Official Relationships Thread

[Kitty]

Well' date=' Faint. You should get a girlfriend. :3

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It's not that simple, otherwise I would..

 

if i may improvise

1. Be like Princey or steal his identity that'll get you a girl, be his twin =D

2. get lotsa muscles, and walk around buff

3. hypnosis works too

[harhar]

How much more simple can it get? Find a decent looking girl' date=' go talk to her, and if you hit it off, ask her out.[/b'] /simple

 

When has it ever been that simple?

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It's easy to talk the talk but it's harder to walk the walk.

[Kitty]

^ yeah Harhary has a point.

To many Chicks now-a-days are either ugly, whores, nerdy/weird, or taken.

[OMGAKITTY]

^ yeah Harhary has a point.

To many Chicks now-a-days are either ugly' date=' whores, nerdy/weird, or taken.

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That wasn't his point.

[Brushfire]

Hunter, please don't be an idiot. It doesn't take a genius to realise my luck with girls thus far has been... sh*t. I mean, even take Icy's word for it.

 

Guys, seriously stop posting stupid suggestions like hypnoses and stealing ID's and take this thread seriously. I shouldn't have to be the one modding this thread.

Haris, you have the best point so far. It's pretty hard to find someone that won't judge you by either:

a) your looks

b) your first impressions personality

c) what everyone else thinks of you.

 

Which are the main reasons I haven't had any luck, more then likely. :\

[Kitty]

Hunter' date=' please don't be an idiot. It doesn't take a genius to realise my luck with girls thus far has been... sh*t. I mean, even take Icy's word for it.

 

Guys, seriously stop posting stupid suggestions like hypnoses and stealing ID's and take this thread seriously. I shouldn't have to be the one modding this thread.

Haris, you have the best point so far. It's pretty hard to find someone that won't judge you by either:

a) your looks

b) your first impressions personality

c) what everyone else thinks of you.

 

Which are the main reasons I haven't had any luck, more then likely. :\

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and because you aren't trying, getting a girl ain't easy except for Princey it's easy for him (only cuz of da looks >.> it's sexy). But if you try to talk with girls, be their friends, get to know them, then start a relationship, it's a timed process

[Huntar!]

When has it ever been that simple?

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It's easy to talk the talk but it's harder to walk the walk.

 

Maybe for you' date=' man. =/

 

Hunter, please don't be an idiot. It doesn't take a genius to realise my luck with girls thus far has been... sh*t. I mean, even take Icy's word for it.

 

Guys, seriously stop posting stupid suggestions like hypnoses and stealing ID's and take this thread seriously. I shouldn't have to be the one modding this thread.

Haris, you have the best point so far. It's pretty hard to find someone that won't judge you by either:

a) your looks

b) your first impressions personality

c) what everyone else thinks of you.

 

Which are the main reasons I haven't had any luck, more then likely. :\

 

Hold your horses, fine sir.

 

Luck has nothing to do with it, any of it. It takes confidence and the ambition to actually go up and do it.

 

These guys do need to take this thread seriously, but its talking people's feelings on an internet forum, what else can you expect?

 

And that means that if you get those three down-pact, you'll be in. =/

 

Girls are easy to figure out, to an extent. But once you do, they're a pain in the ass.

[OMGAKITTY]

When has it ever been that simple?

=\

It's easy to talk the talk but it's harder to walk the walk.

 

Maybe for you' date=' man. =/

 

Hunter, please don't be an idiot. It doesn't take a genius to realise my luck with girls thus far has been... sh*t. I mean, even take Icy's word for it.

 

Guys, seriously stop posting stupid suggestions like hypnoses and stealing ID's and take this thread seriously. I shouldn't have to be the one modding this thread.

Haris, you have the best point so far. It's pretty hard to find someone that won't judge you by either:

a) your looks

b) your first impressions personality

c) what everyone else thinks of you.

 

Which are the main reasons I haven't had any luck, more then likely. :\

 

Hold your horses, fine sir.

 

Luck has nothing to do with it, any of it. It takes confidence and the ambition to actually go up and do it.

 

These guys do need to take this thread seriously, but its talking people's feelings on an internet forum, what else can you expect?

