Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I'm having A really hard time...1. My dad is in jail (DO NOT ASK WHY >.>)2. My mom is just gone, she has pretty much gone into a state of confusion, cus dads gone....3. The girl I have liked forever is dating sombody. She knows I like her, and, well, the person she is with only met her a month ago.My big problem with this is that that person she is with is 19, and is a girl....0_oPlus, that girl wants her to get amansipated, and move in with her, but that for a diff story... Idk what to do, it seems like every freaking day is getting worse and worse, and i'm losing my hope for it all to get better, I lose my family, without dad, we are gonna lose our house, and as good mesure, the iceing ont he cake is that girl, just watch, it's gonna get worse.... Please, sombody, HELP ME. I am just losing all hope... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 don't lose your hope your dad will come back from jail and till then try to talk to your mom about it maybe you will understand her and you can help each other and for the girl forget her she isn't worth it there will be many others i had a similar situation and now i have another girlfriend who loves me and i love her and we are together for 4-5 moths. keep your head up it will get better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna Diviner Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Ok just try and get through it and if the girl you like doesn't like you just move on.OR try to not date until some other time. [theirs plenty more people]And if you get your mum just make do with who and what you have.Your mum don't sound well and you dont either but atleast you have eachother and go through it till your dads back.Those were my 2 cents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azuh Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 There is really not much i can do man... in which i feel sorry for... so im just gonna tell you to stay positive... and never think of the negative... as bad things might seem, theres always a light at the end of the tunnel, you will find it eventually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks guys...My mom isn't well, she is having a really hard time with thisThe kicker is that my dad was sent to jail becuse of me really.....And, as for the girl, idk, I just can't get her off of my mind, just, after all that time, another person comes in and in less than a freaking month gets her, how....just, how?....Yeah, my life is jsut pretty screwed up right now, just, I just can't see an end to this, it just gets worse every day, i'm just losing my hope, the real reason I kind of left ycm was just cus of this, cus of this stupid stuff. What am I supposed to do? I am havingto pretty much be the main person in the house, have to do school, have to do everything, then when that girl thing happend, it just pushed me over the edge, just, idk. Just, I don't know anymore. What is the point anymore....?Sry everybody if i'm annoying.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks guys...My mom isn't well' date=' she is having a really hard time with thisThe kicker is that my dad was sent to jail becuse of me really.....And, as for the girl, idk, I just can't get her off of my mind, just, after all that time, another person comes in and in less than a freaking month gets her, how....just, how?....Yeah, my life is jsut pretty screwed up right now, just, I just can't see an end to this, it just gets worse every day, i'm just losing my hope, the real reason I kind of left ycm was just cus of this, cus of this stupid stuff. What am I supposed to do? I am havingto pretty much be the main person in the house, have to do school, have to do everything, then when that girl thing happend, it just pushed me over the edge, just, idk. Just, I don't know anymore. What is the point anymore....?Sry everybody if i'm annoying....[/quote']you are not annoying friends are here to help and i have another suggestion about that girl when she breaks up with whoever is she with now *probably a stupid person* try and ask her if she says no the she is on the lose from what i get now and you are my buddy so i know a little about you, you are really a good guy friendly and polite you really don't have to have this on your shoulder let her be if she is so blind not to see how great are you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God GAK Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 wait. You mean that your old gf turned to a lesvian?O.o I suggest that you try to find an other GF than waiting for her to return. I haven't lived under such a hard situation before so i cannot help you furthermore. And for how long is your dad going to be in jail? it is different for somebody to be in for 25 years and different for 1 month or a week for example Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks alot man, really, thanks, I only wish she would think that. But, seems like she isn't gonna leave her, she told me when se turns 16, she may get amancipated so she can live with the 19 year old girl, idk, just, WTF. I havent even seenmy dad seince 2 days after 2008 started, and, um, my mom hasn't been right seince last month, this is just getting to be too much for a 15 year old to handle, I have to take care of the house, my mom, school, and my own problems, this is a downward spiral that seemingly will never end....What can I do to stop it? I mean, how do I end this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks alot man' date=' really, thanks, I only wish she would think that. But, seems like she isn't gonna leave her, she told me when se turns 16, she may get amancipated so she can live with the 19 year old girl, idk, just, WTF. I havent even seenmy dad seince 2 days after 2008 started, and, um, my mom hasn't been right seince last month, this is just getting to be too much for a 15 year old to handle, I have to take care of the house, my mom, school, and my own problems, this is a downward spiral that seemingly will never end....What can I do to stop it? I mean, how do I end this?[/quote']good things come to people who wait but in this situation you are right this is to much then for now forget about the girl i know its hard but its to much aditional pressure for you for now try and talk to your teacher maybe she will understand and she will let you earlier from school so you can take care of the house and your problems and about your mom the best thing would be even to talk to her or just let her be a little more just let her to calm down a bit and don't lose hope it can't get worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I'm home schooled, and my mom is USUALLY my teacher, so, makes the school thing tough.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God GAK Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you. Sorry, i have nothing else to say. just good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I'm home schooled' date=' and my mom is USUALLY my teacher, so, makes the school thing tough....