Ghoulish Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 You have a friend/best friend/acquaintance ( please answer in all 3 of those scenarios, optional of course ), You find out they are cheatingon their partner, do you tell their partner? Yes or no, or how would you go about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hexcalibrate Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 it would depend on if i'm the partners friend or not and if it could be proven, if i were i'd tell them, it would be 1 of my friends mistake so why should another friend suffer for it; if not i would tell the partners bestfriend, i know it sounds like i'm passing the buck but their bestfriend knows them better and would probably know how to break the news better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted July 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 ok, but what if the person cheating, was ur best friend and you dont really know the partner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hexcalibrate Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 as i said, i'd get their bestfriend to tell partner, and if i don't know their i'd get into a situation where i'd be able to meet there best friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HÉ‘rdy Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 I wouldn't tell, why would I bother to get stuck in the middle of it all? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flash Flyer - Sakura Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 For me, it'll depend on how close I am to them. But in most cases, I wouldn't tell because I shouldn't be getting involved in other people's relationships, especially in my area. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.Starrk Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Depends on how much you care about the other partners feelings. You could tell the truth so they know and they dont have to put up with that person anymore, or they could not tell, and the other partner could find out on their own and be hurt. But if you tell the truth it would be better. Because all the other partner would lose is just a cheater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Î’yakuya Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 If they are doing that, tell their parter because it is the best thing and right thing to do. If a friend does that, they're not worthy of being your friend, otherwise they had to do it because of some reason. Then you could snatch his partner for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTR~ Posted July 27, 2011 Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Friend- Maybe Best Friend- Maybe Acquaintance- Maybe Depends on how well they know me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted July 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 Yea, I personally would only tell the partner if the partner was a family member, if one of my best mates was cheating, a mate ive known my whole life, theres no way id trll the partner id just say to my mate its on ur head Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DARKPLANT RISING Posted July 28, 2011 Report Share Posted July 28, 2011 Real people don't cheat. And I only allow real people to be my friends. *Shot* OT: Well, assuming it actually [i]did[/i] happen, I'd just tell and leave him. Because you know, I have a lot of friends. What? If everyone cheated? Then it's time to send hours on DN. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Two-Hundred And One Posted July 28, 2011 Report Share Posted July 28, 2011 Well. My best friend has no sex drive, so skip that. My friends? Depends on how well I know the partner. They probably don't want that info coming from someone they don't know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fusion X. Denver Posted July 29, 2011 Report Share Posted July 29, 2011 If I'm friends with his/her partner, I'd confront my friend first and if they refuse, then I'd tell the partner. Otherwise, I'd lecture my friend until they fessed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Brett Favre Experience Posted July 31, 2011 Report Share Posted July 31, 2011 I would spill to the partner because cheating is a dick move in any scenario. Their fault. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted July 31, 2011 Report Share Posted July 31, 2011 Wouldn't tell. That way everyone's happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaos Dralcax Posted July 31, 2011 Report Share Posted July 31, 2011 Friend: No Best Friend: Not my problem, I'll just not be his friend Acquantaince: DEFINITELY Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghoulish Posted August 1, 2011 Author Report Share Posted August 1, 2011 I'm actually surprised by alot of People's "Best Friend" Responses, I mena sure everyone's entitled to their own beliefs and actions etc etc. But your best friend, lets say you've grown up together, since you were like 5 you'se have known each other, now you are both 18, this is someone you have been through thick and thin with, someone who may have never betrayed you before, would you really tell a borderline stranger and threaten to end your relationship with your best friend? (Trying to create a more difficult scenario >) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna Lovegood Posted August 1, 2011 Report Share Posted August 1, 2011 I wouldn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JordanPark24 Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 No, I wouldn't tell. But I would definitely chew out the offenders... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 If it was someone I didn't know too well, I'd tell for sure. Just to be kind of a douche. If it was a really close friend, I'd actually talk to my friend first to confirm if they actually WERE instead of just jumping to conclusions like a dumbass. If they were, I'd try to talk them out of it. If they were being completely unreasonable and kind of a dumbass, I'd tell. But pretty much no one who meets my standards of friendships would ever be dumb enough to cheat. We all have open relationships. Like badasses. Cheating is never relevant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tentacruel Posted August 12, 2011 Report Share Posted August 12, 2011 Telling would require way too much effort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King of Nothing Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 Friend - No Best Friend - Yes Acquaintence - No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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