 

And that means that if you get those three down-pact, you'll be in. =/

 

Girls are easy to figure out, to an extent. But once you do, they're a pain in the ass.

 

If girls are so easy to figure out, why have you gone through 3 breakups since this thread's creation?

[Brushfire]

and because you aren't trying' date=' getting a girl ain't easy except for Princey it's easy for him (only cuz of da looks >.> it's sexy). But if you try to talk with girls, be their friends, get to know them, then start a relationship, it's a timed process

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I'm not trying? Well, let me explain to you what happened last time I met a girl that I liked.

 

I started talking to her, and we became good friends pretty easily. If I recall, we became really good friends in 2 days, and within a week I was her best friend. A few months later, I started developing more feelings for her, and even though I didn't think anything of all the boys she had been out with in the past, it started to bug me more and more. Eventually, I told her how I felt, and she reacted in a way that hurt me and made me feel better about myself. She said that I could do alot better then her (although I did, and still do, disbelieve her), and that she used to like me but she likes one of my best mates. Kinda like being given up and then being stabbed, really. Anyway, after the months that followed, my 'friends' starting talking to her about me, and one of them got it into her head that I was 'obsessed with her'. I didn't know this until recently, but this caused alot of random arguments between us that I had no idea what they were actually about. Icy knows about the last few of these. Anyway, she had a huge go at me and vented all her frustration not to me, but AT me. I had warned her not to do this so many times, her hurting me again and I had had enough. I didn't even 'love' her anymore, and hadn't for a while, but because of my 'friends' she always feels uncomfortable around me apparently, and has since around when I told her I liked her. I haven't spoken to her since.

 

/rant, don't expect it to happen again btw.

[Kitty]

Girls are easy to figure out, to an extent. But once you do, they're a pain in the ass.

 

I take this in offense.. not all girls are a pain in the ass... only the whorey ones... >.>

and girls aren't so easy to figure out, only the whores who want one thing only, and you guys know what that means, if not i won't explain. Brushfire you have to try Princey is right, what if you get those 3 things covered? And what if girls still won't go with you? What then?

[OMGAKITTY]

and because you aren't trying' date=' getting a girl ain't easy except for Princey it's easy for him (only cuz of da looks >.> it's sexy). But if you try to talk with girls, be their friends, get to know them, then start a relationship, it's a timed process

[/quote']

 

I'm not trying? Well, let me explain to you what happened last time I met a girl that I liked.

 

I started talking to her, and we became good friends pretty easily. If I recall, we became really good friends in 2 days, and within a week I was her best friend. A few months later, I started developing more feelings for her, and even though I didn't think anything of all the boys she had been out with in the past, it started to bug me more and more. Eventually, I told her how I felt, and she reacted in a way that hurt me and made me feel better about myself. She said that I could do alot better then her (although I did, and still do, disbelieve her), and that she used to like me but she likes one of my best mates. Kinda like being given up and then being stabbed, really. Anyway, after the months that followed, my 'friends' starting talking to her about me, and one of them got it into her head that I was 'obsessed with her'. I didn't know this until recently, but this caused alot of random arguments between us that I had no idea what they were actually about. Icy knows about the last few of these. Anyway, she had a huge go at me and vented all her frustration not to me, but AT me. I had warned her not to do this so many times, her hurting me again and I had had enough. I didn't in 'love' her anymore, and hadn't for a while, but because of my 'friends' she always feels uncomfortable around me apparently, and has since around when I told her I liked her. I haven't spoken to her since.

 

/rant, don't expect it to happen again btw.

 

So you pretty much got owned by the friend zone. Sucks man.

[Kitty]

and because you aren't trying' date=' getting a girl ain't easy except for Princey it's easy for him (only cuz of da looks >.> it's sexy). But if you try to talk with girls, be their friends, get to know them, then start a relationship, it's a timed process

[/quote']

 

I'm not trying? Well, let me explain to you what happened last time I met a girl that I liked.

