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What's the easiest way to let her go? :/

 

She's so childish and immature. She makes the stupidest complaints about every little thing, and wants to pin them on me. Then, she whines and complains when I'm working, and wants me to pay attention to her. She texts me all day and night, even when I tell her I have things to do the next day or at the time.

 

I don't have time for that type of foolishness.

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Tell them you're breaking up with them for whatever reason.

 

Then when they freak out and say it's bullshit' date=' you turn around and say..

 

"Bullshit? THIS IS SPARTA!"

 

Then you kick them off a bridge or into a bottomless pit. Bridges are easier to find though.

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I'm seriously going to throw you off the I-10.

 

can anyone give me some decent advice? :/

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Say "A lot of things have passed, I've had regrets, and, I'm sorry, but I just can't do this anymore. I'm really sorry, but I'm breaking up with you'.

 

That's how you let it down softly. If she starts crying give her one last hug, wave goodbye and walk off.

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I love how some people are posting stupid, pointless stuff again when you see that this guy is obviously not feeling comfortable with the entire thing.-.-

Meh THAT would be a reason to say lolYCM...

 

Well phone and mail break-ups are for cowardly unmanly men. Ask her out in the park (or go to her house, in case you don't want to raise some huge drama), sit down and tell her that you've been thinking about it for a while and came to the conclusion that it's better for you to be just friends. If she starts crying repeat the phrase about friends until it sounds good, that's what I do =D, unless you don't want to be friends though.

 

But we don't know why you want to leave so it depends really...

 

One thing that works well, generally with delicate stuff, don't use too much of "because you...", "well actually YOU changed like this or that...". Try to rephrase some "you"s with "I" or "we", at least it doesn't come over as if it was just her fault.

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LDR, iirc. So the traditional stuff doesn't work, no matter how you put it. (And if this is the one I speak to on the phone/text it is horribly complicated).

 

If it's the other friend, well then... *scratches head* You're in a serious pickle. But you'll know what to do I'm sure.

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This is what I said anyway.

 

"I've thought of this for a long time - we've been through many things, and sometimes I think I've let you down along the way. So from my heart I say I'm truly sorry, but I think we should remain only as friends."

 

She started crying so I comforted her with a hug, stroke her hair and held her by the arms and said:

 

"It's not a goodbye, it's a beginning."

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"I've thought of this for a long time - we've been through many things' date=' and sometimes I think I've let you down along the way. So from my heart I say I'm truly sorry, but I think we should remain only as friends."

 

She started crying so I comforted her with a hug, stroke her hair and held her by the arms and said:

 

"It's not a goodbye, it's a beginning."[/quote']

 

I'll try this thanks.

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