tehodis Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 THX :D:D:D:D I have a few questions:1] How often do you date durring school? 2] She asked me out first' date=' then i asked her out, do i ask her out again? or is it like she asks me out next? i dont want to rush anything3'] How many dates until i ask her to be my girlfriend? FYI: i am completely clueless about these things You shouldn't be afriad to be forceful in regards to asking her out... however don't be too forceful, because that can be a problem. Date about 2, maybe 3 times a week (if your really serious about her) but you shouldn't exceed 3 really. Finally, don't be afraid to ask her how she feels about you and gauge her response because 1 forceful mistake can end a relationship completely. However, sometimes you should (rather than "date" her) maybe you should just spend some time with her alone so she can get to know you better. That was my experience, and its worked out for about 2 years now. Hope it helps I'd say go on a date once a week (during school). I'm a girl, and it's not like we don't have life. Especially during school. I'd ask her about the kinds of things she does out of school. Sports, stuff like that and what days she does them on etc. Then you know when she's available. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 i have a question cuz i think this is kinda ridiculous. I mean first of all, how old r all of u. I know it doesnt matter but u guys have ur whole lives ahead of u. This conversation started with someone asking for help because alot of people hate him he says. We ended up turning this into a battle about who has the most girls, the hottest girls blah blah blah. What r u trying to show off? That u can cheat on ur girlfriend better than anyone else? Thats really cool...Personally I stopped the whole dating thing because 1, Im young and dont wana stick with one girl and 2, when ur single its easier to find out wat u like in a girl (or for the girls guys) better because u can have fun with more than one person without feeling bad and ull know what u want when ur ready to get married (but thats prolly miles down the road for most of us here). All im saying is who cares what people have or think they have just to look cool on a freakin yu gi oh game. Its their life they can do what they want with it. Whether they wana lie about their personal life or cheat on their girlfriends or even if they wana date someone who isnt that attractive, the point is they like/love the person and theres no shame in that. Btw this is to max who had a few questions. Just be yourself man, things will work out on their own and come into place. Thats all u have to do because personally if u lose urself then who do u have? Thats what life should all be about. Of course anyone could argue with this which reading these things is prolly gona happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StevenBray Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 i have a question cuz i think this is kinda ridiculous. I mean first of all' date=' how old r all of u. I know it doesnt matter but u guys have ur whole lives ahead of u. This conversation started with someone asking for help because alot of people hate him he says. We ended up turning this into a battle about who has the most girls, the hottest girls blah blah blah. What r u trying to show off? That u can cheat on ur girlfriend better than anyone else? Thats really cool...Personally I stopped the whole dating thing because 1, Im young and dont wana stick with one girl and 2, when ur single its easier to find out wat u like in a girl (or for the girls guys) better because u can have fun with more than one person without feeling bad and ull know what u want when ur ready to get married (but thats prolly miles down the road for most of us here). All im saying is who cares what people have or think they have just to look cool on a freakin yu gi oh game. Its their life they can do what they want with it. Whether they wana lie about their personal life or cheat on their girlfriends or even if they wana date someone who isnt that attractive, the point is they like/love the person and theres no shame in that. Btw this is to max who had a few questions. Just be yourself man, things will work out on their own and come into place. Thats all u have to do because personally if u lose urself then who do u have? Thats what life should all be about. Of course anyone could argue with this which reading these things is prolly gona happen.[/quote'] who are you asking? and tehodis: I did say that was my experience but it may be better for Max to take advice from a girl instead of a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 Im sorry i dont understand the question. Who am I asking about what question? The age thing? And yeah its very good to be taking advice from girls but theres no better advice then be yourself because when you are your more calm, u dont care about what others think about you and you shouldnt have to in the first place. The lady's will come to you if you do that. Its always good to take advice from different people as well though. Im not saying stick with one thing while u do it but if u do more than just one thing someone says then ull be fine. So if u just be yourself and do some of things tehodis says then thats more of a chance ull get what u want. And dont worry about being unexperienced. Everyone starts somewhere. Its just who we are. i remember when i used to be like that so long ago... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StevenBray Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 Yes SG07, I mean the age thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 yes i meant everyone but my point is someone besides max asked us for help and we ended up turning his help into a battle between our personal lives. Kinda childish if u ask me. I mean really who cares. If it makes u jealous that someone has a girlfriend then u should do something about it besides attacking that person. Im not saying of course because i only read a few pages and i didnt see anything u said in it. Im just saying towards this whole thing. When someone asks for help u dont turn it into a competition. Once again this has nothing directed towards u, its just being said in general since thats what i saw out of this whole conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 i made a typo: Im not saying you* of course Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaoserver Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 heres what i say. around 5-13 dates Then I move wayyyyyy too fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HORUS Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 lol yeah. i think 13 is way too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaoserver Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 lol yeah. i think 13 is way too much. I'd say one is too much, I don't go for dates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daxinator Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 yeah i have a gf but she doesn't have a YCM account Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 anyways since nobody is listening and still tries to act like they have the better personal life. The person who actually started this convo on page 1. Maybe u should try being patient? Getting angry is never a solution, it usually comes out to being if u get anything that people are scared or feel sorry for you. I hope that doesnt make u feel bad. But if ur patient with watever relationship ur working on it will end up being ok. I understand how u feel. Some people just push past the limit. Its happened to me with people so many times before they act like were best friends and were really not (i dont believe ive actually ever done it to someone before but who knows) since its so hard to get people who wana help u on this conversation box just pm if u would like personal advice. it will be no problem. anyone else can do the same thing if they'd like im not trying to single everyone out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tehodis Posted August 20, 2007 Report Share Posted August 20, 2007 anyways since nobody is listening and still tries to act like they have the better personal life. The person who actually started this convo on page 1. Maybe u should try being patient? Getting angry is never a solution' date=' it usually comes out to being if u get anything that people are scared or feel sorry for you. I hope that doesnt make u feel bad. But if ur patient with watever relationship ur working on it will end up being ok. I understand how u feel. Some people just push past the limit. Its happened to me with people so many times before they act like were best friends and were really not (i dont believe ive actually ever done it to someone before but who knows) since its so hard to get people who wana help u on this conversation box just pm if u would like personal advice. it will be no problem. anyone else can do the same thing if they'd like im not trying to single everyone out.[/quote'] You do realize that the question was asked in May, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axiom_Nor Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 thx for all the help, so im taking tehodis' advice about once a week, and i think in 3-4 more dates (making it 5-6) ill ask her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HORUS Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 I'd say one is too much' date=' I don't go for dates.[/quote'] i agree. i have never asked anyone on a date. i just ask them to be my girlfriend :lol: im stupid :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Static Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 thx for all the help' date=' so im taking tehodis' advice about once a week, and i think in 3-4 more dates (making it 5-6) ill ask her.[/quote'] Usually people do 3, if your shy, 4. waiting 6 will cause your relationship to progress far too slowly afterwards. Also, in the case that instead of a date, she wants you to come over and hang out, without her friends there, well, lets say that she wants you to be her boyfriend. I really hope that by then, you know what your doing. i agree. i have never asked anyone on a date. i just ask them to be my girlfriend im stupid if it worked, it would be much better than dating, because you don't need a job to keep them with you. No, your not stupid, just wishful :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sulker Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 I have a boyfriend.... and we were "Together" before we ever went on a date. It's been almost a year now. We've actually been on dates since then though. Mostly it never seems like a date, we just hang out like we're best friends and then some. xD And I whoop his ass at YGO :] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna Diviner Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 hey sulker this a dead thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bdiddy Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 I have 8 girlfriends but I broke up with one cause she was cheating on me now I have 7. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Slime Lord Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 hey sulker this a dead thread. Actually it's not. Just because the posts were about 6 hours apart, doesn't make a thread dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Static Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 I have a boyfriend.... and we were "Together" before we ever went on a date. It's been almost a year now. We've actually been on dates since then though. Mostly it never seems like a date' date=' we just hang out like we're best friends and then some. xD And I whoop his ass at YGO :'] Lol, are you sure he doesn't go easy on you? :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaoserver Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 Well im bi so its easier to be in a relationship ROFL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedguitar07 Posted August 21, 2007 Report Share Posted August 21, 2007 I have 8 girlfriends but I broke up with one cause she was cheating on me now I have 7. ROFLMAO hahaha insecure much? honestly this sounds so stupid. Yeah I have about 70 girlfriends but it goes up and down sometimes because they cheat on me and I dont like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sulker Posted August 22, 2007 Report Share Posted August 22, 2007 I have a boyfriend.... and we were "Together" before we ever went on a date. It's been almost a year now. We've actually been on dates since then though. Mostly it never seems like a date' date=' we just hang out like we're best friends and then some. xD And I whoop his ass at YGO :'] Lol, are you sure he doesn't go easy on you? :P I'm not THAT bad. xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HORUS Posted August 22, 2007 Report Share Posted August 22, 2007 wow he actually plays too? thats awesome. if i was like, 'hey i like Yugioh. wanna go out on a date?' the girl would be like WTF???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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