Jump to content

Sticks and stones


Just Crouton

Recommended Posts

I was watching Star Trek, and was thinking around what the world would be like if we had the mentality that words don't hurt, and people who call others names are shrugged off and ignored, and how this will probably never happen because most of the human race are deep down whiny crybabies obsessed with defending their pride and honor.

Thoughts?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[quote name='~King Crouton~' timestamp='1324003295' post='5709997']
I was watching Star Trek, and was thinking around what the world would be like if we had the mentality that words don't hurt, and people who call others names are shrugged off and ignored, and how this will probably never happen because most of the human race are deep down whiny crybabies obsessed with defending their pride and honor.

Thoughts?
[/quote]
Pride and Honor is nonexistant and a foolish afterthought. I do accept the Sticks and Stones principle because words don't really have an affect on me. They are just words. I have taught many a person how to not give a f*ck what a person says. It does not matter what people think of you, that just makes you a slave to societies bullsh*t. What matters is what you feel about yourself.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[quote name='Tentacruel' timestamp='1324053898' post='5710836']
Insults from one person can be ignored, but when all the other idiots worship the person making the insults and listen to them, it can make your life a living hell.

As a matter of fact, I do not speak from experience, but it's true.
[/quote]

This, and I can speak from experience.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[quote name='Izaya Orihara' timestamp='1324003526' post='5710006']
Pride and Honor is nonexistant and a foolish afterthought. I do accept the Sticks and Stones principle because words don't really have an affect on me. They are just words. I have taught many a person how to not give a f*ck what a person says. It does not matter what people think of you, that just makes you a slave to societies bullsh*t. What matters is what you feel about yourself.
[/quote]
If you don't give a f*** about what people say why were you retaliating to me mocking you via VM?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Actually I do give a damn about what other people say.
Of course what you think of yourself is what matters the most, but if you just rely on your self-thoughts, it can easily turn back into pride and self-honour.

In my opinion you have to decide for yourself who and what you want to listen to and what not. Insults and pulling others down are a different story though, but there are times when you're wrong and while the others may not say things in a very kind way, it can make you realize your own mistakes.

But then again, provided that you're not a numb know-it-all who only listens to himself...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

[quote name='Legend Zero' timestamp='1324004907' post='5710040']
After about 2 hours I don't even care about an argument anymore.
[/quote]

You're lucky.
I'm usually cool with arguments and insults, but when it's coming from a friend, that's when it hurts.
Especially when it's because of something you did. That's when it scars you.

But it really angers me when the attacker is targeting other people THROUGH you.
Cause they know you have personal relations with said person, so they troll you by insulting them in your direction.
I can handle it, but it fills me with guilt cause you never know what that person will think if you tell them.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Words do hurt, ignoring the pain is generally a foolish thing to do.
Furthermore, take into consideration that everyone reacts to stimuli in a different way, pain included.
That's because no two people are the same in this world, don't push an ideology into a big group of people and expect everyone to react the same, this of course also means they will not develop the same way either.

We're not equal, deal with it.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Archived

This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.

×
×
  • Create New...