Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Lock. Cba with this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 I was heavily bullied verbally for most of my life and still am to this day... Generally I no longer care for any of those idiots opinions anymore I learned to fight without anybody's help because thats all you can do is fight for yourself in my view... I never want to be part of the popular crowd and if that happens I will happily leave it... If anybody comes up to me and insults me cuz of my beliefs nowadays I just look at them and say "STFU you ignorant prick and GTFO before I shove my foot so far down your throat you will be pissing shoe laces for a week" that usually drives them away... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Anthony Hatsune' timestamp='1310411603' post='5345845'] I was heavily bullied verbally for most of my life and still am to this day... Generally I no longer care for any of those idiots opinions anymore I learned to fight without anybody's help because thats all you can do is fight for yourself in my view... I never want to be part of the popular crowd and if that happens I will happily leave it... If anybody comes up to me and insults me cuz of my beliefs nowadays I just look at them and say "STFU you ignorant prick and GTFO before I shove my foot so far down your throat you will be pissing shoe laces for a week" that usually drives them away... [/quote] Dude, no. Seriously if you respond violence with violence you will often or not find, guess what? Violence. I only ever took up Muay Thai for self defence unless I absolutely had to fight. If someone tries to get in a fight with me I respond with peace and love and they eventually realise they aren't getting anywhere. Besides, if you respond with peace and love more people like you than if you get into a physical fight with them. And what's wrong with the popular crowd? Lol, nothing is what. They are fellow human beings, some of them are a little up themselves but in general from my experience they tend to be nice people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310411937' post='5345857'] Dude, no. Seriously if you respond violence with violence you will often or not find, guess what? Violence. I only ever took up Muay Thai for self defence unless I absolutely had to fight. If someone tries to get in a fight with me I respond with peace and love and they eventually realise they aren't getting anywhere. Besides, if you respond with peace and love more people like you than if you get into a physical fight with them. And what's wrong with the popular crowd? Lol, nothing is what. They are fellow human beings, some of them are a little up themselves but in general from my experience they tend to be nice people. [/quote] Actually there is no such thing as peace therefore violence is the only way... You think you can just talk this crap over? No... Peace does not exist... It is a fantasy the human mind creates to hope something better will happen... A person needs to fight for survival... I no longer just sit by and succumb to idiots with annoying BS insults because now I have the courage to shove it up their butt when need be... NOTE: I am not homosexual... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Anthony Hatsune' timestamp='1310412208' post='5345866'] Actually there is no such thing as peace therefore violence is the only way... You think you can just talk this crap over? No... Peace does not exist... It is a fantasy the human mind creates to hope something better will happen... A person needs to fight for survival... I no longer just sit by and succumb to idiots with annoying BS insults because now I have the courage to shove it up their butt when need be... NOTE: I am not homosexual... [/quote] Hahaha, dude you need to chill. Peace is a state of harmony characterized by the lack of violent conflict therefore if you respond with violence you will not find peace. If you do not respond with violence you will find peace. You dig? The only reason you are so aggressive is because you have never tried to respond peacefully by the sound of things. There is nothing courageous about violence. And being a homosexual had nothing to do with any of your previous argument, so why bring it up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310412661' post='5345886'] Hahaha, dude you need to chill. Peace is a state of harmony characterized by the lack of violent conflict therefore if you respond with violence you will not find peace. If you do not respond with violence you will find peace. You dig? The only reason you are so aggressive is because you have never tried to respond peacefully by the sound of things. There is nothing courageous about violence. And being a homosexual had nothing to do with any of your previous argument, so why bring it up? [/quote] Sorry but my last comment can be taken in the wrong direction by anybody so I had to put that... As for this so called *Peace* it is impossible to achieve because their will always be the stubborn and ignorant who want to hurt you... I should clarify that no times have I ever gotten into a fight... Most of the times I would make that threat, ignore them, or intelligently debate their opinions... The threat is usually if they threaten me first and BTW I never start a fight unless they throw the first punch... I apologize for not clarifying earlier... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Anthony Hatsune' timestamp='1310412876' post='5345894'] Sorry but my last comment can be taken in the wrong direction by anybody so I had to put that... As for this so called *Peace* it is impossible to achieve because their will always be the stubborn and ignorant who want to hurt you... I should clarify that no times have I ever gotten into a fight... Most of the times I would make that threat, ignore them, or intelligently debate their opinions... The threat is usually if they threaten me first and BTW I never start a fight unless they throw the first punch... I apologize for not clarifying earlier... [/quote] Dude, how old are you? I don't think anyone of a young age should be thinking like this. And peace does exist, just not as how you seem to of stereotyped it. I agree there is no such thing as 'world peace' but I do believe that in a lack of violence will come a sense of peace. And I respect the fact that you never initiate or even get into a fight unless in self defence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darth Revan of the Sith Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310413135' post='5345908'] Dude, how old are you? I don't think anyone of a young age should be thinking like this. And peace does exist, just not as how you seem to of stereotyped it. I agree there is no such thing as 'world peace' but I do believe that in a lack of violence will come a sense of peace. And I respect the fact that you never initiate or even get into a fight unless in self defence. [/quote] Yea I have a habit of not clarifying things until people get the wrong idea and I am 16 but age is only a number as I strive to gain immortality and I am drifting of course here... I believe peace can only be achieved if you thoroughly believe it does unfortunately I cannot wrap my mind around the idea so it doesn't exist in my eyes... And I am sorry but no person shall tell me what I should and should not believe my beliefs are why I was bullied and to abandon them would just make me a hypocrite... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Oh look, this topic again. I was getting worried, we had almost gone like a whole month without one. OT: Bullying is bad, ect. ect. ect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='ADHD-Guitar' timestamp='1310417270' post='5346077'] Oh look, this topic again. I was getting worried, we had almost gone like a whole month without one. OT: Bullying is bad, ect. ect. ect. [/quote] Oh look, another pointless post on this forum. I was getting worried because it had almost been 1 hour without one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310417601' post='5346090'] Oh look, another pointless post on this forum. I was getting worried because it had almost been 1 hour without one. [/quote] Touché. I'm just saying, this topic has been created numerous times and there's really not much else to say other than, "Bullying iz bad." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='ADHD-Guitar' timestamp='1310417933' post='5346106'] Touché. I'm just saying, this topic has been created numerous times and there's really not much else to say other than, "Bullying iz bad." [/quote] Lol, I had guessed that it had already probably been done so I told people to discuss experiences they have had with bullying. But fair enough for thinking that, if I were in your shoes I wouldn't read all that text either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EndlessOcean Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 O.K, I'm going to bring this 'There is no Peace' Arguement to the ultimate close. Peace is non-existent. There is no way to achive a state of Peace because everyone has conflicting morals and ideas. When there is one point of view, someone else in the world will have the complete opposiste. I admit to hating Violence, but war can be nessasary to solve some problems, although it is not a prefrable option. I do not belive Violance is the answer, and hope that someday we will live in a sort of Peace, where everyone gets the right to their own opinions, but must state them verbaly, not phisically. OT: I have been bullied, it is not nice, and no one should have to endure that sort of inner pain. Insanious Out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Insanious' timestamp='1310419108' post='5346149'] O.K, I'm going to bring this 'There is no Peace' Arguement to the ultimate close. Peace is non-existent. There is no way to achive a state of Peace because everyone has conflicting morals and ideas. When there is one point of view, someone else in the world will have the complete opposiste. I admit to hating Violence, but war can be nessasary to solve some problems, although it is not a prefrable option. I do not belive Violance is the answer, and hope that someday we will live in a sort of Peace, where everyone gets the right to their own opinions, but must state them verbaly, not phisically. OT: I have been bullied, it is not nice, and no one should have to endure that sort of inner pain. Insanious Out [/quote] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peace There is such thing as peace. Just not absolute peace and if you want to go philosophical I will too. In my opinion peace is conflict because that's what makes everybody human. EDIT, excuse my horrible replies. I have been up since 4:00am and it is currently 10:30pm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DARKPLANT RISING Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Experiences with bullying? No, IRL I'm always in the center of the crowd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Darkplant - PAIN' timestamp='1310420153' post='5346198'] Experiences with bullying? No, IRL I'm always in the center of the crowd. [/quote] Then you have led a very lucky life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PowerlinX Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 I was verbally bullied in elementary school until I came up with the "don't give a s*** about what people think" policy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resident Fascist Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 I was bullied because I liked anime other than Naruto... Seriously. Though everyone there was either a Narutard or a Bleachfaggot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catterjune Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310409983' post='5345768'] From about year 7 to year 9 I was bullied rawly. (English slang for seriously*)[/quote] Why would you use slang we weren't familiar with, define it, and then go on to never use it again for the remainder of the story? You could have just skipped the first step and wrote "I was bullied seriously" or something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpаi Posted July 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 [quote name='PikaPerson01' timestamp='1310421793' post='5346271'] Why would you use slang we weren't familiar with, define it, and then go on to never use it again for the remainder of the story? You could have just skipped the first step and wrote "I was bullied seriously" or something like that. [/quote] Because I know I will use it in the future and if anyone ever asks why I use English slang on an international forum I will say; "look, I've explained myself once before" and link them to this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mehmani Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Bullying in excess in a terrible thing, but as bullying is merely a part of human nature it can never be wiped out. I was bullied a huge amount throughout Primary School and in hindsight it was character-building. I look back on it and I'm glad I had to deal with it. I do still get bullied now (not as much) but I know that if I get attacked again I'll fight back. Even the act of fighting back can often gain you enough respect to stop others from bothering you. Bullying will never be truly eradicated. The strong (not necessarily intelligent) children will mercilessly bully anyone weaker than them. If you can speak out and question them, if you have a quick wit and are good at carefully wording your insults, you can effectively deal with a bully. "Cussing" well has got me out of tight situation several, it earns you respect and demonstrates your improvisational ability. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Senpаi' timestamp='1310417601' post='5346090'] Oh look, another pointless post on this forum. I was getting worried because it had almost been 1 hour without one. [/quote] I'm glad that, at least occasionally, we have witty new members that integrate easily into the General society. As Mikhail said, bullying is kind of a part of growing up, but once bullying gets physical the line should be drawn. Verbal bullying, if anything, does build your improvisational skills, and it allows you to think of witty retorts to comments. Physical bullying, especially for someone that doesn't go to the gym seven days a week, isn't a terribly fun experience. You'll encounter as[b][/b]sholes that make fun if you in real life, but you'll never have to deal with someone punching you in the arm, so physical bullying is really too much and kids shouldn't have to deal with it. I [i]think[/i] I've been bullied before, but it's laughably easy to ignore it, at least for me. Especially considering I can laugh at the fact that I'm going to making serious money out of college and they'll be rotting on the streets of New York (or wherever the end up) after they fail at being useful. :[b][/b]P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greiga Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 I used to get bullied a whole lot by EVERYONE and sometimes still am (indirectly). I just learned to ignore them because nobody will come to help you and fighting/arguing back only gets YOU in trouble. Either that or I really am that worthless that I don't deserve help... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vough Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 Was bullied a ton as a little kid. I was easy to pick on and wouldn't put up a fight, so idiots "popped my bubble" and gave me wedgies and verbally abused me. It got so bad, I literally had to lie to a teacher that one of the bullies hit my head against a locker for it to stop. That bully moved away. Year after that one moved away, a new [s]douche[/s] challenger approaches. He was very violent and unstable, and left after being expelled. He's now a crackhead. Then some little [s]prick[/s] misunderstood moron decides that he's better than everyone and can bend the rules as he likes them and that he's better than everyone else. He left too. Throughout all those years, I gained the ability to ignore bullying and to defend myself. It also helped that I grew to be 5'10 in 8th grade and was both a nerd and a jock so I could best anyone with knowledge and quickness. Anyone, the troll general is still here and I want to get rid of him so bad. He's this little nice doggy! that has the maturity level of the 8 year-old coupled with the pervertedness of 12 year-old. He's an adopted pastor's son and basicly has life as perfect as can be and yet still seeks to torment everyone. I did have to use violence to teach him to keep away. I had punched him full hard in the gut once (but I didn't get caught because I hadn't told teachers for reasons listed below, and he knew that if he did he would get suspended for the stuff he has done) He also likes my girlfriend, so he's always following us around 24/7 in school and I can't make him beat it because all teachers enforce equality and that he's allowed to follow us everywhere... Anyway, teachers at my school have the policy of, "If no one got punched, it's not a big deal" and "If someone did get punched, then telling them never to do it again ought to do it!" And anyway, they arrange "meetings" where we have to talk it out. Which only makes bullies want to bully more. The only reason I see bullying is such a problem nowadays is because school systems LITERALLY DO NOTHING to prevent it or give strict punishments for being caught bullying. I blame the economy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragnarok1945 Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 [quote name='Ｔｈｅ ｂｉｇ ＳＡＴＵＲＮ' timestamp='1310437921' post='5346899'] I used to get bullied a whole lot by EVERYONE and sometimes still am (indirectly). I just learned to ignore them because nobody will come to help you and fighting/arguing back only gets YOU in trouble. Either that or I really am that worthless that I don't deserve help... [/quote] trust me, if you don't arguing and fight back eventually it'll get even worse. Some bullies NEVER get the message until you do that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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