 

I started talking to her, and we became good friends pretty easily. If I recall, we became really good friends in 2 days, and within a week I was her best friend. A few months later, I started developing more feelings for her, and even though I didn't think anything of all the boys she had been out with in the past, it started to bug me more and more. Eventually, I told her how I felt, and she reacted in a way that hurt me and made me feel better about myself. She said that I could do alot better then her (although I did, and still do, disbelieve her), and that she used to like me but she likes one of my best mates. Kinda like being given up and then being stabbed, really. Anyway, after the months that followed, my 'friends' starting talking to her about me, and one of them got it into her head that I was 'obsessed with her'. I didn't know this until recently, but this caused alot of random arguments between us that I had no idea what they were actually about. Icy knows about the last few of these. Anyway, she had a huge go at me and vented all her frustration not to me, but AT me. I had warned her not to do this so many times, her hurting me again and I had had enough. I didn't in 'love' her anymore, and hadn't for a while, but because of my 'friends' she always feels uncomfortable around me apparently, and has since around when I told her I liked her. I haven't spoken to her since.

 

/rant, don't expect it to happen again btw.

 

my bad. Wow girls have alot of problems =/ I never understood girls, and I'm one of them.

 

It seems to me that your friends need to be straightened out, mine have done that so many times that they practically got every boy to reject me, trust me it only takes you one time to get mad at your friends and they'll stop it. But She was wrong for venting at you, and your friends were wrong to use the "yeah brushfires so obsessed with you" trick.

[Huntar!]

If girls are so easy to figure out' date=' why have you gone through 3 breakups since this thread's creation?

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I can't remember 3 breakups since this thread's creation. o.o

Note why I said "to an extent"

 

 

A few months later' date=' I started developing more feelings for her, and even though I didn't think anything of all the boys she had been out with in the past, it started to bug me more and more. She said that I could do alot better then her (although I did, and still do, disbelieve her), and that she used to like me but she likes one of my best mates. Kinda like being given up and then being stabbed, really. Anyway, after the months that followed, my 'friends' starting talking to her about me, and one of them got it into her head that I was 'obsessed with her'. I didn't know this until recently, but this caused alot of random arguments between us that I had no idea what they were actually about. Anyway, she had a huge go at me and vented all her frustration not to me, but AT me. I had warned her not to do this so many times, her hurting me again and I had had enough. I didn't in 'love' her anymore, and hadn't for a while, but because of my 'friends' she always feels uncomfortable around me apparently, and has since around when I told her I liked her. I haven't spoken to her since.

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Ouch. That hurt. What did I tell you about venting to Josh about relationship problems? I thought you would've learned your lessons.

 

But honestly, after that it could never work out. Especially once your friends said that (I'd flip the funk out). Move on, mate. And make it more obvious you like a girl, and dont wait so long to make a move.

[Kitty]

If girls are so easy to figure out' date=' why have you gone through 3 breakups since this thread's creation?

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I can't remember 3 breakups since this thread's creation. o.o

Note why I said "to an extent"

 

 

A few months later' date=' I started developing more feelings for her, and even though I didn't think anything of all the boys she had been out with in the past, it started to bug me more and more. She said that I could do alot better then her (although I did, and still do, disbelieve her), and that she used to like me but she likes one of my best mates. Kinda like being given up and then being stabbed, really. Anyway, after the months that followed, my 'friends' starting talking to her about me, and one of them got it into her head that I was 'obsessed with her'. I didn't know this until recently, but this caused alot of random arguments between us that I had no idea what they were actually about. Anyway, she had a huge go at me and vented all her frustration not to me, but AT me. I had warned her not to do this so many times, her hurting me again and I had had enough. I didn't in 'love' her anymore, and hadn't for a while, but because of my 'friends' she always feels uncomfortable around me apparently, and has since around when I told her I liked her. I haven't spoken to her since.

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Ouch. That hurt. What did I tell you about venting to Josh about relationship problems? I thought you would've learned your lessons.

 

But honestly, after that it could never work out. Especially once your friends said that (I'd flip the f*** out). Move on, mate. And make it more obvious you like a girl, and dont wait so long to make a move.

 

 

um is that bad? I do that all the time =o

well i talk to him >.<

 

and yes Brushfire move on, put the past behind you

Hakuna Matata buddy =3

[Brushfire]

my bad. Wow girls have alot of problems =/ I never understood girls' date=' and I'm one of them.

