How can we change?

[J-Max]

FFS. I do not hate you. You just have your way to get under peoples skin at times. Also the fact that sometimes you haver some major Mood Swings on here 1 minute you;re "That is so funny! lolx" The next is "I Feel so Emo...." Again Bloodrun I apologize and Claire I apologize too. I shouldn't keep going on about it in this area.

[Willieh]

I do occasionally break rules

Yes' date=' I realize that

But so does almost everyone else, including mods sometimes

I'm not perfect, and neither is anyone else on this forum

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Alright, and this conversation ends here.

Becuase, therefore, both, of you, are breaking the one rule, wait, no, one of the two rules of this thread.

No "harassment" of other members.

You've said your dues, now leave it to be considered -.-"

 

It's actually relevant to the issue at hand though, and no one takes the internet seriously, so there is no harassment going on anyway.

 

Well then I should be warned about it

 

Did I ever ask for special treatment?

 

Why? The warn system shouldn't exist in the first place. No one should get warns.

 

Previous is the keyword in your post

 

Posts I made in the past do not matter anymore

 

Get over it

 

1. Habits tend to cause repeating actions.

 

2. It seems you cannot get over it if you still wish to change his mind.

 

@ Willie: Quit being a dick' date=' pointing out people's flaws is not a desirable trait in any person. Argue the point, don't attack the debater.

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Static. My dear friend.

 

I posted earlier in the post "Not to be a prick." :/

 

I don't point out people's flaws. Every person on this earth has a flaw. I point out false generalities and hypocritical self-righteous things. Understand that I don't dislike anybody on the forum. I just like to pull aside the veils and reveal what needs to be said.

 

It's just my thoughts? Who cares? I'm one person in a crowd of billions. Theoretically, my opinion is nothing and my words are invisible.

 

:)

 

Clariex I apologize if I offended you. I had no intentions of making you feel bad or hurting your feelings in anyway.

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I'm just going to let this whole thing die and try my best to let us get back to the topic at hand.

[Larxene]

FFS. I do not hate you. You just have your way to get under peoples skin at times. Also the fact that sometimes you haver some major Mood Swings on here 1 minute you;re "That is so funny! lolx" The next is "I Feel so Emo...." Again Bloodrun I apologize and Claire I apologize too. I shouldn't keep going on about it in this area.

 

If you'd been through what I have' date=' you'd probably be as funked up as me

I'm not going to talk about it here, since it's really not something that I should talk about on a children's forum

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[Static]

You LIKE Arguing? More like you like the sound of your own voice on a Internet Forum. There. i said it. Everytime someone says something you HAVE to come right back at them' date=' I always wondered how you got so many posts in such a short time and now I know.... If it wasn't for me a lot of you would have a lot more Ill Gained points then you already have. My apologies for posting this in your Topic Bloodrun, but I wanted my thoughts to be heard.

[/quote']

 

Today just isn't my day, is it?

I've gotten so many people mad at me today, it's not even funny

Not to mention I was reminded of the most traumatizing event of my life earlier, which was enough to make me try and almost kill myself over 20 times almost 2 years ago!

I try and make myself feel better about myself to try and forget what happened to me

That's why at times it seems like I think so highly of myself, and, as you said, why I like to hear myself talk

Everything I do is to try and forget that horrible night when my life turned to hell

So if you don't like that about me, then fine

I really don't even see the point, since all I ever do is get more and more people to hate me

 

No one dislikes you. Its the internet, we don't take any of this seriously, its just for our own amusement. Don't judge yourself based on what other people think of you, if you can do that, then all of your confidence problems will go away.

 

Willie wasn't trying to put you down, he was trying to help you make a realization about yourself. It's not something you should take personally, its something you should accept and judge rationally and either change if you deem it a good idea to, or don't if you think it is not a good idea.

[Larxene]

You LIKE Arguing? More like you like the sound of your own voice on a Internet Forum. There. i said it. Everytime someone says something you HAVE to come right back at them' date=' I always wondered how you got so many posts in such a short time and now I know.... If it wasn't for me a lot of you would have a lot more Ill Gained points then you already have. My apologies for posting this in your Topic Bloodrun, but I wanted my thoughts to be heard.

