disappointment. You need something (anything) to go right and that'll get you to change

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1) Did I do anything wrong here? If so, what? Not that I really know of, besides you seeming to keep attempting to converse with the ex in the MySpace Saga where it soon becomes quite obvious it's like attempting to converse with a rapid piranha that's biting on your arm.

2) In this aspect, who is the more mature one?

You, relatively. The girl had a hissie fit because you didn't want to stress out your grieving parents.

3) Is she just toying with my emotions?

Come on, she's been luring you into conversations about her hair on MySpace and then starts randomly cussing profanity, quivers you on a string when you ask if they could be friends or date again then says No. How is she not toying with your emotions?

4) Why is she doing this?

Because she can. That answer was due to lack of understanding on your ex's psychology on my part.

5) Why won’t she talk to me?

Because she hates for no apparent reason.

6) Should I have told the dude that she liked that she liked him?

Sure, why not. Don't really have a reasonable answer for this one.

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Holy f--- I feel for you

 

1) Did I do anything wrong here? If so, what?: You did nothing wrong, if a girl can't accept the fact that you are going through something very personal, then she isn't worth it.

2) In this aspect, who is the more mature one?: You. You arrent the one being a pussy and cussing out other people on MYSPACE!! (P.S. Add me on MySpace, PM me your link xD)

3) Is she just toying with my emotions?: No. She is being a jackass. She can'r accept the fact that you are a better person than her.

4) Why is she doing this? To release her inner anger.

5) Why won’t she talk to me?: She is avoiding you, so nothing further can come of the situation.

6) Should I have told the dude that she liked that she liked him?: No. It would have made things worse.

 

 

I hope I helped

You friend,

Sbamber

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1) Did I do anything wrong here? If so, what?

 

You let your emotions lead your life. This is the biggest mistake anyone can make.

 

2) In this aspect, who is the more mature one?

 

......Dunno.

 

3) Is she just toying with my emotions?

 

Possibly. Girls will do that sometimes.

 

4) Why is she doing this?

 

Cause it is a way to manipulate you. Since you're listening to your emotions she draws you in like a fly to a decaying body.

 

5) Why won’t she talk to me?

 

Who cares.....there are other people. Blow her off and move on.

 

6) Should I have told the dude that she liked that she liked him?

 

Yeah, it makes it eaiser for him to confront her about it.

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Same thing happened to my gf. im 14 years old and shes in love with my best-friend nate. But at the same time she hates him. my friend pity-dated her in like 4th grade and cant get over him. Were going out and it's the same problem. She bites herself and cries at night because of it. but since ive been in her life my natural emotional aura has helped her.

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see at the age of 14 you don't even understand the fact that relationships have down sides to them as well, ans that you have to endure them. Some can be VERY painful to, and for such an age some people simply can't handle it and as a result the relationship falls apart.

 

This is why it works better when you're older. Then when you're married and such, you can handle most obstacles thrown in your way for the relationship

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don't say that. A few of them at my school are straight A students. Not to mention not a single one of them has EVER taken advantage of a guy in a relationship before (though few people have made much of an attempt to start one with them because they thought they were out of their league).

 

Besides, I befriended some of them and the friendship turned out just fine

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don't say that. A few of them at my school are straight A students. Not to mention not a single one of them has EVER taken advantage of a guy in a relationship before (though few people have made much of an attempt to start one with them because they thought they were out of their league).

 

Besides' date=' I befriended some of them and the friendship turned out just fine

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More likly chance cheerleaders are bastards, then non cheerleaders.

 

Now I feel like going depressed over women.

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1) Did I do anything wrong here? If so' date=' what?

[b']2)[/b] In this aspect, who is the more mature one?

3) Is she just toying with my emotions?

4) Why is she doing this?

5) Why won’t she talk to me?

6) Should I have told the dude that she liked that she liked him?

 

1) Yes, you posted a bulletin on myspace....

2) Uh, neither of you.

3) Probably

4) Because she can't handle her emotions(and neither can you)

5) Probably because you hurt her

6) Yes

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Thank's Shanoa.

 

 

See Injection Fairy Lily' date=' I would stop dwelling on her. There's someone for everyone in this world (usually this is true), so just take some time off, then look again when you're ready

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I'm ready nao >_>

 

 

All right if that's what you think, but don't go into another clinical depression if the coin lands the wrong way. This is why I'm suggesting you wait a little

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