 

It seems to me that your friends need to be straightened out, mine have done that so many times that they practically got every boy to reject me, trust me it only takes you one time to get mad at your friends and they'll stop it. But She was wrong for venting at you, and your friends were wrong to use the "yeah brushfires so obsessed with you" trick.

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I think her problems and me helping her with them was the main reason we ended up get so close at one point.

 

It's a bit late for that now, it was so long ago that I told her and even though it was fairly recent (2 weeks ago) that I was told about one of them telling her that, I don't think it's really fair that I do that. Plus... my group is the kind of, 'if you don't like one of us in the group, then you're not in it' kind of thing. Because they'll all go out and hang around together, and if I don't come out because I don't like one of them, then they just won't ask me and I'll be the one losing friends over it. I don't want to risk that just because of her, she's just not worth it the stupid whore. Also, this sounds so spiteful but she's hurt me alot too with her bs, but she likes this guy who had sex and hurt his last girlfriend so if she gets hurt by him then I won't be there for her. She'll have to live with the pain without my help, and then we'll see how much she regrets hurting me.

 

Ouch. That hurt. What did I tell you about venting to Josh about relationship problems? I thought you would've learned your lessons.

 

But honestly' date=' after that it could never work out. Especially once your friends said that (I'd flip the f*** out). Move on, mate. And make it more obvious you like a girl, and dont wait so long to make a move.

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Lol, in my opinion Josh made most things worse then he did better with his interfering. He told her things that he refused to tell me and I still don't know what they were.

 

Yeah, it's not going to work out anymore. I'm not even friends with her now and I don't want to be. I've moved on, but damn, I don't know if there's anyone else I know that I'd even consider. Pretty much everyone in my year are either total slags (70%), bastards (10%), not single (15%) or the small group of nerds that I avoid (5%).

[harhar]

When has it ever been that simple?

=\

It's easy to talk the talk but it's harder to walk the walk.

 

Maybe for you' date=' man. =/

 

Hunter, please don't be an idiot. It doesn't take a genius to realise my luck with girls thus far has been... sh*t. I mean, even take Icy's word for it.

 

Guys, seriously stop posting stupid suggestions like hypnoses and stealing ID's and take this thread seriously. I shouldn't have to be the one modding this thread.

Haris, you have the best point so far. It's pretty hard to find someone that won't judge you by either:

a) your looks

b) your first impressions personality

c) what everyone else thinks of you.

 

Which are the main reasons I haven't had any luck, more then likely. :\

 

Hold your horses, fine sir.

 

Luck has nothing to do with it, any of it. It takes confidence and the ambition to actually go up and do it.

 

These guys do need to take this thread seriously, but its talking people's feelings on an internet forum, what else can you expect?

 

And that means that if you get those three down-pact, you'll be in. =/

 

Girls are easy to figure out, to an extent. But once you do, they're a pain in the ass.

 

If girls are so easy to figure out, why have you gone through 3 breakups since this thread's creation?

 

I'll answer this one.

Hunter has girls figured out already, he knows how they think and react to the things he does.

He didn't break up with 3 girls, he was merely "experimenting".

Dont worry, next week he'll come up with a formula that will get him some beauts.

[Huntar!]

It's a bit late for that now' date=' it was so long ago that I told her and even though it was fairly recent (2 weeks ago) that I was told about one of them telling her that, I don't think it's really fair that I do that. Plus... my group is the kind of, 'if you don't like one of us in the group, then you're not in it' kind of thing. Because they'll all go out and hang around together, and if I don't come out because I don't like one of them, then they just won't ask me and I'll be the one losing friends over it. [b']I don't want to risk that just because of her, she's just not worth it the stupid whore. [/b]Also, this sounds so spiteful but she's hurt me alot too with her bs, but she likes this guy who had sex and hurt his last girlfriend so if she gets hurt by him then I won't be there for her. She'll have to live with the pain without my help, and then we'll see how much she regrets hurting me.

 

<3

 

I'll answer this one.

Hunter has girls figured out already' date=' he knows how they think and react to the things he does.

He didn't break up with 3 girls, he was merely "experimenting".

Dont worry, next week he'll come up with a formula that will get him some beauts.

