Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 I dont get it' date=' raiN.She went with the other guy instead, why do you still want to be with her?Aren't you afraid that if she does come around to you that she'll find some other guy later and choose him over you?[/quote'] I actually really like her, and she's already finding herself rethinking her decision and stuff. So no, I'm not worried about that. I mean, to me, it's worth the wait. Thing is' date=' you don't want her thinking she's too special, people like that then become unattainable. [/quote'] Never would I do that. I'm not going to treat her as if she is a goddess, but compliments are the way to a girl's heart, bro. ;D That and chocolate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 I dont get it' date=' raiN.She went with the other guy instead, why do you still want to be with her?Aren't you afraid that if she does come around to you that she'll find some other guy later and choose him over you?[/quote'] I actually really like her, and she's already finding herself rethinking her decision and stuff. So no, I'm not worried about that. I mean, to me, it's worth the wait. Thing is' date=' you don't want her thinking she's too special, people like that then become unattainable. [/quote'] Never would I do that. I'm not going to treat her as if she is a goddess, but compliments are the way to a girl's heart, bro. ;D That and chocolate. i lol'd But girls love it when you spoil them to death. My b/f is always sucking up to me, because he wants to. the only way to truely make a girl happy is to, like you said compliments and baby them x3And I should know. I get babied all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Thing is' date=' you don't want her thinking she's too special, people like that then become unattainable. [/quote'] Never would I do that. I'm not going to treat her as if she is a goddess, but compliments are the way to a girl's heart, bro. ;D That and chocolate. But you see, an abrasive compliment is even better; "OMFG, stop being so fit all the time!! It hurts my eyes DX" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huntar! Posted October 11, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 So basically, raiN, you're the back-up guy? Thats never good for a relationship. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 "I'm going to fall back on you if the first guy doesn't work out", that's basically what she said to you. You should have said, "Are you kidding me? I'm way more awesome than he is!!". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision, and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Girls do not get slack, they take advantage of it and use it as a weapon for control. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Thing is' date=' you don't want her thinking she's too special, people like that then become unattainable. [/quote'] Never would I do that. I'm not going to treat her as if she is a goddess, but compliments are the way to a girl's heart, bro. ;D That and chocolate. But you see, an abrasive compliment is even better; "OMFG, stop being so fit all the time!! It hurts my eyes DX" I lol'd. ;D So basically' date=' raiN, you're the back-up guy? Thats never good for a relationship. :/[/quote'] Somewhat. She's liked me for awhile, but she and this guy have been talking for about a month or so. She doesn't want to feel like she led him on or anything and she's wondering if maybe she'll really hit it off with him. I mean, I don't really blame her. ;/ She isn't totally using me as a back up, either. She's already rethinking her decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huntar! Posted October 11, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. Hunter's got the right idea ;D +1 for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. I'd rather be someone who has a chance at a steady relationship than be the man-whore who switches from girl-to-girl every few days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. *sigh* Touchie aren't we.I was saying that she rethinks it. And she may want Rain more. And now i see why you can't get a girl Hunter. =/ You're going about it in a jerkish way TBH Girls do not get slack' date=' they take advantage of it and use it as a weapon for control.[/quote'] Some of them do. Not all of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. I'd rather be someone who has a chance at a steady relationship than be the man-whore who switches from girl-to-girl every few days. Totaly different things, don't get confused. Being Mr. Second sucks and you know it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 I'm agreeing with Rain on this, it doesn't matter what number you are when the girl or guy in my case asks you out, as long as you can have a good relationship, does it really matter? TBH again you guys have to much Pride, The oh, "I wanna be the first she loves or I don't want her to love me." It's jerkish, stupid, and is more than most likely gonna drive the girl off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. I'd rather be someone who has a chance at a steady relationship than be the man-whore who switches from girl-to-girl every few days. Totaly different things, don't get confused. Being Mr. Second sucks and you know it. Ah, I was more referring to the way Hunter handles his relationships, but either way, I'm not Mr. Second. ;P I'd rather wait for a girl whom I know is worth waiting for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ P O L A R I S ~ Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. I'd rather be someone who has a chance at a steady relationship than be the man-whore who switches from girl-to-girl every few days. lol, no you wouldn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prada Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Maybe She'll make that decision' date=' and when he sees her again she'll want him as a b/f.Geez cut the girl some slack.