[/quote']

 

Today just isn't my day, is it?

I've gotten so many people mad at me today, it's not even funny

Not to mention I was reminded of the most traumatizing event of my life earlier, which was enough to make me try and almost kill myself over 20 times almost 2 years ago!

I try and make myself feel better about myself to try and forget what happened to me

That's why at times it seems like I think so highly of myself, and, as you said, why I like to hear myself talk

Everything I do is to try and forget that horrible night when my life turned to hell

So if you don't like that about me, then fine

I really don't even see the point, since all I ever do is get more and more people to hate me

 

No one dislikes you. Its the internet, we don't take any of this seriously, its just for our own amusement. Don't judge yourself based on what other people think of you, if you can do that, then all of your confidence problems will go away.

 

Willie wasn't trying to put you down, he was trying to help you make a realization about yourself. It's not something you should take personally, its something you should accept and judge rationally and either change if you deem it a good idea to, or don't if you think it is not a good idea.

 

My problems aren't about confidence

My problems are about trying to forget what happened to me

Every day, I have to live with it

It makes me feel sick thinking about it

That's the reason why I have so many mood swings

I always feel depressed whenever I think about it

[Static]

You LIKE Arguing? More like you like the sound of your own voice on a Internet Forum. There. i said it. Everytime someone says something you HAVE to come right back at them' date=' I always wondered how you got so many posts in such a short time and now I know.... If it wasn't for me a lot of you would have a lot more Ill Gained points then you already have. My apologies for posting this in your Topic Bloodrun, but I wanted my thoughts to be heard.

[/quote']

 

Today just isn't my day, is it?

I've gotten so many people mad at me today, it's not even funny

Not to mention I was reminded of the most traumatizing event of my life earlier, which was enough to make me try and almost kill myself over 20 times almost 2 years ago!

I try and make myself feel better about myself to try and forget what happened to me

That's why at times it seems like I think so highly of myself, and, as you said, why I like to hear myself talk

Everything I do is to try and forget that horrible night when my life turned to hell

So if you don't like that about me, then fine

I really don't even see the point, since all I ever do is get more and more people to hate me

 

No one dislikes you. Its the internet, we don't take any of this seriously, its just for our own amusement. Don't judge yourself based on what other people think of you, if you can do that, then all of your confidence problems will go away.

 

Willie wasn't trying to put you down, he was trying to help you make a realization about yourself. It's not something you should take personally, its something you should accept and judge rationally and either change if you deem it a good idea to, or don't if you think it is not a good idea.

 

My problems aren't about confidence

My problems are about trying to forget what happened to me

Every day, I have to live with it

It makes me feel sick thinking about it

That's the reason why I have so many mood swings

I always feel depressed whenever I think about it

 

More self confidence = A better ability to deal with mental "trauma" (depression, whatever you want to call it) that occurs from the remembrance of this event. To really get rid of the problem, you have to try and get over the fact that it happened, and it takes some strength and assertation of the mind over your emotions. Its not as easy as typing two sentences, but if you really distaste the way remembering that event makes you feel, just remember that inaction (of the dealing with this) isn't going to help you feel better about it.

[Larxene]

You LIKE Arguing? More like you like the sound of your own voice on a Internet Forum. There. i said it. Everytime someone says something you HAVE to come right back at them' date=' I always wondered how you got so many posts in such a short time and now I know.... If it wasn't for me a lot of you would have a lot more Ill Gained points then you already have. My apologies for posting this in your Topic Bloodrun, but I wanted my thoughts to be heard.

[/quote']

 

Today just isn't my day, is it?

I've gotten so many people mad at me today, it's not even funny

Not to mention I was reminded of the most traumatizing event of my life earlier, which was enough to make me try and almost kill myself over 20 times almost 2 years ago!

I try and make myself feel better about myself to try and forget what happened to me

That's why at times it seems like I think so highly of myself, and, as you said, why I like to hear myself talk

Everything I do is to try and forget that horrible night when my life turned to hell

So if you don't like that about me, then fine

I really don't even see the point, since all I ever do is get more and more people to hate me

 

No one dislikes you. Its the internet, we don't take any of this seriously, its just for our own amusement. Don't judge yourself based on what other people think of you, if you can do that, then all of your confidence problems will go away.