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I was expirimenting. I now know everything, not "what to do" but everything "what not to do" when it comes to girls. I'll figure it out soon enough. xD

[Kitty]

my bad. Wow girls have alot of problems =/ I never understood girls' date=' and I'm one of them.

 

It seems to me that your friends need to be straightened out, mine have done that so many times that they practically got every boy to reject me, trust me it only takes you one time to get mad at your friends and they'll stop it. But She was wrong for venting at you, and your friends were wrong to use the "yeah brushfires so obsessed with you" trick.

[/quote']

 

I think her problems and me helping her with them was the main reason we ended up get so close at one point.

 

It's a bit late for that now, it was so long ago that I told her and even though it was fairly recent (2 weeks ago) that I was told about one of them telling her that, I don't think it's really fair that I do that. Plus... my group is the kind of, 'if you don't like one of us in the group, then you're not in it' kind of thing. Because they'll all go out and hang around together, and if I don't come out because I don't like one of them, then they just won't ask me and I'll be the one losing friends over it. I don't want to risk that just because of her, she's just not worth it the stupid whore. Also, this sounds so spiteful but she's hurt me alot too with her bs, but she likes this guy who had sex and hurt his last girlfriend so if she gets hurt by him then I won't be there for her. She'll have to live with the pain without my help, and then we'll see how much she regrets hurting me.

 

No just no Brushfire, letme tell you this, NEVER let your friends manipulate you, i learned that. What if one day you find a girl that you really really really like and your friends don't approve? What are you gonna do? Hmm? Are you gonna ignore your emotions? Will you listen to your friends? I'll tell you, the answer is no, if it's real enough your friends won't matter. Example: My friends don't want anything to do with me cause of my relationship but I don't care I love him and if they don't like it then they aren't friends. Ya see you can't rely on friends to make desicions for you. Because when it comes down to friends or your lover. Love will prevail

 

But if she's that Whorey then you shouldn't have ended up with her to start with. >.<

[Brushfire]

No just no Brushfire' date=' letme tell you this, NEVER let your friends manipulate you, i learned that. What if one day you find a girl that you really really really like and your friends don't approve? What are you gonna do? Hmm? Are you gonna ignore your emotions? Will you listen to your friends? I'll tell you, the answer is no, if it's real enough your friends won't matter. Example: My friends don't want anything to do with me cause of my relationship but I don't care I love him and if they don't like it then they aren't friends. Ya see you can't rely on friends to make desicions for you. Because when it comes down to friends or your lover. Love will prevail

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You missed my point. If that time comes, then I'll ditch my friends for the girl. Right now, I'm not risking losing my friends and then having no-one at all. It's just not worth me chucking my social life out the window for that- because I need it. Unlike most people on here I NEED to go out and hang out with my friends at least once a day.

 

I was expirimenting. I now know everything' date=' not "what to do" but everything "what not to do" when it comes to girls. I'll figure it out soon enough. xD

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One day you'll realise that not all girls have the same personality, and then you'll be funked. And there I'll be here to laugh and say I told you so.

[.Frostpaw]

No just no Brushfire' date=' letme tell you this, NEVER let your friends manipulate you, i learned that. What if one day you find a girl that you really really really like and your friends don't approve? What are you gonna do? Hmm? Are you gonna ignore your emotions? Will you listen to your friends? I'll tell you, the answer is no, if it's real enough your friends won't matter. Example: My friends don't want anything to do with me cause of my relationship but I don't care I love him and if they don't like it then they aren't friends. Ya see you can't rely on friends to make desicions for you. Because when it comes down to friends or your lover. Love will prevail

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That's one of the best pieces of wisdom that I've read on YCM. Oh, and I'm sure that if my friends had ever met the girl I like, they'd try to get her to hate me.

[Huntar!]

Ouch. That hurt. What did I tell you about venting to Josh about relationship problems? I thought you would've learned your lessons.

 

Lol' date=' in my opinion Josh made most things worse then he did better with his interfering. He told her things that he refused to tell me and I still don't know what they were.

 

Yeah, it's not going to work out anymore. I'm not even friends with her now and I don't want to be. I've moved on, but damn, I don't know if there's anyone else I know that I'd even consider. Pretty much everyone in my year are either total slags (70%), b****es (10%), not single (15%) or the small group of nerds that I avoid (5%).

