Relationships

[Greiga]

[quote name='Brushfire' timestamp='1320371413' post='5615950']


Yeah, I agree, the gap between A* and a D- is increasingly larger than the gap between a D- and a U. Did you fail math too? Oh, of course... an E or above is technically a pass. They really should change that to a C.
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No, I pass math with A's and B's always. Also from what I heard C is failing once you get to college. Also, D- and U? Either thats a typo or I'm still being insulted.

Usually when I make friends, I become close to that person or the friendship dies. At the time, I just decided to totally ignore friendship as a whole. Like I said, bad idea, seeing as now I'm glad I have people I can actually tell my problems to without fear of anything.

One last thing, Batman is a pretty cool guy who fights villians and doesn't afraid of anything.

[Brushfire]

[quote name='GreigaBeastDS' timestamp='1320373443' post='5616008']
No, I pass math with A's and B's always. Also from what I heard C is failing once you get to college. Also, D- and U? Either thats a typo or I'm still being insulted.

Usually when I make friends, I become close to that person or the friendship dies. At the time, I just decided to totally ignore friendship as a whole. Like I said, bad idea, seeing as now I'm glad I have people I can actually tell my problems to without fear of anything.

One last thing, Batman is a pretty cool guy who fights villians and doesn't afraid of anything.
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I was insulting you and I do apologise. I'm not sure where you're from or where the grading works, but did you mean "A D four times in a row" or "a D minus four times in a row"? Erm, at college in the UK and E is still regarded as a pass. I disagree personally and consider myself to have failed if I don't get a C.

I'm the same in that sense. But life is a lot better when you have someone to talk to about your problems, it's always good to know that someone actually cares. You'll have to forgive my extremely negative view on relationships at the moment as my life slowly crumbles apart.

I agree, but I'm not sure Bane is the right person to take the series forward.

[Greiga]

At this point, I may as well explain. To make a long story short, US grading system goes A, B, C, D, F. Each of those is either neutral, plus, or minus, which would make A+ the best and F the worst. There is an F+ but not an F-. What I meant was that my last report card had D- for all four terms.

To make this on topic, the road to finding a happy relationship is painful, extremely painful, but in the end it's well worth it.

[Brushfire]

I must ask here... why does it miss out 'E'? o_O

And well, unfortunately the truth is that not only is the [i]road[/i] to finding a happy relationship difficult, and also takes many attempts as you try to find the right person, but then when you are in the relationship that itself can be difficult. Obviously, I'd be stupid to say anything other than being in this particular relationship made me feel happier than I ever have done before in my life. But... it's hard to maintain that, to keep that sort of love and passion going, and to not upset each other or argue, it's not easy. I'm not saying it will definitely happen to everyone, but I've seen it happen way too many times, when relationships eventually end it causes people to be extremely upset. To the point as you can see with me, I'm just saying don't bother and save yourself the depression.

Then again, I ask myself was it worth it? Yes. Would I do it all again if I had the chance? Very much unfortunately, the answer again is yes.

[❤ Lovely Warrior ❤]

i haven't been in a relationship in about 2 years... the last relationship i was in my boyfriend was an MMA fighter and unfortunately he was abusive physically and would hit and punch me all the time. one day it got to an extreme and i was running away through his house he was about to just maul me. it was like a scary movie i hid in one of the rooms (dont remember whos it was) he kicked the door in and i grabbed the closest thing i could to defend myself... a wooden bat... he hit me ounce or twice but i lost it something snapped and i hit him in the head with the bat... i was so scared and didn't know what to do so a ran out of the house crying and to the neighbors house... all that happened because i was trying to break up with him... yea im not going to get in a relationship for a long time.

lesson here be careful who you date they may seem sweet on the outside but they can be a demon within!

[Great Unclean One: VK]

@ Lovely:

I'm sorry to hear that Lovely. I don't really get men who would do that sort of things.

@ Marisa:

Hope she returns your feelings.

['tyleR]

Tomorrow will mark the day that I will have been with my girlfriend for one year. I can honestly say, it's been the best year of my life.

[Solemn Silver]

Can`t live with them, can`t live without them. Literally.

[Yasu]

Don't blame others and don't martyrize yourself.
It's not all about giving.
Men and women are different, but we're still human beings, fair game.

[Thar]

[quote name='Tentacruel' timestamp='1320342085' post='5614799']
I have the same problem, but I'm far too lazy to care.
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^ This.

Also, as much as I've heard how amazing love is, I refuse to believe that; considering that girls expect so much from everyone that everything I do only puts me at risk for being rejected and worthless.

Personally, I prefer to be single and live a long, happy life. I prefer having girlfriends (which is another way of saying 'friends that are female', FYI) because friendship is just what I was made for.

But when the tides change, take it slow and let time do the rest.

