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I don't know about that move Glass... This can wind up more like a discussion than a poll.

 

My apologies.

 

I didn't realize that this thread had quite a few discussions; I viewed it as more of a "Yes/No" answer-type thread.

 

Again' date=' sorry.

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Its quite alright...

Now lets see your response to this thread itself ^^.

 

@KoD: Why adopted?

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[align=justify]Eh... Kids are alright, not really caring about "Kids" problem =/ Children means work, work means money, money means spending, etc, etc & the cycle goes on.

 

But yeah maybe in 5 or 6 years time I might think about it -.-

 

The good thing is that my eyes aren't like all Japanese people so the baby might turn out with big eyes like me... well not that big but you get the point right? He might not be that ugly but yeah ugly maybe in the case too =/

 

TOPSONBONG!

 

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I don't know about that move Glass... This can wind up more like a discussion than a poll.

 

My apologies.

 

I didn't realize that this thread had quite a few discussions; I viewed it as more of a "Yes/No" answer-type thread.

 

Again' date=' sorry.

[/quote']

 

Its quite alright...

Now lets see your response to this thread itself ^^.

 

@KoD: Why adopted?

 

My response?

 

Hm.

 

I would say about 2-3 children at most.

 

[supporting the next generation has many rewards for you in the future.]

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I don't know about that move Glass... This can wind up more like a discussion than a poll.

 

My apologies.

 

I didn't realize that this thread had quite a few discussions; I viewed it as more of a "Yes/No" answer-type thread.

 

Again' date=' sorry.

[/quote']

 

Its quite alright...

Now lets see your response to this thread itself ^^.

 

@KoD: Why adopted?

 

My response?

 

Hm.

 

I would say about 2-3 children at most.

 

[supporting the next generation has many rewards for you in the future.]

 

Like Social Security

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't, I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

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If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

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If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

 

I don't care about money.

You don't have a child, just to care about money.

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

 

I don't care about money.

You don't have a child, just to care about money.

[align=justify]

You want your child to get good education, right? You need your child to get good health, right? Good Medical support, right?

 

All that need what? See? When your doing that, that means you love your child because your working for him/her. Your not working for the money, but for your children, not for yourself either. ._.[/align]

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

 

I don't care about money.

You don't have a child, just to care about money.

[align=justify]

You want your child to get good education, right? You need your child to get good health, right? Good Medical support, right?

 

All that need what? See? When your doing that, that means you love your child because your working for him/her. Your not working for the money, but for your children, not for yourself either. ._.[/align]

 

Of course you'll need money to get the things.

But its not about money.

It's about brining a human being, a living human being into the world. Who will love you uncondiontionally, and though at times, he/she will scream I hate you, and I wish you were dead. You know your doing it for them.

It's about waking up in the morning, and know you did something special.

It's going to bed at night, and knowing you tried you best.

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

 

I don't care about money.

You don't have a child, just to care about money.

[align=justify]

You want your child to get good education, right? You need your child to get good health, right? Good Medical support, right?

 

All that need what? See? When your doing that, that means you love your child because your working for him/her. Your not working for the money, but for your children, not for yourself either. ._.[/align]

 

Of course you'll need money to get the things.

But its not about money.

It's about brining a human being, a living human being into the world. Who will love you uncondiontionally, and though at times, he/she will scream I hate you, and I wish you were dead. You know your doing it for them.

It's about waking up in the morning, and know you did something special.

It's going to bed at night, and knowing you tried you best.

 

Money isn't a big issue for kids, also Not all girls cost lot of money.

Anyway both of you are right in some ways, if you have kids you mostly start living for them instead of yourself, but money doesn't really have to do much with kids. Sure, some money is always nice but the most important thing is to be a good parent not a rich parent. People who want kids should really consider if they would be good parents because being rich doesn't make you a good parent at all, just look at all those rich people.

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Yes.. actually I have.

 

I want a baby girl..

and I want her to stay my baby girl.

I wouldn't want to lose her. =/

But I don't' date=' I think I would be a horrible father, especially for a girl. I think I would to over protected.

I also know a lot of people whose baby girls have died before graduating high school, and or even getting to school.

 

... yeah um I think I'll stop now..

[/quote']

 

If you want a girl then you have to get a really good job that could give you a lot of money. Because most girls just copy each other & spend, spend, spend, etc, etc.

 

That's what I hate about people.

It's not about money! Even though everyone seems to think it is.

Life is not about money, not one single bit!

 

[align=justify]That's the fact, I'm not really caring about the money, but that's what girls do, if they see each other they have to copy stuff, they have to get newer stuff.

 

If your child studies a lot & just take's what she's got then yes your fine, the money is not your problem then =/.[/align]

 

I don't care about money.

You don't have a child, just to care about money.

[align=justify]

You want your child to get good education, right? You need your child to get good health, right? Good Medical support, right?

 

All that need what? See? When your doing that, that means you love your child because your working for him/her. Your not working for the money, but for your children, not for yourself either. ._.[/align]

 

Of course you'll need money to get the things.

But its not about money.

It's about brining a human being, a living human being into the world. Who will love you uncondiontionally, and though at times, he/she will scream I hate you, and I wish you were dead. You know your doing it for them.

It's about waking up in the morning, and know you did something special.

It's going to bed at night, and knowing you tried you best.

 

Money isn't a big issue for kids, also Not all girls cost lot of money.

Anyway both of you are right in some ways, if you have kids you mostly start living for them instead of yourself, but money doesn't really have to do much with kids. Sure, some money is always nice but the most important thing is to be a good parent not a rich parent. People who want kids should really consider if they would be good parents because being rich doesn't make you a good parent at all, just look at all those rich people.

 

Exactly.

That's all that really needs to be said..

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In country where i live, Croatia, there is lot of money support from country if u have kids...

1 kid == 100$ per month

2 kids == 180$ per month

3 kids == 250$ per month

etc...

 

There are even villages where everyone have lot of kids and they are all rich because they get lot of money support from country so they use it...;)

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In country where i live' date=' Croatia, there is lot of money support from country if u have kids...

1 kid == 100$ per month

2 kids == 180$ per month

3 kids == 250$ per month

etc...

 

There are even villages where everyone have lot of kids and they are all rich because they get lot of money support from country so they use it...;)

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Isn't croatia the country that was used in the movie "The Terminal"?

Good movie that was =D

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A kid would be a good experience for me, but i for now i know i'm not ready. Also, with a boy i would act the same way my father acts with me, and i don't like to act like my father. And having a girl... well, i can be overprotective and if something happen i can become angry. Is hard to me to become angry but if i am, then i become very aggressive, and i would feel bad if i broke a kid's arm because he thrown some sand to my daugther's face, for example.

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I have thought about it.

 

I don't know about it. It might conflict with my work and concentration.

I will have to think about it more deeply, though.

I don't know about kids. I might like to have one. I wouldn't like to have one myself, personally of course. ^_^

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