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Thats why you should've learned it. Lol

 

slags?

[Brushfire]

Thats why you should've learned it. Lol

 

slags?

 

And I did.

 

Sluts.

[Kitty]

It's a bit late for that now' date=' it was so long ago that I told her and even though it was fairly recent (2 weeks ago) that I was told about one of them telling her that, I don't think it's really fair that I do that. Plus... my group is the kind of, 'if you don't like one of us in the group, then you're not in it' kind of thing. Because they'll all go out and hang around together, and if I don't come out because I don't like one of them, then they just won't ask me and I'll be the one losing friends over it. [b']I don't want to risk that just because of her, she's just not worth it the stupid whore. [/b]Also, this sounds so spiteful but she's hurt me alot too with her bs, but she likes this guy who had sex and hurt his last girlfriend so if she gets hurt by him then I won't be there for her. She'll have to live with the pain without my help, and then we'll see how much she regrets hurting me.

 

<3

 

I'll answer this one.

Hunter has girls figured out already' date=' he knows how they think and react to the things he does.

He didn't break up with 3 girls, he was merely "experimenting".

Dont worry, next week he'll come up with a formula that will get him some beauts.

[/quote']

 

I was expirimenting. I now know everything, not "what to do" but everything "what not to do" when it comes to girls. I'll figure it out soon enough. xD

 

 

Leason 1 How to have a good relationship:

 

Talk. Communication is key. If you are afraid to talk to the girl that you're dating, or if you'd rather do something else, you need to set some priorities. Ask her how her day was. You want her to listen to you in regards to concerns over your peers, it's only fair if you listen to her do the same.

 

People love talking about themselves. Ask her about her dreams and hopes. It will make her feel like you care about her. Always ask her about school and her day as well.

 

Don't lie! If you need to go to sleep or the bathroom, and you're on the phone, tell her! If you are too embarrassed to say you need to use the restroom, how will you ever be close? You can tell your friend you need to go to the toilet so it should be the same for your girlfriend.

Try to avoid asking lots of questions about where they were/what they were doing. If they say "Be right back, I gotta go do something", it's usually best not to ask what they were doing, as it can make a girl feel annoyed.

 

Think before you speak! Try to keep things very very positive. If she's complaining about life, don't agree. Tell her she rocks and support her.

 

Compliments are excellent, but know that you should stop at the point where you're just listening to yourself talk. Girls know when you're sincere and when you're just blowing hot air. But, compliments never hurt anyone.

 

Nobody can write the definitive guide on dating! You need to experiment for yourself! Remember, romance is not always an easy thing.

 

Listen to what she has to say and pay attention.

 

Above all, take care of yourself. Keep your daily and lifelong goals in sight. Nothing turns off a woman faster than a man who chooses to accomplish nothing, even if all his attention is directed toward her.

 

Don't be obsessive. Give her some room.

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No just no Brushfire' date=' letme tell you this, NEVER let your friends manipulate you, i learned that. What if one day you find a girl that you really really really like and your friends don't approve? What are you gonna do? Hmm? Are you gonna ignore your emotions? Will you listen to your friends? I'll tell you, the answer is no, if it's real enough your friends won't matter. Example: My friends don't want anything to do with me cause of my relationship but I don't care I love him and if they don't like it then they aren't friends. Ya see you can't rely on friends to make desicions for you. Because when it comes down to friends or your lover. Love will prevail

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You missed my point. If that time comes, then I'll ditch my friends for the girl. Right now, I'm not risking losing my friends and then having no-one at all. It's just not worth me chucking my social life out the window for that- because I need it. Unlike most people on here I NEED to go out and hang out with my friends at least once a day.

 

I was expirimenting. I now know everything' date=' not "what to do" but everything "what not to do" when it comes to girls. I'll figure it out soon enough. xD

[/quote']

 

One day you'll realise that not all girls have the same personality, and then you'll be f***ed. And there I'll be here to laugh and say I told you so.

 

You missed my Addition, but yeah i get it now. I'm 15 and already piss my friends off for my b/f. He did hit one of my friends (a girl) on the arm for hitting me in my back.