[/quote']then thats a bit of a problem so just follow my second advice talk to her and let her see that things will get better try to calm her down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I would, but she doesn't listen to anybody now, she only talks to dad on the phone, and by law, I can't talk to him and get him to talk to mom...>_ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 I would' date=' but she doesn't listen to anybody now, she only talks to dad on the phone, and by law, I can't talk to him and get him to talk to mom...>_<[/quote'] uhh thats another problem then let your dad talk to her and you just wait she will calm down eventually and if you wan't to talk to somebody you can always pm me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks man, this is just starting to hurt me alot.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yaden Yuki Posted March 2, 2008 Report Share Posted March 2, 2008 Thanks man' date=' this is just starting to hurt me alot....[/quote']here is something to cheer you up hope it helps a little Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 lol, thanks, they are kind of wierd pics, thanks man... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Best Male 2008 Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Thanks guys...My mom isn't well' date=' she is having a really hard time with thisThe kicker is that my dad was sent to jail becuse of me really.....And, as for the girl, idk, I just can't get her off of my mind, just, after all that time, another person comes in and in less than a freaking month gets her, how....just, how?....Yeah, my life is jsut pretty screwed up right now, just, I just can't see an end to this, it just gets worse every day, i'm just losing my hope, the real reason I kind of left ycm was just cus of this, cus of this stupid stuff. What am I supposed to do? I am havingto pretty much be the main person in the house, have to do school, have to do everything, then when that girl thing happend, it just pushed me over the edge, just, idk. Just, I don't know anymore. [b']What is the point anymore....?[/b]Sry everybody if i'm annoying.... Ask Jeeves sorry, that was mean.... if the girl is with someone else, then just hang out with her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draco Straybyrn Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Enroll in public school. Use the free therapist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyKev Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 I'm having A really hard time...1. My dad is in jail (DO NOT ASK WHY >.>)2. My mom is just gone' date=' she has pretty much gone into a state of confusion, cus dads gone....3. The girl I have liked forever is dating sombody. She knows I like her, and, well, the person she is with only met her a month ago.My big problem with this is that that person she is with is 19, and is a girl....0_oPlus, that girl wants her to get amansipated, and move in with her, but that for a diff story... Idk what to do, it seems like every freaking day is getting worse and worse, and i'm losing my hope for it all to get better, I lose my family, without dad, we are gonna lose our house, and as good mesure, the iceing ont he cake is that girl, just watch, it's gonna get worse.... Please, sombody, HELP ME. I am just losing all hope...[/quote'] Who are you going to call?Ghost Busters!lol, J/K I feel sorry for you, maybe move in with your grandparents until its all settled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Thanks guys...My mom isn't well' date=' she is having a really hard time with thisThe kicker is that my dad was sent to jail becuse of me really.....And, as for the girl, idk, I just can't get her off of my mind, just, after all that time, another person comes in and in less than a freaking month gets her, how....just, how?....Yeah, my life is jsut pretty screwed up right now, just, I just can't see an end to this, it just gets worse every day, i'm just losing my hope, the real reason I kind of left ycm was just cus of this, cus of this stupid stuff. What am I supposed to do? I am havingto pretty much be the main person in the house, have to do school, have to do everything, then when that girl thing happend, it just pushed me over the edge, just, idk. Just, I don't know anymore. [b']What is the point anymore....?[/b]Sry everybody if i'm annoying.... Ask Jeeves sorry, that was mean.... if the girl is with someone else, then just hang out with her... >_>Jeeves is retarded... Thorne, I can't get in public school, we don't have enough money. And my grandparent are dead, cept for my dads mom, but she lives in an old fokls home (XD) So, it is making it inpossible to fix, like, WTF is this Sry if i'm a bit mean today, more happend, and now i'm past sad, and on to angry if it makes seince, sry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyKev Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Thanks guys...My mom isn't well' date=' she is having a really hard time with thisThe kicker is that my dad was sent to jail becuse of me really.....And, as for the girl, idk, I just can't get her off of my mind, just, after all that time, another person comes in and in less than a freaking month gets her, how....just, how?....Yeah, my life is jsut pretty screwed up right now, just, I just can't see an end to this, it just gets worse every day, i'm just losing my hope, the real reason I kind of left ycm was just cus of this, cus of this stupid stuff. What am I supposed to do? I am havingto pretty much be the main person in the house, have to do school, have to do everything, then when that girl thing happend, it just pushed me over the edge, just, idk. Just, I don't know anymore. [b']What is the point anymore....?[/b]Sry everybody if i'm annoying.... Ask Jeeves sorry, that was mean.... if the girl is with someone else, then just hang out with her... >_>Jeeves is retarded... Thorne, I can't get in public school, we don't have enough money. And my grandparent are dead, cept for my dads mom, but she lives in an old fokls home (XD) So, it is making it inpossible to fix, like, WTF is this Sry if i'm a bit mean today, more happend, and now i'm past sad, and on to angry if it makes seince, sry... uh, have any aunts or uncles?Kind neighbors?You can ask them or live with them until its all settled Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Could, but this is a small neighberhood, so, it's no use, and the only family I had left where my grandparents, see, this is just so hard. Sry, but everything here is just going wrong at the wrong time...The girl is only the tip of the iceburge.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Careless Whisper Posted March 3, 2008 Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Here's what I would do first to calm myself down when I'm in a drastic situation, listen to music, here's a link to a youtube video with the song I usually listen to to calm me down... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a3Y5GZzMcl8 when you listen to this song, think about yourlife, and read the lyrics as they come...I'm sure it'll cheer you up alittle.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee Posted March 3, 2008 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2008 Thanks....^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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