Archangel of destiny Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Well moms can get that way,but she is only doing that because she cares for you,trust me it will eventually stop,she will see that you are happy with him and that he is not a "psycho",but until then just live with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 she wont see that hes not a psycho, because she'll never see himshes never going 2 talk 2 him, and she wont let me talk 2 him eitherso i cant be happy if she ruins my life, and she'll never no how nice he really is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sander Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 One thing Clarie, have you been able to talk with your bf? I mean, there are other ways to get in contact with him, but yeah, your mother should calm down and stfu... Say, do you have any siblings or somebody like that? Or try to talk with your bf's parents and try get them talk with your mother, maybe that will help, I'm not too sure though >_> I mean, when she was the same age as you, did her mom stop her from having a freaking relationship? I really think that no >_> Also, she should go and find a funking hobby or something like that >_> This idea is pretty crazy, I was thinking, couldn't you move in with you dad? I'm thinking that the answer is a big no, as I heard that he lives far from you >_> This is all I can suggest, I'm all out of ideas, but yet, I'm still so pissed, I cannot stand jabroniy parents like that (pardon my language, but it's true), I'll think about something, just give me some time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowferret Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Quick Question:Exactly how old are you and your "psycho" boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tefached Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 yes its true i have a new girlfriend....so congrats to me, and in the words of eric cartman,  screw you guys im going home [[because thats where she is]] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarbleZone Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Clariex: reading your posts,something crossed my mind. When you say you'll "never see your bf", do you mean you're having an online relationship and never saw your boyfriend in real life? :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arekku_Koro Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 I'm real sorry, Clairex. Well, just try to reason with your mother. Use empathy. I can understand how your mother feels in that situation. Her only (I asssume) daughter dating a complete stranger she doesn't know who just dropped out of school. She must be worried as heck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 One thing Clarie' date=' have you been able to talk with your bf? I mean, there are other ways to get in contact with him, but yeah, your mother should calm down and stfu... Say, do you have any siblings or somebody like that? Or try to talk with your bf's parents and try get them talk with your mother, maybe that will help, I'm not too sure though >_> I mean, when she was the same age as you, did her mom stop her from having a freaking relationship? I really think that no >_> Also, she should go and find a f***ing hobby or something like that >_> This idea is pretty crazy, I was thinking, couldn't you move in with you dad? I'm thinking that the answer is a big no, as I heard that he lives far from you >_> This is all I can suggest, I'm all out of ideas, but yet, I'm still so pissed, I cannot stand jabroniy parents like that (pardon my language, but it's true), I'll think about something, just give me some time...[/quote'] ive only talked 2 him a few times the past weekno, i dont have any brothers or sisters, and i cant get a hold of his parentsim not sure if anyone stopped her from having a relationship or anything, and i wont askactually, my dad is closer 2 me than my bf is, so if i moved in w/him, i still prolly wouldnt see himand thanks 4 ur help....it means a lot.... Quick Question:Exactly how old are you and your "psycho" boyfriend? im 14' date=' and he turns 16 on the 27th Clariex: reading your posts,something crossed my mind. When you say you'll "never see your bf", do you mean you're having an online relationship and never saw your boyfriend in real life? :/ yes, we rive never met himbut i no that he isnt some 50 yr old rapist or anything, cause ive tlaked 2 him on the phone and ive seen what he looks likeand i was gonna meet him in a few weeks, but now i might not cause of my mom I'm real sorry' date=' Clairex. Well, just try to reason with your mother. Use empathy. I can understand how your mother feels in that situation. Her only (I asssume) daughter dating a complete stranger she doesn't know who just dropped out of school. She must be worried as heck.[/quote'] he didnt really drop out of schooleveryone in his school treated him like sheet and his parents had 2 take him out cause it got so badbut my mom doesnt no that, and she wont listen 2 meall she nos is that he left his school and hes going 2 an online school next year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 All I say about this situation is... Bribe her with chocolate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 (lolx at ur sig "who needs a gf when u got card games?" lolx)Â anyway, that wont worki cant change her mindthe only way she'll change her mind, is if she meets him (which she prolly never will, cause she refuses 2) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Just an offtopic question to PWH: What word did you try to censor with d***? Dumb? Back on topic: Your mother needs to understand that she can't force you to be without your love. If my parents would do that to me' date=' I... I don't know how I would react, but I'm certainly not just going to sit there. It's good that you've tried to compromise with your mom, but have you tried letting your bf talk to her? Explain everything? Or is she too stubborn for that?[/quote'] Yes i did that because i dont like saying anything offensive.To: Clariex Your mom just needs to know you Bf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 i cant get her 2 talk 2 himthats the problemshe refuses 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 But why?What did he do to your mom?Or what did you do to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixty Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 OK. Let me get this straight. You have a boyfriend, whom you have no personal contact with (besides phone and net), becuase your mom is not letting you. The only way she will is if she does something she does not want to do. She does not listen to what you're telling her. Any rebellous actions, such as telling her that she is ruining your life, or moving to your dad's, is only going to get you closed off from your relationship. Oh ya, and getting your mom to know your boyfriend is not going to happen, according to your posts. Wow. Tough Situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 neither of us did anything 2 my momshe just thinks he's psycho or something>_><_<and yeah, that pretty much sums up my situation right there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Sorry for what im about to say but WT*!Why does she think that if you nor him did anything to her?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 i have absolutely no idea at all!she's just retarded or something (okay, shes not retarded....shes a college professor)but still!>_><_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 that's bad... Sniff... :(Â Note: I added both in My buddy List :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 OH! I problaly know the reason. You said a teacher right? She probably had many experiences with those teens in that classrooms. She problaly thinks that that boy that you like is like one of those teens. Sorry but *Spoiled* Irespectful. ETC> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 well, my bf isnt like thati no people like that 2, and hes completely different Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Only if yor mom understood.Try to talk with her but S-l-o-w-ly. Explain. Dont lose control. And dont let her lose it too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yasu Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 Yes... Try to talk to her... ñ_ñ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 ive tried explaining everything 2 her, many times, but she refuses 2 listen 2 me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Of The Heart Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 What the word im looking for?Oh, yea. Stuborn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larxene Posted June 12, 2008 Report Share Posted June 12, 2008 thats exactly what she isshe never listens 2 anything i tell her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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