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Careless Whisper

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My only question for this, is would you care if your girlfriend/boyfriend turned Bisexual? I would really like to know, because my friend's girlfriend turned Bisexual, and he's starting to get confused.

 

I want the best way for him to hadnle this...

 

[[so far, I came up with 1 solution, but he says he's still unsure if it's the right thing to do...

 

My suggestion was that he shouldn't care, as long as she still loves him. But, he's really depressed, because he saw her hitting on my old friend Cydonia, the lesbian that registered here alittle while back. And she even admitted that she turned Bi....anyone have another suggestion, cuz I don't him to be depressed.

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My only question for this' date=' is would you care if your girlfriend/boyfriend turned Bisexual? I would really like to know, because my friend's girlfriend turned Bisexual, and he's starting to get confused.

 

I want the best way for him to hadnle this...

 

[[so far, I came up with 1 solution, but he says he's still unsure if it's the right thing to do...

 

My suggestion was that he shouldn't care, as long as she still loves him. But, he's really depressed, because he saw her hitting on my old friend Cydonia, the lesbian that registered here alittle while back. And she even admitted that she turned Bi....anyone have another suggestion, [b']cuz I don't him to be depressed[/b].

 

I dun get it.

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Zexaeon Newbie

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=/ Well, for starters, you don't just turn bisexual - you either are or you're not. If she 'turned' bisexual, then she was probably bi all along but just didn't face up to it till now.

 

Anyway, I say you just need to be there for your friend, and you're right, he shouldn't care too much as long as she still loves him. But, if she does seem to show signs of being interested in someone else, he needs to sit down and talk to her about it, just like he would if she showing interest in another boy.

 

Make sure you stress the point to him - being up front is always the best way to go in a relationship. Hiding suspicions and actions only makes things worse.

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o_O I knew it. I effing knew it.

 

Sexually open people are on the rise. .__. I thought I was imagining it at first, but more and more and more lately, people are turning up gay and bi.

 

It's a cultural revolution! ^_^ If this keeps up for a good few decades, we might finally erase sexuality-based discrimination.

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Eh. My best-friends dating a bi-sexual, and honestly, I'd be pretty damn happy if I happened to be dating a girl that happened to like other girls. Unless she was hotter than me, then, =(. She'd get all teh chicks. ~_~.

 

Being Bi isn't an issue at all, if you consider it.

 

The girlfriend of your apparent friend has openly committed to him/her, leaving the concept of her being bi-sexual pointless to worry about. Most bi-sexual's, well, that I've known, are more or less sexually interested in the same sex at a young age (14+), whilst they stay committed to the opposite sex. Unless you're friend has an issue with his/her girlfriend kissing other dude's/girls, I'd say he should stop overreacting.

 

=/.

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Does it even matter? If he is depressed by the fact she has finally chosen to face up to her sexuality' date=' there is something wrong with him.

 

Now go have foursomes with them.

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make that a fivesome (i want to join in too)

 

but only if it go's

 

girl, me, girl, boy, boy

 

or

 

me, girl, boy, girl, boy

 

the first one is preferable

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I doubt very seriously that she's bi-sexual. Either she's gay or not. She might have an interest in the opposite sex but you have to get right down to what she prefers.

 

Personally, if she's hitting on other people, he should leave her anyway. No need for that stuff in relationships, whether she's hitting on a guy or a girl makes no difference.

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My girlfriend (or ex, it's complicated, really) is bi, and I don't mind it.

 

Heck, I'm bi, why would I even BEGIN to care?

 

It's a matter of trust for your friend.

 

If they've both invested a lot into their relationship, then they should still be happy together, regardless of her sexuality.

 

I think your friend should have more faith in his girl, and know that she loves him, the same way he loves her.

 

However, if they HAVEN'T been happy as of late, then she might be liable to change partners.

 

Of course, that's just as likely to happen at any point regardless of her sexuality if they've been going through a rough patch.

 

Basically, what I'm trying to say is your friend's girl's change is completely irrelevant to the relationship; if they were fine then, they'll be fine now, opposite is true as well, so don't point any fingers at the sexuality bit if they break up or something.

 

It's best to tell your friend to relax and accept her, it's most likely what she wants too.

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My girlfriend (or ex' date=' it's complicated, really) is bi, and I don't mind it.

 

Heck, I'm bi, why would I even BEGIN to care?

 

It's a matter of trust for your friend.

 

If they've both invested a lot into their relationship, then they should still be happy together, regardless of her sexuality.

 

I think your friend should have more faith in his girl, and know that she loves him, the same way he loves her.

 

However, if they HAVEN'T been happy as of late, then she might be liable to change partners.

 

Of course, that's just as likely to happen at any point regardless of her sexuality if they've been going through a rough patch.

 

Basically, what I'm trying to say is your friend's girl's change is completely irrelevant to the relationship; if they were fine then, they'll be fine now, opposite is true as well, so don't point any fingers at the sexuality bit if they break up or something.

 

It's best to tell your friend to relax and accept her, it's most likely what she wants too.

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Q4E (Since she is very much correct about this, as she practically stole all the words from my mouth that I was going to post).

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My girlfriend (or ex' date=' it's complicated, really) is bi, and I don't mind it.

 

Heck, I'm bi, why would I even BEGIN to care?

 

It's a matter of trust for your friend.

 

If they've both invested a lot into their relationship, then they should still be happy together, regardless of her sexuality.

 

I think your friend should have more faith in his girl, and know that she loves him, the same way he loves her.

 

However, if they HAVEN'T been happy as of late, then she might be liable to change partners.

 

Of course, that's just as likely to happen at any point regardless of her sexuality if they've been going through a rough patch.

 

Basically, what I'm trying to say is your friend's girl's change is completely irrelevant to the relationship; if they were fine then, they'll be fine now, opposite is true as well, so don't point any fingers at the sexuality bit if they break up or something.

 

It's best to tell your friend to relax and accept her, it's most likely what she wants too.

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you seem like you have gone through something like this

 

look love with win in the end

 

who ever she trually loves she will be with

 

if your friend trually loves her, he will accsept it if she doesnt back

 

a mistake i have made before is not accsepting it and it all went bad

 

so please listen to my words

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