[King of Games]

You should jump off a cliff...

Metaphorically of course. If you dont take chances you'll never succeed. But in all honesty, most of your fears are justified. These things happen, it's a way of life. You grieve, then take another jump, and soon You'll find someone who doesn't make you afraid of those things.

My love-life? Only had one girlfriend afterr multiple crushes, and still together after 3 1/2 years and now long distance. We fight occasionally and get on the other's nerves, but we like being together and are too stubborn to give that up.

[Mors Secundis]

I Don't have any situational awareness, but With me....Being Bi-sexual, I'm not too fussy.

BUT I always think it would be harder to impress a girl than a guy, I always have more trouble with girls than guys :L

[Lt. Colonel Remo]

Become badass, you must

But seriously

Develop a sense of humor and the ladies will be head over heels* for you

I envy my friend (kinda) because of his superb sense of making every around him laugh

And so naturally he's quite good with teh lady friends





*[size=1]Sorry Marisa for stealing that phrase of yours. Funny, your story reminds of someone I know in my AP Bio class [/size]

[WTFauKorean]

[quote name='~Batshit Insane VK~' timestamp='1320296571' post='5614384']
This is VK here.

Now, I'm a lonely guy. I admit it. Not a single day has passed that has me wondering, should I go out and find a date? Should I stop fantasizing about spending time with a girl, listening to her and consul her.

[b]rule #1 nothing wrong with fantasizing unless it leads to premature ejacs. and I mean premature as in, before the age of 16, or your growth is screwed.[/b]

Encourage or compliment her. Hug and show my repressed need to show affection. Let it all come out like a flood and drown her in attention and love.

[b]Rule #2 support is great but a relationship is not all about showing affection, don't ignore the simple things too. That might make girls run away from you, make sure you can show you're not gonna smoother. leave them alone when you need to. know when you're close enough to pry.[/b]

Sadly, I also have fears.

What if she doesn't really like me?

What if she is just using me?

What if she cheats on me?

[b]Rule #3 dude It happens like 90% of the time to and for everyone, if you can't handle that kind of rejection, then honestly you don't deserve a GF, you need to man up to these things and accept losses, praise gains[/b]

What if I can't make her happy?

What if I can't satisfy her?

[b]Rule #4 the reason you can't is because you don't have the confidence you can. Just go with instinct, and do what you feel will keep her intreseted. If it fails obviously not the one. refer to rule #3, accept losses.[/b]

What if I can't live up to her expectations and fail her?

What if she thinks I'm boring and toys with me?

[b]Rule #5 effort is based on mutual agreement, if you're trying to hard, don't try at all, break it off, don't cling onto something just because its something you can actually grab onto. theres more that enough to aim for, better yet sometimes but very rarely you're not the arrow, you're the target.[/b]

What if I revolt her physically, goes out with me, and only use me for emotional support?

[b]rule #6 sometimes thats all you need, but if it dosn't work out, consider it a new best friend, assuming you guys are at a mutual level like in rule #5[/b]

[spoiler= What I basically look like]
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[b]Rule #7 HOLY s*** NEVER MIND YOU'RE f***ed, THERE GOES YOUR GF. Come-on dude, be realistic, is that really how you see yourself? rule #4 confidence.[/b]

What if she is stolen away from me by a******s?

What if I can't protect her?

[b]rule #8 Then confront the a****** before it gets out of hand, dosn't matter if its physically impossible, its all about will power (although physical power does ease up on the pain) show 'er that you don't tolerate the guys who try to f*** wit you. If she dosn't see anything in that, forget her, its not worth your time, you've just witness true colors [/b]

What if the fact that I'm bellow average means she'll just rip out my heart and tear it to pieces?

[b]Rule #5??? repeating something you've already mentioned and then emphsizing your fragility to it only proves you expect pity. feeling sorry for yourself gets you no where.[/b]

All these fears keep nagging at me. Telling me I can't never make a woman no easy to please happy.

So I just keep to myself. Listening to my female friends and try to comfort them when their boyfriends neglect them. Helping them out when they ask me and assuring them that they don't need to pay me back. (Note, this is in real life.)
I go online to the interwebz and read about how great and wonderful being in love is like. Only to find out about how the darker sides like how women apparently are more attracted to douchebags, men are more likely to cheat on their girlfriends and wives, and the like. Not to mention the constant nagging, mocking, and patronizing voices in my head telling me how I can't even satisfy an animal, let alone a woman.

[b]Rule #10 dude the internet is about anonymus fun you can't serious about pixilation[/b]

So, YCM.

In my free time, tell me about your relationship to your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, and the like.

[b]I don't have GF's just FWB, but to appeal to the politically correct, multiple GF's[/b], [b]happy to share stories if you ask[/b]

Honestly, I'm interested.