 

Willie wasn't trying to put you down, he was trying to help you make a realization about yourself. It's not something you should take personally, its something you should accept and judge rationally and either change if you deem it a good idea to, or don't if you think it is not a good idea.

 

My problems aren't about confidence

My problems are about trying to forget what happened to me

Every day, I have to live with it

It makes me feel sick thinking about it

That's the reason why I have so many mood swings

I always feel depressed whenever I think about it

 

More self confidence = A better ability to deal with mental "trauma" (depression, whatever you want to call it) that occurs from the remembrance of this event. To really get rid of the problem, you have to try and get over the fact that it happened, and it takes some strength and assertation of the mind over your emotions. Its not as easy as typing two sentences, but if you really distaste the way remembering that event makes you feel, just remember that inaction (of the dealing with this) isn't going to help you feel better about it.

 

I've spent the past 2 years doing everything I could to try and deal with it

I've seen almost 10 psychiatrists, none of which were really much help

I haven't told my mom, my dad, or anyone I know personally what happened either

I'm never going to tell my mom because she'll probably blame me for it anyway

I never see my dad, so that's out of the question

And I don't really have any friends anymore anyway

[Static]

You LIKE Arguing? More like you like the sound of your own voice on a Internet Forum. There. i said it. Everytime someone says something you HAVE to come right back at them' date=' I always wondered how you got so many posts in such a short time and now I know.... If it wasn't for me a lot of you would have a lot more Ill Gained points then you already have. My apologies for posting this in your Topic Bloodrun, but I wanted my thoughts to be heard.

[/quote']

 

Today just isn't my day, is it?

I've gotten so many people mad at me today, it's not even funny

Not to mention I was reminded of the most traumatizing event of my life earlier, which was enough to make me try and almost kill myself over 20 times almost 2 years ago!

I try and make myself feel better about myself to try and forget what happened to me

That's why at times it seems like I think so highly of myself, and, as you said, why I like to hear myself talk

Everything I do is to try and forget that horrible night when my life turned to hell

So if you don't like that about me, then fine

I really don't even see the point, since all I ever do is get more and more people to hate me

 

No one dislikes you. Its the internet, we don't take any of this seriously, its just for our own amusement. Don't judge yourself based on what other people think of you, if you can do that, then all of your confidence problems will go away.

 

Willie wasn't trying to put you down, he was trying to help you make a realization about yourself. It's not something you should take personally, its something you should accept and judge rationally and either change if you deem it a good idea to, or don't if you think it is not a good idea.

 

My problems aren't about confidence

My problems are about trying to forget what happened to me

Every day, I have to live with it

It makes me feel sick thinking about it

That's the reason why I have so many mood swings

I always feel depressed whenever I think about it

 

More self confidence = A better ability to deal with mental "trauma" (depression, whatever you want to call it) that occurs from the remembrance of this event. To really get rid of the problem, you have to try and get over the fact that it happened, and it takes some strength and assertation of the mind over your emotions. Its not as easy as typing two sentences, but if you really distaste the way remembering that event makes you feel, just remember that inaction (of the dealing with this) isn't going to help you feel better about it.

 

I've spent the past 2 years doing everything I could to try and deal with it

I've seen almost 10 psychiatrists, none of which were really much help

I haven't told my mom, my dad, or anyone I know personally what happened either

I'm never going to tell my mom because she'll probably blame me for it anyway

I never see my dad, so that's out of the question

And I don't really have any friends anymore anyway

 

:(

 

You make this difficult. Rather than trying to get over the specific event, try to live life and enjoy it, fill yourself with the now, the now that you can have yourself enjoy. Moving on and Distracting yourself are two different things.

 

You told people on the internet, I mean, it is the internet, but generally, people on the internet are real people off the internet, no?

[Larxene]

I only told a few people on the internet, and they probably ignored me anyway

 

I'll tell you if you want, but not in this thread

[Static]

I only told a few people on the internet' date=' and they probably ignored me anyway

 

I'll tell you if you want, but not in this thread

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Why not.