[/quote'] I would NEVER be some girl's second choice. Im too important for that. If Im not number 1, I'm nothing at all. How has that worked out so far, Hunter? Because being the whipping boy is so much better. I'd rather be someone who has a chance at a steady relationship than be the man-whore who switches from girl-to-girl every few days. lol, no you wouldn't. I actually, I would. I'm fine with where I stand, and I find healthy relationships more fulfilling than: Ask random girl out.Make out/Hang all over random girl for a week or less.Break up with random girl.Repeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 ^ lol my cousin does this. He goes out with a girl for 1 week, dumps her and goes out with another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 ^ lol my cousin does this. He goes out with a girl for 1 week' date=' dumps her and goes out with another.[/quote'] What a jerk >_>;; But anyhow, last night a huge group of my friend [25 of them] and I went to Peirce College; a college that hosts a small Halloween Fair. We went there for their corn mazes and to just hang out all together. I invited my boyfriend, but he wasn't able to come because his mom wouldn't let him. But at the end of the night, a half an hour before we all were gonna leave, he showed up and surprised me =] It's nothing so big, but it was pleasant~ So on the count of that, has anyone of you guys been nicely surprised by your significant other? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitty Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Cool Fire Haze and he is sorta, but we all say it's a hokes and that he's really gay. xD OMG I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!!! KEVIN GOT ME THE RING HE PROMISED AND I'LL GET IT TOMORROW, I'LL TAKE A PIC AND POST IT ON HERE IF YOU GUYS LIKE. EEEEEEK *SQUEALS* I'M SOOOOO EXCITED. =D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fenrir Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Cool Fire Haze and he is sorta' date=' but we all say it's a hokes and that he's really gay. xD OMG I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!!! KEVIN GOT ME THE RING HE PROMISED AND I'LL GET IT TOMORROW, I'LL TAKE A PIC AND POST IT ON HERE IF YOU GUYS LIKE. EEEEEEK *SQUEALS* I'M SOOOOO EXCITED. =D[/quote'] ............................................________....................................,.-‘”...................``~.,.............................,.-”...................................“-.,.........................,/...............................................”:,.....................,?......................................................\,.................../...........................................................,}................./......................................................,:`^`..}.............../...................................................,:”........./..............?.....__.........................................:`.........../............./__.(.....“~-,_..............................,:`........../.........../(_....”~,_........“~,_....................,:`........_/..........{.._$;_......”=,_.......“-,_.......,.-~-,},.~”;/....}...........((.....*~_.......”=-._......“;,,./`..../”............../...,,,___.\`~,......“~.,....................`.....}............../............(....`=-,,.......`........................(......;_,,-”............/.`~,......`-...............................\....../\.............\`~.*-,.....................................|,./.....\,__,,_..........}.>-._\...................................|..............`=~-,.....`=~-,_\_......`\,.................................\...................`=~-,,.\,...............................\................................`:,,...........................`\..............__.....................................`=-,...................,%`>--==``........................................_\..........._,-%.......`\..................................., Edit: My friend asked her out. That son of a jabroni. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marisa Kirisame-ze Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Cool Fire Haze and he is sorta' date=' but we all say it's a hokes and that he's really gay. xD OMG I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!!! KEVIN GOT ME THE RING HE PROMISED AND I'LL GET IT TOMORROW, I'LL TAKE A PIC AND POST IT ON HERE IF YOU GUYS LIKE. EEEEEEK *SQUEALS* I'M SOOOOO EXCITED. =D[/quote'] Alex wanted to get me a necklace, but his parents wouldn't let him buy it. It was the thought that counts =] And what happens if something goes wrong and you two break up...? The ring resorts to nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Frostpaw Posted October 11, 2009 Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Cool Fire Haze and he is sorta' date=' but we all say it's a hokes and that he's really gay. xD OMG I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!!! KEVIN GOT ME THE RING HE PROMISED AND I'LL GET IT TOMORROW, I'LL TAKE A PIC AND POST IT ON HERE IF YOU GUYS LIKE. EEEEEEK *SQUEALS* I'M SOOOOO EXCITED. =D[/quote'] Kitty, you and kevin have only been together for a year. Don't rush into this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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