[b]Good you could use a bit resize in character flaws, you're not changing who you are, you're just changing your delivery of it.[/b]

The good, the bad, the ugly, and the truth about being in love.

Is it worth going out?

Or should I just stay single and enjoy bachelorhood?

[b]Its all up to you, regardless of what others say, its pretty much how badly you wan't it. more specifically, how badly you want SOMEONE not something. Theres a huge difference between "I wanna GF" and "I want to be jennifer's/mariah's/amber's whoever, BF"[/b]

[b]if you sound like the 1st quote, IMO you don't really need it, if you sound like the second quote GOD DAMNIT DO IT, IGNORE WHAT I SAID ABOUT THE CHOICE BEING UP TO YOU AT THIS POINT, THIS ISN'T IMO THIS IS DO IT OR DIE[/b]... *ahem*
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responses in bold

[quote name='~Batshit Insane VK~' timestamp='1320298271' post='5614401']
I'm quite.... poor.
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money is only an issue for marriage, don't even think about that s*** till you're at least 25
if you're thinking relationship to last ti'll marriage, you must've lost yo mind

[Zimiri of the Muse]

Aight, love doesnt suck. Finding love sucks. No matter what theres gonna be downs and theres gonna be ups. Some people just arent worth it. Some people are.
Last week eample:
After waking up from surgery in my hospital room (Second spinal tap in two days) I saw my gf sitting in my friends lap having fun. Lucky for him I couldnt move at all.

So not finding love sucks, BUT

My best friend who ive known for almost 2 and a half years now, whose been with me for so much fit hitting the shan, and I have never been happier together.

Trying and failing to find love sucks, but in the end actually finding it is worth it all.
And if none of this helped go watch Bad Teacher

[rotfl]

bro i just asked a girl out that i've liked for a while, and it's awesome haha. trust me. and don't worry about all those things. i've got the answers to your questions too.

[b]What if she doesn't really like me? search for another that does.

What if she is just using me? then she is a whore and you shouldn't be interested.

What if she cheats on me? see above answer ^

What if I can't make her happy? then, once again, she is just using you for things. a real gf would want you.

What if I can't live up to her expectations and fail her? find another girl.

What if I can't satisfy her? dont do everything she wants. she will just use you. hold your ground for what is right and for what is wrong.

What if she thinks I'm boring and toys with me? then she is a whore and you shouldn't date her.

What if I revolt her physically, goes out with me, and only use me for emotional support? [/b]lots of girls do this, its alright.

[b]What if she is stolen away from me by a******s? then she is a whore.

What if I can't protect her? then you shouldn't even begin to THINK about having a gf.

What if the fact that I'm bellow average means she'll just rip out my heart and tear it to pieces? [/b]then she is a whore.

bottom line: don't date girls who are whores. and if you do date, don't let them know you are new to relationships. they will use you like crap.

[Oh My Anubis!]

[quote name='Coyote Starrk' timestamp='1320297954' post='5614397']
Before you think you look like an abomination, I would just abandon that. I highly doubt that. Any girl would be lucky to have you. Just take a leap of faith once and a while even if you fail.

I've been in a relationship for about a year now. We live 3 hours away from each other yet I always get to see her on the weekends. Everything works out.
[/quote]This^
Anyway, relationships shouldn't be solely based on physical appearance. It may sound cheesy, but it's true. Knowing that it's cliche to say that is just a good sign that a lot of people know it's true.

[Darth Revan of the Sith]

I love relationships! I am currently in one! And I have never been more happy!

[Death Metal]

I've been in a relationship for a bit over a year. It's going very exceptional.

You'll know when the right one comes around. Just be patient. ;D

[Yasu]

Now that I think about it... I should man the f*** up and get a time traveling device!

[Death Metal]

^ Someones gotta be the man in the relationship. Do it.

[Travie]

[quote name='Death Metal' timestamp='1322662880' post='5676044']
^ Someones gotta be the man in the relationship. Do it.
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The awkward moment when both of the partners are men.

[Oh My Anubis!]

[quote name='Travie' timestamp='1322663798' post='5676066']
The awkward moment when both of the partners are men.
[/quote]Sort of. But when this happens, I just remember that it's simply physical attraction, not a crime.

[Mors Secundis]

Relationships are fun, but what happens when your girlfriends whores of parents decide they don't you like you anymore because you like to say f*** BUT, and here's the part I love, they swear all the time and have the f***ing cheek to tell me a 17 year old 'man' not to f***ing swear, I mean you can't make me break up with your daughter for something that most people including her will probably do.

Not that I care, I did cry for 2 weeks straight, but now I've got girls hounding me left, right and centre because my man tears healed my heart and made me move on and I think ill have another girl by this Friday/saturday!

[Solemn Silver]

I hate relationships

Nobody decent is single

and my last girlfriend was a b****