 

MSN, AIM, or PM?

[Bakura Vessal]

I want star ratings gone.

 

I may consider going on strike' date=' and giving up moderation all together unless they are removed.

 

That is how much they annoy me.

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we have star ratings?

[J-Max]

Star Ratings as in How much you Rate a Thread.

[Azuh]

to have the things in the first post will be a chore and yet an awesome thing to do

 

Wouldn't it be nice if the world could change just in a flick of your fingers

 

Priceless....

[Cyber Altair]

Warning Levels are fine' date=' If you dont want your warning levels raised, follow the rules, its simple logic

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Exactly why I like the new warning system

The only reason people are getting banned all the time now, is because they break simple rules repeatedly that they were never punished for before.

 

I don't want to sound like a prick, by all means, but you break simple rules consistently. I'm not sure if you are aware of it or not, and I won't post which ones you break (unless you want me to), but seriously, don't call anybody out on that. It's amazingly hypocritical.

 

As far as this whole subject goes. Removing Star Ratings for threads would be a good idea. As far as post count introductions relations, I dont care. If somebody wants to raise their post count; let them. As long as it isn't spam I see no harm done. "Welcome to YCM" wouldn't be spam considering that it is in the introductions thread.

 

And a minimum amount of characters would be useful. But I only say this because normally my posts have a good 5-10 sentences in them if not more. For some people, this would drastically reduce their post count. And would, without a doubt, cause an uproar.

 

And I've only been warned twice, why?

 

1 was for swearing, 1 was for "Other" (wtf?)

 

If I constantly broke rules, don't you think I would've gotten more than that?

Let's face it.

 

You don't get more warnings because of the same reason Krow doesn't. You're popular on the forum.

 

If you would look at a lot of your previous posts, you would see what I mean. >_>

 

Um.... so that's why when i spam i don't get warnings =\

[Pikachu]

Star ratings: To be honest I think it's utterly useless

Warnings: Sometimes it's unfair....

Character count in posts: A very good idea

all good ideas :)

[Umbra]

- Star Ratings System: I never cared about them, and I never will. Go or stay, I don't care.

 

- Post Count in Introductions: Post count doesn't matter anyway, unless you're some sort of attention-seeker. Turn it off completely, and hide it.

 

- Minimum limit of characters in post: A minimum of 10 would be fine by me. Stops all these posts like "yes" and "bad 0/10".

 

- Warning Levels: This is life, deal with it. New =/= bad.

[Static]

Warning Levels are fine' date=' If you dont want your warning levels raised, follow the rules, its simple logic

[/quote']

 

Exactly why I like the new warning system

The only reason people are getting banned all the time now, is because they break simple rules repeatedly that they were never punished for before.

 

I don't want to sound like a prick, by all means, but you break simple rules consistently. I'm not sure if you are aware of it or not, and I won't post which ones you break (unless you want me to), but seriously, don't call anybody out on that. It's amazingly hypocritical.

 

As far as this whole subject goes. Removing Star Ratings for threads would be a good idea. As far as post count introductions relations, I dont care. If somebody wants to raise their post count; let them. As long as it isn't spam I see no harm done. "Welcome to YCM" wouldn't be spam considering that it is in the introductions thread.

 

And a minimum amount of characters would be useful. But I only say this because normally my posts have a good 5-10 sentences in them if not more. For some people, this would drastically reduce their post count. And would, without a doubt, cause an uproar.

 

And I've only been warned twice, why?

 

1 was for swearing, 1 was for "Other" (wtf?)

 

If I constantly broke rules, don't you think I would've gotten more than that?

Let's face it.

 

You don't get more warnings because of the same reason Krow doesn't. You're popular on the forum.

 

If you would look at a lot of your previous posts, you would see what I mean. >_>

 

Um.... so that's why when i spam i don't get warnings =\

 

It doesn't take a genius to figure out that one Altair.

[Bakura Vessal]

Star Ratings as in How much you Rate a Thread.

 

i didnt even knew we had em lol