[.Frostpaw]

It's a bit late for that now' date=' it was so long ago that I told her and even though it was fairly recent (2 weeks ago) that I was told about one of them telling her that, I don't think it's really fair that I do that. Plus... my group is the kind of, 'if you don't like one of us in the group, then you're not in it' kind of thing. Because they'll all go out and hang around together, and if I don't come out because I don't like one of them, then they just won't ask me and I'll be the one losing friends over it. [b']I don't want to risk that just because of her, she's just not worth it the stupid whore. [/b]Also, this sounds so spiteful but she's hurt me alot too with her bs, but she likes this guy who had sex and hurt his last girlfriend so if she gets hurt by him then I won't be there for her. She'll have to live with the pain without my help, and then we'll see how much she regrets hurting me.

 

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I'll answer this one.

Hunter has girls figured out already' date=' he knows how they think and react to the things he does.

He didn't break up with 3 girls, he was merely "experimenting".

Dont worry, next week he'll come up with a formula that will get him some beauts.

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I was expirimenting. I now know everything, not "what to do" but everything "what not to do" when it comes to girls. I'll figure it out soon enough. xD

 

 

Leason 1 How to have a good relationship:

 

Talk. Communication is key. If you are afraid to talk to the girl that you're dating, or if you'd rather do something else, you need to set some priorities. Ask her how her day was. You want her to listen to you in regards to concerns over your peers, it's only fair if you listen to her do the same.

 

People love talking about themselves. Ask her about her dreams and hopes. It will make her feel like you care about her. Always ask her about school and her day as well.

 

Don't lie! If you need to go to sleep or the bathroom, and you're on the phone, tell her! If you are too embarrassed to say you need to use the restroom, how will you ever be close? You can tell your friend you need to go to the toilet so it should be the same for your girlfriend.

Try to avoid asking lots of questions about where they were/what they were doing. If they say "Be right back, I gotta go do something", it's usually best not to ask what they were doing, as it can make a girl feel annoyed.

 

Think before you speak! Try to keep things very very positive. If she's complaining about life, don't agree. Tell her she rocks and support her.

 

Compliments are excellent, but know that you should stop at the point where you're just listening to yourself talk. Girls know when you're sincere and when you're just blowing hot air. But, compliments never hurt anyone.

 

Nobody can write the definitive guide on dating! You need to experiment for yourself! Remember, romance is not always an easy thing.

 

Listen to what she has to say and pay attention.

 

Above all, take care of yourself. Keep your daily and lifelong goals in sight. Nothing turns off a woman faster than a man who chooses to accomplish nothing, even if all his attention is directed toward her.

 

Don't be obsessive. Give her some room.

 

Kitty, you are a genius. Lol, I could give the girl I like some room, but I'm not sure she'd ever be able to give me any room. I think that it's cute when she follows me around, but it gets creepy after awhile. Also, if you were watching her follow me, it would almost seem like she's stalking me.

[Huntar!]

Sluts are fun, but they can break your heart. Go after one, see how it works.

 

Leason 1 How to have a good relationship:

 

Talk. Communication is key. If you are afraid to talk to the girl that you're dating' date=' or if you'd rather do something else, you need to set some priorities. Ask her how her day was. You want her to listen to you in regards to concerns over your peers, it's only fair if you listen to her do the same.

 

Don't lie! If you need to go to sleep or the bathroom, and you're on the phone, tell her! If you are too embarrassed to say you need to use the restroom, how will you ever be close? You can tell your friend you need to go to the toilet so it should be the same for your girlfriend.

Try to avoid asking lots of questions about where they were/what they were doing. If they say "Be right back, I gotta go do something", it's usually best not to ask what they were doing, as it can make a girl feel annoyed.

 

Compliments are excellent, but know that you should stop at the point where you're just listening to yourself talk. Girls know when you're sincere and when you're just blowing hot air. But, compliments never hurt anyone.

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I always give compliments. Alot of them. :3

 

Lying is one thing that really pisses me off. Especially when you both promise not to lie and then she breaks the damn promise. *calms down*

 

Communication is important. Without that, your relationship is doomed.