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Let me preface this by saying I'm straight , no, fuck that. 

 

While I am straight and quite comfortable with that fact, I find it eerily repulsive when I'm having a legitimate conversation with someone regarding the matter of sexuality, and they pull the "Well, I'm not gay or anything, but... -insert condescending statement here-". I've not once heard anyone say "Well, I'm not a female, but... -insert statement regarding women's rights-".

 

I don't know, perhaps it's just me, regardless, discuss sexuality since there's quite a diverse pool on this site and everyone always seems quite adamant about disclosing theirs. 

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I couldn't give a crap about what sexuality a person is unless I was posing a sexual interest in them.

Pretty much this.
 

To elaborate, people can have whatever sexuality they wish, but they need to follow the same rules as everybody else, meaning that they shouldn't get up in our faces, they need to respect that we're no interested etc.

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But even then shouldn't you feel slightly complemented? Okay fair enough, it may seem a bit weird if someone else was like jerking off to your pictures but if they genuinely think you are attractive enough for those feelings to pass then I really don't think you should see as something "offensive" per say. Don't get me wrong I'm far from saying it's okay for someone to be creepishly going after you.
 
OT: Kind of wondering where your going with this but I'll just put my 2 pence worth in. I couldn't care less what gender someone was I'll love them either way, if I'm sexually attracted to them, fine. If I love them for their personality fine. My orientation I guess is bisexual to the extent that I'm in a relationship with another guy and he has made me happy. Don't worry guys, I'm not circle jerking to your avatars found over the internet.
 
*gasp who knew* Seriously though if anyone has anything wrong with gay/bisexual people they need to go get their arrogant ass of the internet.

I don't feel complimented by people calling me attractive save people I sincerely care about.
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I don't see the point of sexuality labels. There are those whose are pressured into a "category" that doesn't completely describe who they are, which is completely unnecessary. There shouldn't be a need to identify as one type of person or another. Plus, there are so many __sexual for me to keep track of.

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I'm a 4, if not a 5 on the Kinsey scale. 
(For those who don't know, it's a scale measuring sexual orientation: from '0' being exclusively heterosexual to '6' being exclusively homosexual)
It's mostly an emotional preference for me though.


I, however, would almost definitely never disagree to some sweet, tender, commitment-free, cuddling regardless of gender. (Given the other person smells nice).

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I'm not so much attracted to specific people so much as I'm attracted to the accelerating heartbeats and quiverings of desire inherent in everyone that surface when horny. If someone is touching me and breathing heavily in a sufficiently secure atmosphere then I reciprocate.

 

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I, however, would almost definitely never disagree to some sweet, tender, commitment-free, cuddling regardless of gender.[/quote]

 

Truth.

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I don't see the point of sexuality labels. There are those whose are pressured into a "category" that doesn't completely describe who they are, which is completely unnecessary. There shouldn't be a need to identify as one type of person or another. Plus, there are so many __sexual for me to keep track of.


I totally agree with this! Like I already get labeled enough, and now there are sexual labels too! So it's like they set you down in this box and tell you what and who you need to love. Bullshit! And the worst part is if you try to get out of that box you're labeled again? Oh he or she is bi, straight, gay, metro sexual, pan sexual, etc. Okay, I honestly don't care what you are sexually or who you're interested in. If I like you I'll talk to you, hang with you, laugh with you, etc. I'm not gonna treat you differently from all of my other friends. 

 

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I'm straight, as my profile says.

I'll go to back what Zazu said. All relationships/couples should abide by general guidelines, more so, respecting the fact that people are around them. This applies for both straight and gay couples.

Statistically, I've seen more lesbian couples in public acting as if nobody is there then hetero couples doing the same things. I don't mind, as it isn't my business and the moving away of a human's eyes is a rather quick, easy motion to execute. However, it is just odd, to me atleast (and I only speak for around my area) that gay couples seem to have to do those things more in the publics eye. Like they are proving their sexuality to everybody, which I find silly.

Anywho, Zazu/Kyng hit it on the nail. The additional comments were just /shrug and thrown in.

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I'm kind of offended by the people who are offended that we labeled Prince George a boy.  They turned the birth of a Prince into a LGBT issue and wanted us to wait to see how he identified.  He is physically a male and until he tells us he wants to be a she, or a they, or whatever he chooses, he should be a he.

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I'm kind of offended by the people who are offended that we labeled Prince George a boy.  They turned the birth of a Prince into a LGBT issue and wanted us to wait to see how he identified.  He is physically a male and until he tells us he wants to be a she, or a they, or whatever he chooses, he should be a he.

Obviously, he should use the royal "we".
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I'm kind of offended by the people who are offended that we labeled Prince George a boy. They turned the birth of a Prince into a LGBT issue and wanted us to wait to see how he identified. He is physically a male and until he tells us he wants to be a she, or a they, or whatever he chooses, he should be a he.


I'd like to think that most of those people were trolling.

Err... to tell the truth, I don't really care about the whole LGBT movement.
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I'm... I find someone attractive based on their emotions, not so much their gender or appearance, though they certainly play a part. I can go for a guy or a girl, but... If I like someone's personality, i tend to at the very least get a little crush, and sometimes worse. It's kinda hard for me to control it too.

 

I'm sure there's a term for it, but for the life of me, I don't know it.

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I really don't understand the argument of sexuality being either a choice or a natural trait.

...and I REALLY don't understand the argument of it being a disorder.

 

This is one of those subjects that you can't bring religion or politics into, cause then it will all boil down to who's a bible-burning Antichrist and who's a self-centered conservative a**hole.

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I really don't understand the argument of sexuality being either a choice or a natural trait.

...and I REALLY don't understand the argument of it being a disorder.

 

This is one of those subjects that you can't bring religion or politics into, cause then it will all boil down to who's a bible-burning Antichrist and who's a self-centered conservative a**hole.

 

Agreed.  People need to simply shut the hell up.  Problem is, if you get the bible thumping conservative to shut his mouth for a half-second the bible-burning Antichrist will immediately begin running his mouth causing the conservative asshole to start screaming back in retaliation creating a never ending loop that goes both ways but never stops. 

 

 

Anyways, I'm simply as straight as an arrow, but I'm not a fan of human interaction so I come off as almost asexual. 

 

 

On the subject of gays, I feel the same about it as I do women's rights.  Regardless of where you fall, we need to stop identifying people purely by their gender of sexuality.  What's weird is that people on the "progressive" side of things do it just as much, if not more.  Sexuality is not that big of a deal.  I used to scoff at the expression, "Gays are people to."  Of course they're people!  What did you think they were?  Turtles?  But now I've begun to see the phrase in a new light.  They are people that are gay, not merely "Gays" that only exist to be gay and provide a socio-religious/political squabble.

 

People do things you believe to be wrong.  Get over it.

 

People believe things you do are wrong.  Get over it.

 

Actual discrimination?  Sure, fight it.  People having opinions is not discrimination though, and you can't use your opinion as an excuse to discriminate.

 

 

I guess I really am a centrist aren't I?

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Anyways, I'm simply as straight as an arrow, but I'm not a fan of human interaction so I come off as almost asexual. 

 

For a while I've considered myself the same thing, but now I consider myself bi-curious (liking girls more). Not gonna lie; there's some pretty sexy guys out there, all whom have the kind of personality that I can totally be gay for.

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