Regrets

[chaoticjexak]

probably regretting most of my laziness-lol

[G4hardcore]

I regret coming to this thread and reading all you people's regrets. Now I'm reminded of all my regrets. Like breaking up with my girlfriend to get with her sister. Then breaking up with that girl because I felt too bad. Then later on dating a third sister. I can be such an asshole. But dinner with the parents was interesting.

[LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow]

Okay so my regrets now.

My main regret is how terrible I was in high school. As in, procrastination, skipping class, not doing work. Part of that was due to anxiety but I regret not trying harder to actually do well. I did decently without it, besides my senior year where I just gave up, so I know I could've done well had I just tried. And I greatly regret not doing so. It's made me not able to easily get into college which is another regret of mine.

Course I still got time. Just not gonna be easy.

Oh and I regret dating my ex. For oh so many reasons.

[EHN.]

I don't regret any decisions I've made in my life. In a lot of situations I think to myself there could have been a better way of doing things, but I would never undo a single thing. One way or another I'll get through life and I'd rather not bog myself down and get depressed over the past.

[LordCowCowCowCowCowCowCowCow]

I don't regret any decisions I've made in my life. In a lot of situations I think to myself there could have been a better way of doing things, but I would never undo a single thing. One way or another I'll get through life and I'd rather not bog myself down and get depressed over the past.

I do like this thought. But I feel I have to have it be said that...

Regrets aren't bad. If you get stuck on the regret and don't move on, yes, that's bad. But having regrets itself is natural and doesn't need to be negative if you don't let it be.

[Shalltear Bloodfallen]

To many to count, but I have serious regret for failing this semester. I've been lazy and to proud to take help when it was offered (and verry much needed) and not exactly feeling up for the realisation that withouth basicly a miracle, I'll have to move back in with my parents

[L0SS]

I regret trying to please too many people and hiding my thoughts and opinions because I thought they weren't worthwhile. I regret not having confidence in my abilities. I regret allowing people to push me around to often. I regret not going to the Doctor's about my depression for 2 years even when I knew it was eating away at me. I regret isolating myself for too long and developing a social anxiety which will probably always loom over me.

 

However, I'm probably in the best position I've ever been in. 18, finishing exams, having been accepted into drama school in London, to pursue a career in acting as has always been my dream and passion. And I've just restored an old friendship with someone who I used to consider my closest friend, and now we're back on track. So yes, I have plenty of regrets, but I have plenty more things to be hopeful about and that I'm looking forward to. Life's all about the give and take, and learning from mistakes. 

[a bad post]

I regret a lot, but my greatest regret is not talking to more people about being transgendered. And a regret that I will continue to have to live with for the next couple years is that I'm too scared to tell my parents that I want to transition because I'm afraid of what'll happen.

[Tourmaline]

I would have posted my own regret being that I came out to my parents but reading the previous post made that seem undesirable to only see in a negative light.

I appreciate that I did because I learned a lot more than if I never would have, and I greatly value learning over most things. It just means I'll get to start a bit later, after all.

So no matter what kind of reaction one may receive upon coming out, they should certainly always find solace in the fact that it will always be a learning experience and, even if your current group is too bigoted to be accepting, you are learning so that when you live on your own you can properly discriminate between people who do not deserve you and people who will appreciate you.

So my biggest regret would not be coming out as much as letting it get me down as much as it has. I could have been much further if I did not let it do so.

[Icy]

A lot of romantic stuff here and there. I've succeeded a lot don't worry about that, more than I let on. But there are ones that still make me cry and upset over losing.

Thing about love is? If it's real? It never goes away. Ever. Gotta move on anyway.

 

Other than that probably the same as others here sort of. Coming out as bisexual a lot sooner than at age 23 would have been nice. Which is odd considering Hawaii as a whole doesnt give a damn. So I had nothing to worry about. So that is purely a personal choice... meh I liked where I was I guess.

[Cin]

Mine was probably not getting help with my depression earlier, but it's sorted anyway.